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Anu Krishna |1600 Answers |Ask -Follow

Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Mar 03, 2025

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Question by Ajay on Feb 27, 2025Hindi

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Hi, I am Ajay R from Chennai. 40 yo male married for 11 yrs with no child, currently trying to get divorced from my spouse but she is not willing to. we tried multiple ivfs but all resulted in failures. the relationship is not at a happy path. I have come up from very humble background and future seems all grey. I have old parents to take care of but other than that i am all alone. i do have my own savings of 3cr. What do you suggest, what path should i take.

Ans: Dear Ajay,
Kindly set up an appointment for a Couples Therapy. Lack of success with pregnancy, drills many holes within a marriage and when not handled well can drain the relationship. Give the therapy a chance before suggesting divorce.

All the best!
Anu Krishna
Mind Coach|NLP Trainer|Author
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Hi.i am 39 years married man.with a 16 year son.i have a major issue with my wife for a couple of years.due to which I want to divorce her and marry a women.but to due to circumstances I am not been able to get things done properly.so my finished condition is not very strong n and no proper support from my family also I love a woman who is divorced and having a 9 year old daughter.and want to get married to her immediately.please advice on this.

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
I am sorry, i absolutely do not understand what problem you are facing?
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Only when you can share these details, will I be able to make a suggestion to guide your further.

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Ans: Dear Anonymous,
I understand that it is difficult to stay in an unhappy marriage. It also seems to me that you already know that you have to legally separate from your wife before you move on to another relationship. I would suggest consulting a divorce lawyer to get a better idea of the whole process. You should also have an open discussion with the woman you are in love with about your financial condition. She should have a clear picture of whom she's marrying. Let me also remind you to be very careful about your dealings and not rush into anything because both of you have young and impressionable kids. They should not have to suffer.
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Hi, I am Ajay R from Chennai. 40 yo male married for 11 yrs with no child, currently trying to get divorced from my spouse but she is not willing to. we tried multiple ivfs but all resulted in failures. the relationship is not at a happy path. I have come up from very humble background and future seems all grey. I have old parents to take care of but other than that i am all alone. i do have my own savings which will help for for future. What do you suggest, what path should i take. i have no intention of reconcilation and 100% sure on that.

Ans: Dear Ajay,
I would suggest you speak to a lawyer on how to legally go around this. On a more emotional level, I can advise you to keep to yourself. I am not able to be of much help without knowing a little more detail about your situation.

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Hello Dr Upneet, Hi, I am Ajay R from Chennai. 40 yo male married for 11 yrs with no child, currently trying to get divorced from my spouse but she is not willing to. we tried multiple ivfs but all resulted in failures. the relationship is not at a happy path. I have come up from very humble background and future seems all grey. I have old parents to take care of but other than that i am all alone. i do have my own savings which will help for for future. What do you suggest, what path should i take. i have no intention of reconcilation and 100% sure on that.

Ans: Hello Ajay! Before I answer your query, I want to ask you something. Other than the kids issue, do you have any other problem with her?
Will wait for your reply.
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