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I have a friend who's sailing in the same boat as you.
She's a newly single mom and was very worried during her divorce that she would never find love again. Her husband had already taken up with another woman before their paperwork was finalised.
So I'm going to give you the same advice I gave her -- stop looking.
She did and, a year later, she's in a new but happy relationship.
The guy she's with is someone she always knew as an acquaintance. Post her divorce, they became close and he is fond of the child as well.
There may be challenges ahead but the point is, as soon as she let life take over instead of this obsession to find someone else, a relationship came up unexpectedly and out of nowhere.
So breathe, recover from old wounds and let things happen as they must. Stop planning a second marriage right away.