Hi i am 47 yrs old diabetic staying with my parents married with 1 daughter of 11 years old i and my wife are staying seperately from Last 17 years like a divorced couple i am in such a stress due to this relation please suggest a way out

Ans: You can lead a balanced life, consuming natural forms of sugar and avoiding the 3 whites - Maida, white sugar and white rice in your diet. If you have recently developed this condition, please do a basic detox of Karela juice (2tbsps every morning) for 21 days. Keep a close check on your sugar levels during this period. A complete consultation with an Ayurvedic doctor or naturopath can help you identify the root cause, your body type and advise a diet accordingly.

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Why are we a part of a world that looks the other way in a jiffy? If you have a condition that makes sex a bit difficult, doesn't it make sense to actually handle the situation jointly as husband and wife?
Anyway, now that you say that your wife is ready to be lured by 'another', you have another battle on your hands. Make a strong move by actually connecting with her emotionally. Pay her compliments, plan trips together; you basically woo her back. On your end, do visit a doctor who can treat you holistically. You need to improve your stamina as some medicines bring down stamina and add fatigue. Exercise everyday and take care of your dietary needs very carefully. Sooner than later, you will find yourself back in the game; but be persistent with proper self-care.

All the best!

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
When it comes to family and managing within an income, it can be difficult but not impossible.
Step 01:
Cut down on unnecessary expenses (You and your wife can make a budget and stick to it)
Step 02:
Find ways to make additional income (You and/or your wife can find ways to make some extra money; online tuitions/cookery classes etc)

Now, if being in the same job has become boring and there is no further scope to grow as a salesman, then maybe it's time to actually do something different? This decision has to be made after considering what savings you have and how much you will need to dip into it till the time you figure out what you can do or till the point you get another job.
No point being frustrated BUT it's maybe a good time to actually think of what more and what different you can do? A lot of people change career paths in their 40s BUT there is a right time for it. Consider this only after you and your wife have had a chance to talk about it and then look at your finances (expenses, loans etc) and then make the right call.

All the best!
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Ans: Mr. Dave,
I understand that your diabetes has affected your sexual relationship, leading to frustration. Open communication with your spouse is crucial. Discuss your feelings and concerns honestly with her. There are medical treatments and therapies available that might help improve your sexual function, so consult with a healthcare professional.

If considering an open relationship, proceed with caution. Both partners must fully agree and understand the potential impact on your marriage and family. Seeking guidance from a therapist can help facilitate these discussions.

Focus on maintaining emotional intimacy and other forms of physical affection to keep your connection strong. Addressing these issues openly and with professional support can help you find a resolution that respects both your needs and those of your spouse.