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New to Online Dating at 41: How to Impress on Dating Apps?

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Asked by Anonymous - Sep 19, 2024Hindi
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I am 41 and new to online dating and dating apps. How do I impress someone I haven't met? How to start a conversation -- be polite, mysterious or flirty? Please share some tips

Ans: Dear Anonymous,

Welcome to the online dating world. Being polite always works; polite with a hint of flirty and mystery is the best combo. You can start with a genuine message- Introduce yourself; take a good look at their profile and mention something that attracted you to them; avoid generic openers; be respectful at all times; add a bit of humor to show off your goofy side; try asking open-ended questions that will push them to reply; lastly, be yourself.

Best Wishes.

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