34, Unmarried, Long-Term Relationship: Waiting for Approval or Moving On?

I have a relationship,he is a good guy, understanding,caring,and perfect at every aspect howI want my partner to be.But my father isn't agreeing to the marriage ,just because he earns less,and eant delay marriage by two years.My boyfriend is trying is trying his oevel best to cope up ,even had agreed to talk to my parents,also comvinced his family. The only problem lies is with my father. What shall I do?

Hello, I fell in love with a boy 6 years younger than me. Besides knowing that family and society will not accept this relationship I fell in love with him and we spend a beautiful nice happy moments with each other. My parents when get to know they forced me to stop my job snatched my phone stopped me to use any social media so that I cannot contact him. And I was not allowed to leave house alone. It's been 9 years now I still don't have my own mobile phone or are not allowed to leave house alone. In these years twice or thrice my partner's parents have called my father regarding our marriage proposal but my father refused. I have tried him alot of time that I can't marry anyone else we want to be with each other we love each other he just don't understand. I have even told him if not him I will always stay here without marrying anyone he said okay love here but I will not allow you to marry him. They are not of our standard he is younger than you he can't keep you. They even have told me false things like he has a girlfriend outside we have seen him with girl. He is alcoholic etc. my partner is now out of patience he said I need you with me now and when are you coming your parents are not agreeing it's been 9 years and same situation. So I initiated a healthy calm talk to my father again three days back. I told him I am 32 now and it's my decision I want to marry him. It might be a bad decision like you think but it would be my decision and I will bear the responsibility of that. And it will also help me to move on. I want to give a chance and want you to respect my decisions and he said you decision or wrong. He is not a good guy his mother has insulted me. And I said I am not living with his mother its him I want to spend my life with. He said I can't see your future their but I was firm on my decision and than he said I will think about it. Today my mother told my younger brother that father has said no to my decision. I don't understand i don't trust my mother she has lied to me before many times. And I am feeling stucked here

Madam i am 31 yrs old female, I love my college mate he is of my age. We both love each other and he is of another faith. His parents are accept whatever he says, but my parents are not accepting. Since 4 years i am trying to convince them but they are not at all even trying to understand inspite they are trying to convince me to marry someone with in our caste. My boyfriend also spoke with my father but he is very stubborn about his decision. My boyfriend is asking me to take a decision to either choose him or my parents, i know he loves me a lot but he also concerns about our age. He said its already latr, if we marry now also we will be starting our life very late. What should i do my parents are very sensitive to the judgememnts of the society. If i choose him, i dont know how they gonna handle. But also i dont want to loose him. He dont want to wait now.