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Suwon Question by Suwon on Aug 15, 2024Hindi
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Hi, I 29 female, met a guy from matrimony who is a doctor. When I asked about his age, he told he is 32 years old. He sometimes talk to me well and sometimes he just left me seen and doesn’t reply. When I asked, he always told ki he was busy as he is a doctor. After meeting 5 times one day I told him I like him. Then he told He has some other aspects too. But he told he will tell me the day when he will feel I can compromise some points about him. I got curious and happened to get his registration number and then I found his real age which was 36 years. Then I asked why you lied, he told it’s because fear of rejection. Now He is blaming me as i cross checked him behind his back. And he rejected me saying I have a doubtful nature. Should I blame myself? I really liked that guy. Please advise

Ans: Dear Suwon,

You have nothing to blame yourself for. While we say, age does not always matter but it is completely alright if it does to you. He is the one who lied to you. You have every right to cross-check a match. He needed you to compromise and can't deal with the fact that you demand the truth. That is called gaslighting. Don't give in to it. Keep your head high and move on.

Best Wishes.

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