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**Subject:** Request for Investment Review and Future Corpus Estimation Dear Mr.Vivek, I hope this message finds you well. I wanted to review my current investment portfolio and seek your expert advice regarding the future growth potential, as I aim to build a corpus of at least INR 3 - 5 crores by the time my daughters turn 18 years old. Is this figure realizable? Here’s a breakdown of my current investments: 1. **Mirae Asset Large & Midcap Fund (Direct Growth)** – INR 5,000 monthly - Current value: INR 135,281 2. **Canara Robeco Small Cap Fund (Direct Growth)** – INR 10,000 monthly - Current value: INR 210,164 3. **Quant Small Cap Fund (Direct Plan Growth)** – INR 5,000 monthly - Just started; current value: INR 5,190 4. **ICICI Prudential Balanced Advantage Fund (Growth)** – INR 20,000 monthly - Current value: INR 583,113 5. **HDFC Balanced Advantage Fund (Growth)** – INR 15,000 monthly - Current value: INR 503,604 6. **SBI Balanced Advantage Fund (Regular Growth)** – INR 15,000 monthly - Current value: INR 321,491 7. **Sukanya Samriddhi Yojana (SSY)** – INR 50,000 annually for my 9-year-old daughter - Current value: INR 565,805 (since 2016) 8. **Provident Fund (PF)** – Current balance: INR 10 lakh 9. **Tata AIA Life Insurance Fortune Pro ** – Started last year INR 150,000 to be paid for 5 years till 2027 10. SBI Child Plan Smart Scholar - Completed INR 500,000 Total Investment for 5 Years in 2024. From this year every financial year I plan to invest my working bonus of INR 3 Lacs to INR 5 Lacs every year as a bulk investment and diversify in different funds. I am 46 years old and plan to continue working and investing for another 5 to 6 years due to health reasons. My spouse is 37, and we have two daughters aged 9 and 5. My goal is to accumulate a corpus of at least INR 3 to 5 crores by the time my daughters reach 18 years of age. Based on my current investments, do you think this target is achievable within the given timeframe? I would greatly appreciate any suggestions or adjustments you might recommend to help reach this goal. Thank you for your guidance.

Ans: Yes your target is achievable in the given time frame.(13% return assumed) I am sure you have planned for some regular income after you stop working (~6 years from now) to meet the regular expenses. Plz. Make sure you have good family floater health insurance coverage apart from the employer's group health policy if any. Insurers typically insist 3-4 years of continuous coverage after which pre existing illnesses are covered. Consider investing in SSY in the name of second daughter, if possible. As you approach your target move corpus away from equity MFs into liquid or ultra short term debt funds.

*Investments in mutual funds are subjected to market risks. Please read all scheme related documents carefully before investing

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**Subject:** Request for Investment Review and Future Corpus Estimation Dear Mr.Ramalingam, I hope this message finds you well. I wanted to review my current investment portfolio and seek your expert advice regarding the future growth potential, as I aim to build a corpus of at least INR 3 - 5 crores by the time my daughters turn 18 years old. Is this figure realizable? Here’s a breakdown of my current investments: 1. **Mirae Asset Large & Midcap Fund (Direct Growth)** – INR 5,000 monthly - Current value: INR 135,281 2. **Canara Robeco Small Cap Fund (Direct Growth)** – INR 10,000 monthly - Current value: INR 210,164 3. **Quant Small Cap Fund (Direct Plan Growth)** – INR 5,000 monthly - Just started; current value: INR 5,190 4. **ICICI Prudential Balanced Advantage Fund (Growth)** – INR 20,000 monthly - Current value: INR 583,113 5. **HDFC Balanced Advantage Fund (Growth)** – INR 15,000 monthly - Current value: INR 503,604 6. **SBI Balanced Advantage Fund (Regular Growth)** – INR 15,000 monthly - Current value: INR 321,491 7. **Sukanya Samriddhi Yojana (SSY)** – INR 50,000 annually for my 9-year-old daughter - Current value: INR 565,805 (since 2016) 8. **Provident Fund (PF)** – Current balance: INR 10 lakh 9. **Tata AIA Life Insurance Fortune Pro ** – Started last year INR 150,000 to be paid for 5 years till 2027 10. SBI Child Plan Smart Scholar - Completed INR 500,000 Total Investment for 5 Years in 2024. From this year every financial year I plan to invest my working bonus of INR 3 Lacs to INR 5 Lacs every year as a bulk investment and diversify in different funds. I am 46 years old and plan to continue working and investing for another 5 to 6 years due to health reasons. My spouse is 37, and we have two daughters aged 9 and 5. My goal is to accumulate a corpus of at least INR 3 to 5 crores by the time my daughters reach 18 years of age. Based on my current investments, do you think this target is achievable within the given timeframe? I would greatly appreciate any suggestions or adjustments you might recommend to help reach this goal. Thank you for your guidance.
Ans: You’ve put together a well-diversified portfolio with a mix of equity and hybrid funds, Sukanya Samriddhi Yojana (SSY), Provident Fund (PF), and insurance-linked investments. Each of these investments serves a different purpose, and it’s clear that you have a strong focus on building wealth while securing your daughters' future.

Given that you plan to invest a significant portion of your bonus in the coming years, it’s important to assess whether your current strategy will meet your target corpus of Rs 3-5 crores when your daughters turn 18. Let’s evaluate your portfolio in detail.

Assessment of Equity Mutual Funds
Mirae Asset Large & Midcap Fund, Canara Robeco Small Cap Fund, Quant Small Cap Fund: These funds are growth-oriented with potential for substantial returns over the long term. Your monthly SIPs in these funds are well-placed, and their current values indicate a positive trend. However, as small-cap funds tend to be more volatile, it’s important to monitor them regularly and rebalance if necessary.

ICICI Prudential Balanced Advantage Fund, HDFC Balanced Advantage Fund, SBI Balanced Advantage Fund: These funds offer a balanced approach by investing in a mix of equity and debt. They are designed to manage volatility, making them a stable choice for medium-term goals. Your consistent investments in these funds are helping you build a solid foundation for your corpus.

Given that you are contributing significant amounts to Balanced Advantage Funds, this shows a prudent approach to managing risk while aiming for growth. However, it’s crucial to ensure that these funds align with your risk tolerance as you near retirement.

Sukanya Samriddhi Yojana (SSY) for Your Daughter
Sukanya Samriddhi Yojana (SSY): Your annual contribution to SSY for your 9-year-old daughter is a wise choice. This scheme offers guaranteed returns and tax benefits, making it an excellent option for long-term, low-risk investment. With the current value of Rs 5,65,805, you are on track, but it's essential to continue this contribution until maturity to maximize the benefit for your daughter's higher education or marriage expenses.
Provident Fund (PF)
Provident Fund (PF): Your PF balance of Rs 10 lakh is a significant component of your retirement savings. The regular contributions and employer match provide a stable, low-risk return, which is crucial for wealth preservation. This fund will serve as a backbone for your retirement corpus.
Insurance-Linked Investments
Tata AIA Life Insurance Fortune Pro: Insurance-cum-investment products like these generally have lower returns compared to pure investment products like mutual funds. While they provide life cover, the investment returns may not be sufficient to meet your high-growth goals. You might want to evaluate the performance after the lock-in period and consider redirecting future premiums into mutual funds if the returns are unsatisfactory.

SBI Child Plan Smart Scholar: Having completed your investment in this child plan, it's time to assess its performance. If the returns are on the lower side, consider using the maturity proceeds to invest in a high-growth equity fund or balanced fund to further boost your corpus.

Planned Bulk Investments
Future Bulk Investments: Your plan to invest Rs 3-5 lakhs annually as a lump sum from your bonuses is a great strategy. However, it's essential to deploy this lump sum in a staggered manner, like a Systematic Transfer Plan (STP), to mitigate market volatility. You might consider adding these funds to existing high-performing equity funds or explore new opportunities in growth-oriented funds.
Future Growth Potential and Target Realization
Assessing the Achievability of Rs 3-5 Crore Corpus
Your goal of building a corpus of Rs 3-5 crores by the time your daughters turn 18 is ambitious but achievable. However, it will require careful planning and disciplined execution. Here are some key points to consider:

Time Horizon: With a 9-year and a 5-year time horizon, your portfolio should focus on growth-oriented investments in the earlier years, gradually shifting towards more stable, low-risk assets as you near the target date. This will help protect your accumulated wealth from market volatility.

Asset Allocation: Currently, you have a mix of equity and balanced funds. As your daughters approach 18, you might want to shift a portion of your equity investments into safer options like debt funds or fixed deposits to preserve the capital.

Inflation and Taxation: Consider the impact of inflation on your target corpus. What may seem like a large sum today may not have the same purchasing power in the future. Also, be mindful of the tax implications on your investments, particularly on the returns from mutual funds and insurance plans.

Suggestions for Portfolio Adjustments
Enhance Equity Exposure: While you have a good mix of funds, increasing your allocation to high-growth equity funds can help you reach the Rs 5 crore target. Consider redirecting the future premiums of your insurance plans or part of your Balanced Advantage Fund investments into aggressive equity funds.

Surrender Underperforming Insurance Plans: If your Tata AIA Life Insurance and SBI Child Plan do not meet expectations, consider surrendering them after evaluating the surrender value and investing the proceeds in higher-return options.

Regular Reviews and Rebalancing: The market environment and your personal circumstances may change over time. Regular reviews of your portfolio and timely rebalancing will help ensure that your investments remain aligned with your goals.

Avoid Over-Diversification: While diversification is important, too much of it can dilute returns. Focus on a few high-performing funds and avoid spreading your investments too thin.

Risk Management: As you approach the end of your working years, it’s crucial to reduce exposure to high-risk assets. Gradually move a portion of your investments into safer instruments like debt funds, bonds, or even a fixed deposit.

Final Insights
Your dedication to building a secure financial future for your daughters is commendable. With consistent and strategic investments, your target of Rs 3-5 crores is within reach. The key will be maintaining a disciplined approach, regularly reviewing your portfolio, and making necessary adjustments based on market conditions and life changes.

Remember to keep an eye on both growth and safety as you transition into retirement. By doing so, you can confidently achieve your financial goals and provide your daughters with a strong financial foundation.

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Ans: Yes your target is achievable in the given time frame.(13% conservative return assumed). I am sure you have planned for some regular income after you stop working(~6 years from now) to meet the regular expenses. Please make sure you have good family floater health insurance apart from employer's group health policy if any. Insurers typically insist 3-4 years of continuous coverage after which pre existing illnesses are covered. Consider investing in SSY in the name of second daughter if possible. As you approach your target move corpus away from equity MFs into liquid or ultra short duration debt funds.

*Investments in mutual funds are subject to market risks. Please read all scheme related documents carefully before investing

You may follow us on X at @mars_invest for updates.

Happy Investing

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Given that you plan to invest a significant portion of your bonus in the coming years, it’s important to assess whether your current strategy will meet your target corpus of Rs 3-5 crores when your daughters turn 18. Let’s evaluate your portfolio in detail.

Assessment of Equity Mutual Funds
Mirae Asset Large & Midcap Fund, Canara Robeco Small Cap Fund, Quant Small Cap Fund: These funds are growth-oriented with potential for substantial returns over the long term. Your monthly SIPs in these funds are well-placed, and their current values indicate a positive trend. However, as small-cap funds tend to be more volatile, it’s important to monitor them regularly and rebalance if necessary.

ICICI Prudential Balanced Advantage Fund, HDFC Balanced Advantage Fund, SBI Balanced Advantage Fund: These funds offer a balanced approach by investing in a mix of equity and debt. They are designed to manage volatility, making them a stable choice for medium-term goals. Your consistent investments in these funds are helping you build a solid foundation for your corpus.

Given that you are contributing significant amounts to Balanced Advantage Funds, this shows a prudent approach to managing risk while aiming for growth. However, it’s crucial to ensure that these funds align with your risk tolerance as you near retirement.

Sukanya Samriddhi Yojana (SSY) for Your Daughter
Sukanya Samriddhi Yojana (SSY): Your annual contribution to SSY for your 9-year-old daughter is a wise choice. This scheme offers guaranteed returns and tax benefits, making it an excellent option for long-term, low-risk investment. With the current value of Rs 5,65,805, you are on track, but it's essential to continue this contribution until maturity to maximize the benefit for your daughter's higher education or marriage expenses.
Provident Fund (PF)
Provident Fund (PF): Your PF balance of Rs 10 lakh is a significant component of your retirement savings. The regular contributions and employer match provide a stable, low-risk return, which is crucial for wealth preservation. This fund will serve as a backbone for your retirement corpus.
Insurance-Linked Investments
Tata AIA Life Insurance Fortune Pro: Insurance-cum-investment products like these generally have lower returns compared to pure investment products like mutual funds. While they provide life cover, the investment returns may not be sufficient to meet your high-growth goals. You might want to evaluate the performance after the lock-in period and consider redirecting future premiums into mutual funds if the returns are unsatisfactory.

SBI Child Plan Smart Scholar: Having completed your investment in this child plan, it's time to assess its performance. If the returns are on the lower side, consider using the maturity proceeds to invest in a high-growth equity fund or balanced fund to further boost your corpus.

Planned Bulk Investments
Future Bulk Investments: Your plan to invest Rs 3-5 lakhs annually as a lump sum from your bonuses is a great strategy. However, it's essential to deploy this lump sum in a staggered manner, like a Systematic Transfer Plan (STP), to mitigate market volatility. You might consider adding these funds to existing high-performing equity funds or explore new opportunities in growth-oriented funds.
Future Growth Potential and Target Realization
Assessing the Achievability of Rs 3-5 Crore Corpus
Your goal of building a corpus of Rs 3-5 crores by the time your daughters turn 18 is ambitious but achievable. However, it will require careful planning and disciplined execution. Here are some key points to consider:

Time Horizon: With a 9-year and a 5-year time horizon, your portfolio should focus on growth-oriented investments in the earlier years, gradually shifting towards more stable, low-risk assets as you near the target date. This will help protect your accumulated wealth from market volatility.

Asset Allocation: Currently, you have a mix of equity and balanced funds. As your daughters approach 18, you might want to shift a portion of your equity investments into safer options like debt funds or fixed deposits to preserve the capital.

Inflation and Taxation: Consider the impact of inflation on your target corpus. What may seem like a large sum today may not have the same purchasing power in the future. Also, be mindful of the tax implications on your investments, particularly on the returns from mutual funds and insurance plans.

Suggestions for Portfolio Adjustments
Enhance Equity Exposure: While you have a good mix of funds, increasing your allocation to high-growth equity funds can help you reach the Rs 5 crore target. Consider redirecting the future premiums of your insurance plans or part of your Balanced Advantage Fund investments into aggressive equity funds.

Surrender Underperforming Insurance Plans: If your Tata AIA Life Insurance and SBI Child Plan do not meet expectations, consider surrendering them after evaluating the surrender value and investing the proceeds in higher-return options.

Regular Reviews and Rebalancing: The market environment and your personal circumstances may change over time. Regular reviews of your portfolio and timely rebalancing will help ensure that your investments remain aligned with your goals.

Avoid Over-Diversification: While diversification is important, too much of it can dilute returns. Focus on a few high-performing funds and avoid spreading your investments too thin.

Risk Management: As you approach the end of your working years, it’s crucial to reduce exposure to high-risk assets. Gradually move a portion of your investments into safer instruments like debt funds, bonds, or even a fixed deposit.

Final Insights
Your dedication to building a secure financial future for your daughters is commendable. With consistent and strategic investments, your target of Rs 3-5 crores is within reach. The key will be maintaining a disciplined approach, regularly reviewing your portfolio, and making necessary adjustments based on market conditions and life changes.

Remember to keep an eye on both growth and safety as you transition into retirement. By doing so, you can confidently achieve your financial goals and provide your daughters with a strong financial foundation.

Best Regards,

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Chief Financial Planner,

www.holisticinvestment.in

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