I am a seniior citizen, husbsnd & wife residing in own house and taking care of siper cirizen (90 yrs) My neibour taken up extension of the building by adding 2 more floors to his existing gf + ff units. Site measuring 30'× 26' ( divided portion of 30'× 53 ' Only 3' to 4' gap is there betwen the stricture now cinstruction & our portion exposing us of falling out of contruction materials on us and Parked vehicle & putting us in lot of risk and axiety . The neibouring owner and the The contractorhas provided side protection partially & not taken safety measures to prevent falling if constn material which would cause damger to us. Reminders to them to provide sufficient protection & safety measures has fallen on deat ears. They are even adament. Suggest a best way to resolve the issue without affecting the relationship with each. other afterall we neibours.

Ans: I understand the concern you're facing with the construction activity next door and the potential risk it poses to your safety and property. It's indeed a challenging situation, especially when dealing with neighbors.

Here are some steps you can consider to address the issue without straining your relationship:

Open Communication: Initiate a conversation with your neighbor in a calm and respectful manner. Express your concerns about the safety hazards caused by the ongoing construction activity. Approach the conversation with empathy and understanding, acknowledging that you both share the same neighborhood.
Collaborative Solutions: Instead of placing blame, focus on finding collaborative solutions that ensure the safety and well-being of both parties. Propose practical measures such as installing additional safety barriers or netting to prevent debris from falling onto your property.
Seek Mediation: If direct communication doesn't yield positive results, consider involving a neutral third party, such as a community leader or mediator, to facilitate a constructive dialogue between you and your neighbor. Mediation can help find mutually acceptable solutions while preserving the relationship.
Legal Options: As a last resort, you may explore legal options to address the safety concerns if all attempts at resolution fail. Consult with a legal expert to understand your rights and options under local laws and regulations governing construction activities and property disputes.
Remember, the goal is to resolve the issue amicably while safeguarding your safety and well-being. Maintaining a positive relationship with your neighbor is essential for a harmonious neighborhood environment.

Best Regards,
K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,
Chief Financial Planner,
www.holisticinvestment.in