I am 42 year old, i have debt of 25 lakh which include credit card bill of 1lakh. One of the lender file court cases as well. I am earning 90k but my expenses including household expenses is more than what I earn. How to deal with this and come out of debt.
Ans: You are in a very challenging phase, but this situation can be reversed with the right steps. You have taken the first and most important step by acknowledging the problem. With discipline, focus, and proper planning, you can work towards a debt-free and financially stable future.
» Immediate Cash Flow Assessment
– Write down all sources of income, including salary and any side earnings.
– List all fixed and variable monthly expenses separately.
– This will show exactly where your income is going.
– Many people underestimate small expenses which actually drain cash flow.
– Knowing the truth is the first step to change.
» Handling Court Case and Legal Debt
– Contact a legal expert who deals in debt settlement cases.
– Explain your income and expense reality honestly to them.
– Many times, lenders agree to settlement when repayment capacity is low.
– Request for settlement in writing and keep all proofs of payment.
– Do not ignore legal notices, as it can increase penalties and costs.
» Credit Card Debt Control
– Stop using the credit card immediately to avoid further debt build-up.
– Credit card interest is among the highest in the market.
– Pay at least the minimum due to avoid extra penalties.
– Aim to close the card debt first once some funds are free.
– Negotiate with the bank for a lower settlement amount if needed.
» Reducing Household Expenses
– Check all recurring expenses like rent, groceries, utilities, subscriptions.
– Remove all non-essential spends like eating out, entertainment, or extra services.
– Use cash for daily expenses to control overspending.
– Delay large purchases until debt is under control.
– Involve your family so everyone supports the cost-cutting process.
» Increasing Income Sources
– Explore part-time or freelance work to boost income temporarily.
– Use any skill you have, like teaching, repairing, writing, or selling online.
– Even small extra income will help clear debt faster.
– Sell unused items like electronics, jewellery, or furniture to raise lump sums.
» Debt Consolidation Options
– If possible, combine multiple high-interest loans into one lower-interest loan.
– This reduces total monthly outflow and simplifies repayment.
– Choose only if EMI is affordable and repayment discipline is maintained.
– Avoid fresh credit unless it directly helps reduce cost of existing debt.
» Prioritising Debt Repayment
– Rank your debts by interest rate and urgency.
– Pay minimum due for all loans, but target highest interest first.
– This reduces the overall interest burden faster.
– For legal and court case loans, prioritise to avoid more complications.
» Psychological and Behavioural Changes
– Avoid comparing lifestyle with others during this phase.
– Focus only on needs, not wants, until you are debt free.
– Reward yourself with small non-costly celebrations for debt milestones.
– Keep a written track of your progress to stay motivated.
» Avoiding Future Debt Traps
– Once debt is under control, build a 3–6 month emergency fund.
– Use debit cards or cash instead of credit for purchases.
– Plan any big spend in advance and save for it instead of borrowing.
– Avoid personal loans for lifestyle expenses.
» Impact on Credit Score
– Missed payments will lower your credit score, but it can be rebuilt.
– Clearing legal cases and settling debts will help in future score recovery.
– Avoid taking new loans until your score improves.
– Always check your credit report once a year to ensure no errors remain.
» Role of Professional Guidance
– A Certified Financial Planner can guide in creating a realistic repayment plan.
– They can also help restructure your debt with lenders.
– Professional guidance prevents emotional decisions which can worsen debt.
» Mental Health During Debt Stress
– Debt can cause high stress and health issues if ignored.
– Practice stress control methods like walking, breathing exercises, or meditation.
– Stay connected with supportive family and friends.
– Do not feel ashamed; many people have recovered from worse situations.
» Finally
– You are not alone; many have faced bigger debts and come out stronger.
– The key is strict expense control, extra income, and prioritised repayment.
– Handle legal cases actively to avoid more damage.
– Stop credit card use, focus on settlement or closure.
– Commit for 18–36 months of disciplined living to reset your finances.
– Once debt-free, build savings first before any new lifestyle upgrades.
– This phase is temporary; with consistent action, you can win over it.
Best Regards,
K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,
Chief Financial Planner,
www.holisticinvestment.in
https://www.youtube.com/@HolisticInvestment