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General Physician - Answered on Apr 30, 2023

Dr Karthiyayini Mahadevan has been practising for 30 years.
She specialises in general medicine, child development and senior citizen care.
A graduate from Madurai Medical College, she has DNB training in paediatrics and a postgraduate degree in developmental neurology.
She has trained in Tai chi, eurythmy, Bothmer gymnastics, spacial dynamics and yoga.
She works with children with development difficulties at Sparrc Institute and is the head of wellness for senior citizens at Columbia Pacific Communities.... more
Dipak Question by Dipak on Mar 23, 2023Hindi
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My wife, aged 48 yrs., taking Tab. Lozep 2 mg and Tab. Esta 10mg for the past 2 years as per doctor's advise. Are these drugs safe for long time use?

Ans: Any drugs which are chemicals and synthetic has a long term has its, impact on human system.
The question is why do you need sleeping tablets. Please work out a, solution to come off the sleep inducing medication.
Techniques for relaxation, through Movement, breathing and through proper sleep rhythms
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