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Child and Parenting Counsellor - Answered on Aug 02, 2023

Aruna Agarwal is a qualified child psychologist and behaviour therapist with over 20 years of experience.
She has a master’s degree in psychology with a specialisation in behaviour analysis. She focuses on children between the ages of 2-10 years who face challenges related to behaviour, language development or attention issues and providing them with the right life skills.
Agarwal is the owner of Kidzee, a pre-primary school, and Mount Litera Zee School that caters to primary students.... more
Vilas Question by Vilas on Aug 02, 2023Hindi
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MY son is studying in 3rd year BE, preparing GRE, attending online courses, also doing JYM regularly, college hours more than 8 hrs, managing time schedule is difficult, pls guide on time schedule.

Ans: Time management is the key to success.
Productivity is not through number of hours but through quality of time to be spent at each course.Smart study hours along with continuous schedules should help. Be consistent in the efforts and maintain a log for understanding how he has planned vs spent his day.
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You have not provided information regarding the number of hours your son sleeps.

(1) Given that your son is only 8 years old, it is important to ensure he gets a minimum of 8 hours of sleep at night and 2 hours in the afternoon. Sleeping hours can be reduced once he enters the 6th Standard.

(2) Ensure he receives a balanced diet and nutritious food to sustain his energy levels. (3) Encourage him to maintain regular water intake to prevent dehydration. (4) Facilitate opportunities for him to take regular breaks and engage in play. (5) A 3rd standard student can't study for extended periods. He should study for 25 to 30 minutes, followed by a 10 to 15-minute break after each 25-minute study session.

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1. Self-Reflection and Emotional Well-Being
Acknowledge Your Position: Feeling "confused but lucky" is natural for someone in your shoes. You’ve done exceptionally well, but now it’s about finding meaning beyond wealth.
Define Your Purpose: Reflect on why you want to help others with investments. Is it to share your knowledge, build relationships, or leave a legacy? A clear purpose will guide your efforts.
Engage with Mentors or Communities: Join communities of like-minded individuals passionate about personal finance. This will give you clarity and help channel your energy positively.

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Become a Trainer for Investors
Share your wealth of knowledge and personal experience by training others. Conduct workshops, webinars, or small group sessions to educate individuals about investments, mutual funds, and wealth-building strategies.
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Start researching about training topics.
Begin sharing your investment journey informally through social media or blogs.
Seek professional help to plan the estate and ensure your children’s financial and emotional well-being.
You have the resources, experience, and goodwill to make a difference. Channel these into meaningful action.

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www.holisticinvestment.in
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