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Asked by Anonymous - Jan 20, 2024Hindi
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Respected Ma'am, Yoga Asanas for male , 62 years old , one and half years after open heart surgery , please .

Ans: Namate!
Simple streching like sukshma kriyas under the instruction of a qualified teacher. Basic anulom vilom pranayam. Walking in a graded with plenty of sunlight will also do wonders.
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What yoga asanas can I do to reduce body fat nd lose weight after a spine surgery in 2018 ndc section in 2022
Ans: It's great that you're thinking about incorporating yoga after spine surgery and a C-section. Yoga can be a safe and effective way to gradually improve strength, reduce body fat, and aid in weight loss, but it's important to proceed with caution, especially after these major surgeries. Here are some yoga asanas and practices you can begin with, keeping your spine and core in mind:

1. Modified Surya Namaskar (Sun Salutations)
Sun Salutations are excellent for full-body conditioning and fat loss, but after surgery, you can practice a modified version with gentle movements. Focus on slower transitions and avoid straining your back or abdomen.

2. Bhujangasana (Cobra Pose)
This pose strengthens the lower back and core muscles, but avoid over-arching. Begin with small lifts and gradually increase the height as your strength improves. It also improves digestion, which aids weight management.

3. Setu Bandhasana (Bridge Pose)
Bridge pose strengthens the glutes, lower back, and legs without putting much pressure on the spine. It's a gentle backbend that can also help tone the abdomen and stimulate fat loss in the hip and lower back area.

4. Utkatasana (Chair Pose)
This standing pose engages the legs, core, and back muscles, building strength and endurance. It's a great pose for weight loss and body fat reduction, as it activates larger muscle groups.

5. Marjaryasana-Bitilasana (Cat-Cow Pose)
Cat-Cow is wonderful for maintaining spinal flexibility without straining it. It gently tones the abdomen and provides relief to the back, promoting circulation to the spine and core.

6. Ananda Balasana (Happy Baby Pose)
This is a great pose to gently stretch the spine and the hips, releasing tension in the lower back, while also calming the nervous system. It helps release tightness in the hip area, where fat can sometimes accumulate.

7. Supta Baddha Konasana (Reclined Bound Angle Pose)
This pose can help gently open the hips and improve circulation. It also provides a nice stretch for the lower back while keeping the core lightly engaged.

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Core strengthening: Since you’ve had a C-section, it’s important to focus on rebuilding core strength, but gently. Avoid deep twisting poses and heavy abdominal work at first.
Pranayama: Practicing breathing exercises like Kapalbhati (Skull Shining Breath) can be very effective for weight loss by increasing your metabolic rate, while still being gentle on your body.
Restorative Yoga: Incorporate restorative postures to promote healing and relaxation. This will help you stay committed to the practice without overexerting your body.
What to avoid:
Avoid intense twists: They can put pressure on your spine and abdomen. Stick to mild spinal stretches.
Avoid deep backbends and inversions: These could strain your spine post-surgery.
Avoid abdominal-heavy poses: Especially right after a C-section, it’s important to protect your core and pelvic floor. Strengthen gradually.
Before starting any yoga practice, especially after surgery, it's essential to consult with your doctor and get clearance. As you progress, listen to your body and avoid pushing beyond your limits. You can slowly increase the intensity as your strength returns.

Wishing you a safe and mindful journey toward wellness!

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First of all, I want you to understand that it is no small feat to realize the quirks and imperfections in ourselves- you have done it. Your effort to understand and rectify them deserves to be acknowledged and appreciated.
Now, coming to your question, I can only give you some general advice on each-
Emotional instability and dependency- these behavioral patterns can stem from various factors; it can be a lack of confidence or some past issues that are left unresolved. It is difficult for me to tell you exactly why it is happening. It can also arise from a lack of validation. To manage it, you can focus on self-regulation- like meditation or journaling whenever you feel these emotions rising. This way you are expressing them but not damaging your relationships. Take up new hobbies or goals. Achieving milestones can build confidence.
Navigating Boundaries- You can speak to your partner in the early stage of the relationship to understand their boundaries. This way there will be clarity and you won't overstep. You can set up some boundaries too.
For better interpersonal skills, you can proactively follow some rules- like active listening, avoiding overthinking, asking open-ended questions, and resisting the urge to seek your partner's approval.
About the awkward questions- it is important to understand that you might perceive them as awkward, but the person opposite to you might think of it as a genuine curiosity. As long as it isn't intrusive or inappropriate, there are no awkward questions.
Like these, I can only offer you some general advice. But the best advice of them all would be to seek counseling. It has done wonders for people. And the first step, which is identifying the issues is already done. Bravo! What's wrong with taking a little professional help in navigating the next steps? They can guide you in a more structured manner.
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I’ve been in a relationship with a girl for the past 4 years, but due to various issues, things have become extremely complicated. Her father doesn’t approve of me, and my mother doesn’t like her either. Despite this, we’ve managed to stay together all these years. The problem is now escalating. My family is pressuring me to marry someone else, but I’m unable to leave her. At the same time, I feel I can’t marry her either because of her behavior and the ongoing issues with my family. I’ve tried to ask her to change certain things, but she hasn’t made any efforts in that direction. To make matters worse, her mother supports our relationship and trusts me, which makes it even harder for me to walk away. I don’t want her to marry someone else, but I also feel stuck because of my family’s expectations and the challenges in our relationship. Even If I leave her I don't know what she is going to do. What should I do in this situation to make the best decision for everyone involved?
Ans: it's crucial to reflect on what you truly want and need from a relationship. Ask yourself if this relationship brings you the happiness and fulfillment you seek, or if the challenges you face are too significant to overcome. It's important to differentiate between staying out of love and staying out of fear or obligation.

Talking to your partner openly is essential. Share your concerns honestly and listen to her perspective. If there are changes you've hoped for, express why they matter to you. At the same time, recognize that change is a two-way street—it requires effort and willingness from both sides. If she hasn't made efforts in the areas you've discussed, it may be worth considering whether this is a pattern that can be changed or a fundamental mismatch in expectations.

Your family's disapproval complicates things further, but it's important to remember that this is your life and relationship. While their opinions are significant, they shouldn't be the sole deciding factor in your happiness. Balancing respect for their wishes with your own needs is a delicate task, but ultimately, you need to make a decision that feels right for you.

If the relationship feels unsustainable despite your efforts, it may be time to consider a different path. It's understandable that you’re concerned about her well-being, especially given her mother's trust in you, but staying out of guilt or obligation can lead to further unhappiness for both of you. If you decide to part ways, doing so with kindness and honesty can help mitigate some of the hurt.

Ultimately, this decision is deeply personal. Weighing your feelings, the relationship dynamics, and your family's expectations will guide you toward a resolution that prioritizes your well-being and future happiness.

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My age is 41 years. I have two kids. Nurturing n looking after them n whole home single handedly. I am a visiting faculty in a institute . Earns very nominal earning. My husband hits me, taunts me and use very arrogant words to me like tumhe belt se maarunga n similar many worst words. His family has been always unsupportive to me . Now after 16 years of marriage, he still wants me to please his mother n other family. Which I completely avoid as they have never supported me and always boycotted me. His real brother is in politics and all family members including his cousins do follow him and boycotted me n husband. Now for everything my husband blames me and says if you gave pleased them, all might have good. But inspite of pleasing them a lot , they are like treating me like I am a stranger. I handle n manage everything still by the end of the day.... everything is in vain. Husband says...What you did for home? I will never ever give my money to you and so on. I am literally in trouble thoughts, what to do ? I even many times thought to end my life but my kids are the reason I continuously bears everything. Please suggest what shall I do.
Ans: it's important to acknowledge that no one deserves to be treated with such disrespect and abuse. Your feelings of isolation and frustration are valid. It can feel overwhelming when the people who should support you instead make you feel like an outsider.

In situations like this, it’s crucial to find support outside the immediate family. Reach out to trusted friends, family members, or support groups who can offer you emotional strength and practical advice. Consider speaking with a counselor or therapist who can help you navigate these complex emotions and provide strategies for dealing with the abuse and stress.

You’ve shown immense resilience, especially for your children. They need you to be strong, and seeking help is a vital step in preserving your mental and emotional well-being. Remember, prioritizing your health is not selfish; it’s necessary for you and your children’s future.

Also, explore any legal avenues or resources available for individuals in abusive relationships. Local support organizations, legal aid, or women’s shelters can provide advice and assistance if you decide that leaving the relationship is the best option for your safety and well-being.

You have already shown great courage by managing so much on your own. Continue to seek out support and know that you are not alone in this journey. There are people and resources willing to help you find a path to a healthier and more secure life.

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