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Should I Push My Creative Son Towards Competitive Exams?

Nayagam P P |4184 Answers |Ask -Follow

Career Counsellor - Answered on Feb 24, 2025

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Asked by Anonymous - Feb 23, 2025Hindi

From Tamilnadu - My son (9th grader) is a creative person with deep interest in tech, electronics and music. From his young age, I see him scribbling designs of various machines, it started with car designs, then robo design, laptop and now he develops good electronic projects based on Arduino. As far as competitive exams and problem solving skills are concerned he isn't natural but with practice he can do. He scores above 90% in cbse exams but I never asked to write any competitive as I felt it would pressure his creative side. Now, my question is should I put him through this competitive jee race or I opt for a Tamilnadu state board school where he has less complexity more rote learning and can get through within top 10 anna university based colleges just with his board cutoff. I am highly sceptical about jee- being a general category male student, it highly discourages me to take the gamble as it may affect his mental health. Also, after all the effort, there is a high chance that he may have to go to a deemed University based on management seats. Now my question is problem solving and competitive focus of jee and conceptual learning of cbse are going to help him anyway in the future in his workplace? I am afraid that he will lose his hobby and strength in the rat race. Kindly advice.

Ans: Admission through the TNEA counselling process at reputed TN colleges like Thiyagarajar and PSG can be challenging for CBSE students. I also noticed you haven't mentioned if he has joined a coaching centre for his JEE preparation. Regardless, my suggestion is to have him take a psychometric test as soon as possible. This test will help identify his strengths by assessing his aptitude, attitude, interests, orientation style, and personality traits, and guide him toward the most suitable career options.

Based on the psychometric test results, he should start applying for the relevant entrance exams or participate in counselling for fields like Architecture, Design, or other areas aligned with his strengths. Consider management quota only as a last resort and if it is financially feasible. Ultimately, success in any domain depends on continuously upgrading skills and maintaining a genuine interest in that field. All the Best for your Prosperous Future.

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