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HR Expert - Answered on Aug 24, 2022

Mayank Rautela is the group chief human resources officer at Apollo Hospitals.
A management graduate from the Symbiosis Institute of Management Studies with a master's degree in labour laws from Pune University, Rautela has over 20 years of experience in general management, strategic human resources, global mergers and integrations and change management.... more
Shaina Question by Shaina on Aug 24, 2022Hindi
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Dear Mayank Sir,
I am sure many people are facing my problem but my problem is that I don’t know how to solve it.
In my office, there are people who like to work late and on holidays and on weekends.
They shine in the eyes of the boss.
I think it is okay to do it sometimes when needed, but wrong to do all the time. One should complete work in office hours and if work load is too much, discuss with the boss so that one can have a personal life which is important as well.
But these people make the rest of us look bad even if we are good at work.
How to solve this problem without making the boss unhappy and affecting appraisals?
Thank you.
Shaina

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Hi Shaina,

Most good organisations nowadays do not encourage the culture that you have mentioned.

In case it is there with your boss, you can discuss with the top management and understand what culture they want in the company.

If it's a progressive company, then they will certainly not judge someone by their long work hours because, at the end of the day, that will burn you out.

Just focus on your job and don't get into office politics.

 

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