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HR Expert - Answered on Aug 24, 2022

Mayank Rautela is the group chief human resources officer at Apollo Hospitals.
A management graduate from the Symbiosis Institute of Management Studies with a master's degree in labour laws from Pune University, Rautela has over 20 years of experience in general management, strategic human resources, global mergers and integrations and change management.... more
Anonymous Question by Anonymous on Aug 24, 2022Hindi
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Dear Sir,
I would like to keep my question anonymous.
I am 50 years old. I have a good position in the company but I am not top management.
More and more, I find myself being sidelined and younger people’s opinions and ideas have more value.
I work in a hotel group.
I have sat down with my seniors to find out if they are unhappy with my work but they assure me it is not so.
Personally, though, I am unhappy as I feel irrelevant.
I do not wish to stop working nor am I in a position to start out on my own as I have two children studying abroad and aged parents and in-laws to take care of.
The more unhappy I feel, the more I feel I am performing badly.
How do I get out of this problem?
Would be grateful for any advice you can share.

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I think this is an impression that you have formed in your mind.

This is the time where multi-generations are part of the workforce.

Organisations are encouraging diversity in the workplace and hence employees of all ages are needed and valued.

Be positive and continue to give your best every day; the rest will fall into place.

 

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