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Babu Question by Babu on Feb 20, 2025Hindi
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Sir, KCET form filled and paid and final print copy done. If we login now also it's allowing to modify. No confirmation email received saying your application competed or it displays in site. Is it same for everyone?

Ans: Babu, Nothing to worry about this. Just focus on your preparations. Have 4-5 other Entrance Exams also a back-ups such as COMEDK, AEEE etc. All the Best for your Prosperous Future.

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