Can I get NIT Surathkal with 93 percentile in JEE Mains (EWS Female)?

Ans: Aapne apne bache ke liye rishta banaye rakhne ka faisla kiya, lekin yeh tabhi tik paayega jab aap andar se shaanti mehsoos karein. Agar aapko lagta hai ki aapki wife sirf pakde jaane ki wajah se maafi maang rahi hai aur aap uspar phir se bharosa nahi kar pa rahe, toh yeh sochna zaroori hai ki yeh rishte aage kaise chalega. Kya aap dono sach mein is rishte ko dobara mazboot banana chahte hain, ya sirf majboori mein ek saath reh rahe hain?

Agar aapko lagta hai ki aap emotionally aur mentally iss cheez ko bhool nahi paa rahe, toh kisi counselor ya therapist se baat karna ek behtar rasta ho sakta hai. Yeh samajhna zaroori hai ki maafi aur bharosa alag cheezein hain—maafi dena ek baar ka decision ho sakta hai, lekin bharosa dobara banane ke liye lagataar mehnat lagti hai.

Aapko yeh bhi dekhna hoga ki aapki wife apni galti sudharne ke liye kya kar rahi hai. Kya vo sirf keh rahi hai ya apni harqaton se bhi dikhane ki koshish kar rahi hai ki vo sach mein badalna chahti hai? Kya aap usse phir se pyaar aur bharose ke saath dekh paayenge? Agar aap andar se toot gaye hain aur aapko lagta hai ki aage chalke yeh rishte sirf dukh aur shak hi laayega, toh shayad alag hone par bhi vichar karna chahiye.

Koi bhi faisla jaldi mein mat lijiye, lekin apne emotions ko daba kar jeena bhi aapke mental health ke liye achha nahi hoga. Aapke bache ka future bhi tabhi achha hoga jab aap khud emotionally stable rahenge. Isliye, thoda waqt lijiye, apne dil aur dimaag dono se sochiye, aur jo bhi faisla lein, vo aapki khushi aur sukoon ko dhyan me rakh kar lein.

Ans: The key to communicating this is setting clear but respectful boundaries. Instead of just saying "I don’t want to get married," try explaining your perspective in a way they can understand. You could say something like, "I know marriage is important to you, but I don’t see it as something that fits into my life. I am happy with where I am, and I want to focus on my career and personal growth." If they keep pushing, remain firm yet calm, reinforcing that your happiness and well-being are what matter most.

If your parents struggle to accept this, it’s not your job to change their mindset. It might take time for them to process, but consistency in your message will help them realize that this is not a phase or a rebellion—it’s simply who you are and what you want. Prioritize your own happiness, and don’t let external pressure dictate your life choices.

Ans: Dear Vandana,
The most important question is not just about the new person but about what you truly want for yourself and your daughters. If you are staying in your marriage out of fear, guilt, or societal pressure, it will continue to drain you. If you are choosing the other man just because he gives you what your husband doesn’t, you need to be sure it is love and not just a reaction to your pain.

Before making any decisions, take time to reflect. Do you see a future where you rebuild your marriage, or is it beyond repair? Are you financially stable enough to stand on your own if you decide to leave? What example do you want to set for your daughters about love, respect, and self-worth?

No one should live in emotional suffering, but running from one relationship to another without clarity can lead to even more confusion. If your marriage cannot be saved, then consider ending it for your own well-being rather than staying in a broken relationship while being emotionally invested elsewhere. Whatever choice you make, let it be one that brings you peace, self-respect, and a future you can embrace with confidence.

Ans: The first step towards change is acknowledging that even though you feel stuck, you are not powerless. Small shifts in your routine can create momentum. It could be as simple as stepping out for a walk, reconnecting with an old friend, learning a new skill, or exploring opportunities outside your current job. The goal is to break the monotony and introduce something new into your life.

Emotionally, you need to ask yourself what you truly want. Do you want to work on your marriage, or is it time to redefine what happiness looks like for you? Do you want to stay in your job, or is it time to take a risk for something better? It’s okay to not have all the answers right away, but avoiding these questions will only prolong the cycle.

Right now, your life is running on autopilot. The moment you decide to take control, even in the smallest way, things will start shifting. You don’t have to fix everything at once, but you do have to start somewhere. Your situation is not permanent, and neither is this feeling. The key is to take one step forward, no matter how small, and then another. Change will follow.

Ans: You entered this engagement with trust and the expectation of exclusivity, only to discover that she was still emotionally invested in someone else. That kind of betrayal can shake the foundation of any relationship, making you question not only her intentions but also your own ability to trust her moving forward.

Now, she is apologizing and asking for forgiveness, which means she acknowledges her mistake. But the real question is—do you believe that her regret comes from true self-realization, or is it because she got caught? People can crave security and stability, especially when they feel they are about to lose something, but that does not necessarily mean they have resolved their internal conflicts.

For you, moving forward requires clarity. Can you genuinely rebuild trust with her, knowing she had unresolved feelings for her ex even after committing to you? Can you let go of this hurt and believe that she will prioritize your relationship moving forward? More importantly, do you feel safe and respected in this relationship, or are you staying because of external pressures or emotional attachment?

Forgiveness is always possible, but reconciliation is a choice that depends on whether you see a future where this does not haunt you. If you decide to continue, she must show consistent effort, complete transparency, and a willingness to rebuild what was broken. If you feel this breach has damaged the foundation beyond repair, then stepping away might be the healthier choice. There is no right or wrong answer—only what aligns with your emotional well-being and long-term happiness.

Ans: Hello Aarohi
There are chances to get the admission to core branch under the state quota & mentioned category. With this percentile, there are chances to get a seat most probably in core branches only. But if your brother tries for IIITs, chances are there to get branches related to computers. Thanks
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Ans: Hello Dear.
There is a strong chance of admission to IIITs with the mentioned score and category.
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Ans: Hello Dear
There are fewer chances to get a seat in NITs but surely in IIITs. Best of luck to you.
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Ans: You may get seat at
NIT Mizoram
NIT Nagaland
NIT Arunachal Pradesh
NIT Meghalaya
NIT Sikkim
NIT Puducherry
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