Im 18 years old. Preparing for neet exam. After joining allen. I realised that i have wasted my class 11th and 12th both. I can't understand simple basic things. I belonged to State board and now I have to study NCERT. I cried a lot thinking about the things. It's hard for me to even ask my teacher any questions. Im an introvert. I think I'm wasting my parents money. my father payed 1 lacks fees for my admission. I'm so demotivated. Can anyone tell me what to do?

Ans: Yadnya,
stop feeling negative about yourself. There are phases in life and you have to come out of it strong. If you are really interested in becoming a doctor only then why not you try exploring the MBBS from abroad? Since NEXT is going to be compulsory for both Indian & Foreign students. It won't affect you.

In India there is cut-throat competition for medical seats plus the fees of private medical colleges are very high.
Try talking to your parents openly and make them understand your state of mind and your passion. I think they will understand you. If you need any help further you can contact me.

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Study for yourself; not for your parents or not to be better than someone else.
Shifting focus from what others will think to how I can do my best will allow you to be very determined. Procrastination will actually vanish and you will be very motivated from within. Don't believe it? Try shifting focus and see what happens!

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Ans: My initial recommendation for you is to avoid placing sole reliance on NEET. It is prudent to devise alternative strategies, such as Plan B and Plan C, to adequately prepare yourself for various medical-allied courses by participating in an additional 3-4 entrance examinations as well. In the midst of a demanding phase such as NEET, it is quite common to experience feelings of being overwhelmed. Nonetheless, through a thoughtful approach and consistent effort, one can effectuate substantial transformations. Initially, assess and recalibrate your situation, transition your perspective from worry to proactive engagement, and segment the journey into manageable components. Focus on subjects that offer substantial intellectual returns, such as Biology, Physics, and Chemistry. Organize your study environment and monitor your phone usage. Develop a comprehensive four-month plan, commencing with biology and subsequently progressing to subjects of greater weight and complexity. Mitigate distractions through the regulation of mobile device usage, fostering communication with family members, adhering to a structured routine, seeking assistance and motivation from diverse platforms, and promoting overall well-being by ensuring adequate sleep, consuming nutritious foods, and engaging in physical activities such as yoga and meditation.
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