i hv just left a successful job and want to be an enterperuner ..I am getting very nervous...how to deal with myself?

Ans: Hi,

Thank you for the question. Hope you are doing well.
Feeling nervous about facing an interview is completely normal, especially if you haven't been through the process for a long time. However, it's important to remember that change and growth often require stepping outside of our comfort zones.
Here are some steps you can take to prepare yourself and gain confidence for interviews:
1- Reflect on your achievements- Take stock of your accomplishments and skills gained during your 10 years in your current job. Recognize your strengths, areas of expertise, and valuable experiences. This self-reflection will help boost your confidence and provide material to discuss during interviews.
2- Research the job market: Spend time understanding the current job market trends, requirements, and industry expectations. Identify the skills and qualifications that employers are seeking in applicants for the positions you're interested in. This knowledge will help you align your preparation accordingly and help you be interview ready.
3- Brush up on interview techniques: Refresh your knowledge of common interview questions and practice answering them. You can find resources online that provide lists of frequently asked questions. Practice responding to these questions either by yourself, with a friend or family member, or consider engaging with a professional interview coach (as an option). This will again help you get ready for the interview/s. To go one step further you can also ask a friend or a family member to conduct mock interviews with you. This will help you get the experience and become more comfortable with the interview process and improve your responses.
Remember, facing an interview panel can be intimidating, but with adequate preparation, practice, and a positive mindset, you can increase your chances of success. Don't be too hard on yourself if you stumble along the way—it's all part of the learning process. Take the experiences and learnings and move ahead. Good luck with your job search!

Hope this helps. To Your Success. Be You. Be Confident.

Ashwini Dasgupta
Author of -Confidence Decoded. Is it a Skill or Attitude?

Ans: Hello

As humans we all have some empty parts and broken sides, we need to embrace and accept them.

Yes there is always a scope for growth and improvement and one should take that up but not at the cost of self flogging.

Ask yourself which part of your personality you sincerely believe you want to make changes and then start making those changes slowly...don't expect everything will change overnight...we humans are not like a switch ...that can be tuned on or off...

The fact that you are open to embracing change in itself is a start. Wishing you the very best.

Warm regards

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Ans: I completely empathize with you in this challenging situation but rather than considering it as a setback, think of it as an opportunity for growth. For facing this situation, the first thing is to acknowledge your emotions as it is totally normal to feel sad and disappointed about this, but do not linger upon this emotion for longer. Shift your focus on the present moment as it is only one that you can control. Update and refresh your resume and create a LinkedIn profile and also begin networking to gain connection with your former colleagues and professional groups. If you’re not finding a perfect match immediately, consider upskilling through online courses or certifications to stay competitive. Temporary or freelance work can also help bridge the gap while keeping your experience relevant. Confidence comes from preparation, so practice your interview skills, refine your personal brand, and stay positive. Remember, setbacks often lead to better opportunities, you just need to stay proactive, persistent, and open to new possibilities.
Wishing you success,
Aamish Dhingra
ICF-PCC Certified Life Coach
Co-Founder, Cocoweave Coaching International, Delhi