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IIT-JEE, NEET-UG, SAT, CLAT, CA, CS Exam Expert - Answered on May 23, 2024

Mayank Chandel has over 18 years of experience coaching and training students for various exams like IIT-JEE, NEET-UG, SAT, CLAT, CA and CS.
Besides coaching students for entrance exams, he also guides Class 10 and 12 students about career options in engineering, medicine and the vocational sciences.
His interest in coaching students led him to launch the firm, CareerStreets.
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ASAD Question by ASAD on May 13, 2024Hindi
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Dear Sir/Madam, I hope this email finds you well. I am writing to seek your guidance regarding my son's preparation for the upcoming JEE Advanced examination. My son has performed exceptionally well in his previous academic endeavors, scoring 96% in ICSE and 90% in FYJC. He has enrolled in popular JEE coaching classes as well as PW Online Lakhya coaching to further enhance his preparation. However, he is now feeling confused due to the dual coaching approach. With only 7 months remaining until the exam, I am concerned about the impact this may have on his performance. I would greatly appreciate your expert advice on how best to navigate this situation and ensure that my son is well-prepared for the JEE Advanced exam. Your insights and recommendations would be invaluable in helping him achieve his academic goals. Thank you in advance for your time and consideration. I look forward to your response.

Ans: Hello Asad ji,
The main reason behind getting confused is 2 teaching methods. JEE is a highly competitive exam, unlike boards where there is a fixed step to solve problems. 2 teachers can have different approaches this is the reason for confusion if he is studying same topic from 2 different teachers.
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Ans: Mehul Sir,

Thoroughly read your question Sir. Here-below are some Options / Important Suggestions & Why?:

Option-1

After he finishes his 8th Standard, you can get admission for him into any CBSE-School (or) Maharashtra State Board School which also has an integrated Program.

As far as I know, there are very less number of CBSE Schools. If you can get into any CBSE School, well and good.

If he joins any State Board Integrated School from the 9th itself, it is highly recommended to thoroughly go through the NCERT Books of 9th to 12th Standards which is most important for JEE preparation.

It is preferable to start early for JEE (from 9th standard to cover NCERT basic concepts), but not mandatory.

Option-2

If you decide NOT to discontinue from IGCSE till 10th standard, you will have to put him in any JEE-Integrated School for 11th/12th Standard.

However, it is advisable to go through the NCERT books of 9th/10th, whenever time permits for your son as the quantity of subjects/syllabus of IGCSE will be more, compared to CBSE.

Option-3

As you prefer Home Tutors, please note, highly experienced Home Tutors (especially for JEE-Advanced preparation) charge on hourly-basis and depending upon the subject (for example, tuition fee for Maths will be higher, compared to Physics & Chemistry).

Please choose the best option, suitable for you/for your son out of the above 3-options.

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