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Leadership, HR Expert - Answered on May 20, 2024

Shekhar Kumar is senior manager, talent acquisition, at the Shri Venkateshwara University in Gajraula, Uttar Pradesh. He has 18 years of expertise in the search and placement of executive leadership talent across various industries.
He has also mentored middle and senior management professionals for leadership positions and guided them in career development.
Shekhar has a bachelor's degree in business management from Magadh University, Bihar, and a master's degree in human resource management from Annamalai University, Tamil Nadu.... more
Hazel Question by Hazel on May 13, 2024Hindi
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Hello sir. I am 26 years old woman and i am unemployed. I am preparing for bank exams but yet not qualified any. I sat for SBI Clerk and didnt made it. My parents are saying that Bank is not a good option for women because of work pressure , transfer and working hours. Ans they have given me only 2 years else they gonna get me married. some of my friends got in bank one got in IIM and i feel i am out of track. PLease help me with this. i really am looking forward to work as a manager in bank but im scared of all this. Please guide. thank you

Ans: It's understandable that you're feeling stressed and uncertain, given the pressure from your family and the challenges you're facing. Think about other career paths that might also align with your skills and interests. This could include roles in finance, administration, or other fields where your banking preparation might be valuable. Identify where you fell short in previous bank exams. Develop a detailed study schedule that includes daily goals, practice tests, and regular revisions. Focus on your weak areas while reinforcing your strengths. Have an honest conversation with your parents about your career aspirations and the steps you are taking to achieve them. Explain the commitment and passion you have for working in a bank. Discuss potential compromises, such as exploring banking roles that have more stable locations or considering other positions in financial institutions that may offer similar career growth without frequent transfers. Focus on your preparation, and try not to compare yourself to others. Everyone has their own pace and path to success. Practice stress-relief techniques like meditation, exercise, or hobbies that help you relax and stay positive. Reflect on what you want in life, and don’t rush into marriage solely due to external pressure. It’s essential to find a partner who supports your career ambitions. By focusing on your goals, improving your preparation strategy, and addressing your family's concerns with understanding and communication, you can navigate this challenging period and work towards achieving your dream of becoming a bank manager. Stay determined and proactive, and remember that your career is your journey.
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Cold Countries (Russia, Kyrgyzstan, Kazakhstan):
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Asked by Anonymous - Jun 19, 2025Hindi
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Sir I am a little bit puzzled I passed my boards with 79,8%, my jee exam didn't go well and I am not getting any good private or government college from It. Earlier I was thinking of taking a drop but currently I am 18 and turn 19 this year, so next year when I will be at first year of college I will turn 20 year old so It will delay my graduation for sure. Second option is to take admission in any tier 3 college. I have following options with me (1) SRM sonepat,Haryana(Btech cse aiml) (2) Manav rachna University, Faridabad (Btech cse aiml/data science) (3) NIET, Greater noida (Btech cse computing and mathematics) Which college is best among 3? If I join in any tier 3 I will develop skills and target postgraduate level exam. So sir what should I do In this situation take a drop or join college?
Ans: Hello, I understand this is a confusing time for you, but don’t worry. Many students go through the same phase after 12th.

Taking a drop is an option. But here are the real things you must ask yourself:
• Are you fully confident that you can study with full focus and improve your JEE score next year?
• Are you okay with another year of pressure, studying at home, and no college life till 2026?
• Are you ready to handle the stress and competition?
If the answer is no or not sure, then don’t take a drop.
Because one year of drop will only be worth it if you get a top college like NIT, IIIT, or BITS.
Otherwise, you’ll just lose one year and land in a similar college again.
And don’t worry about age. Turning 20 in 1st year is completely fine. Many students start college at 20 or even later

About Your Current College Options
NIET Greater Noida
• Best out of the three in terms of placement, coding culture, and peer group.
• It is in Noida — good location for internships and off-campus opportunities.
• Has a better track record in CSE-related jobs.
SRM Sonepat
• Decent brand name because of “SRM,” but Sonepat campus is not as strong as the main Chennai one.
• Placements are limited.
• Choose only if you want the SRM tag and nothing else is available.
Manav Rachna
• Okay college, good infrastructure, but placements are not very strong, especially for CSE core jobs.
• Good for students who want to stay closer to home or need a relaxed environment.

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