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My daughter scored 91.5 percentile in jee mains, 201 marks in bitsat , 10000 rank in IAT exam. Should she take drop or take electronics and computer engineering branch in thapar university

Ans: Disha Madam, better to go for Thapar & move forward. All the BEST for Your Daughter's Bright Future.

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