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Asked by Anonymous - Jan 19, 2025Hindi
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I completed my graduation in 2018 , started preparing for upsc i couldn't clear in 5 attempts, but recently I cleared state pcs examination prelims, mains exam supposed to be happen on sept 28 2024, but it was suddenly postponed for no reason without announcing dates , now iam clueless what to do , from self confidence iam in self pity of myself of achieving nothing in my life, I even dropped upsc for this state pcs , it's very difficult to ask money to you parents at 26yrs... Since dates are not announced i even completed mains syllabus ,, iam getting frustrated and binge watching web series .so what to do

Ans: Hello
Simple and straight advice will be to either pick up a job in your field or go for some vocational/higher course that will improve your employability.
No one stops your from pursuing your PCS goal as and when things become clear, we have many examples of people doubling up and still cracking the exams. But just sitting idle in the wait is not advisable since you have already spent considerable time/energy in that pursuit.
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