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Dating, Relationships Expert - Answered on May 30, 2023

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Question by TRS on May 29, 2023Hindi

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I love a girl for 6 months. Now she does not want to continue the relationship. I am in deep love and cannot live without her. What should to do?

Ans: Dear TRS,

She does not want to continue; what you have to do is as clear as day. Move on. It's easier said than done, I know. But I don't see any other option here. When someone says they don't want to do something, there is no point in trying to convince them. First off, no means no. Second, do you consider yourself so unworthy of real connection that you will force one? It doesn't seem like it today, but all these sad feelings will pass soon and you will find yourself thinking what a good idea it was to move on. Anything other than focusing all your energy on moving on will be a waste of time.

Also, we have all been in this "I cannot live without him/her" phase. But here we are, living a happy life, single or committed to the right person. You will too.

Best Wishes!

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hello madam. i am 37 years old i never i am love in 42 years foreigner lady through social media we are together almost 5 years but suddenly she said me she dont want this relationship more she lost in this relationship. she said we stay like friend but she not even talk me like friend too

Ans: Dear Bhushan,
Social media associations very rarely convert into anything meaningful unless the people involved make it happen.
How much do you know about this 'foreigner' lady to say that you are in love?
It's possible that both of you needed company and these 5 years made that possible.
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Time to leave this 'make-believe' social media world that gives you instant joy but robs you of a chance of long-term relationships.
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was in a relationship for 3 months but the girl never reciprocated in the same way as i did.There was no initiative from her side but when I used to ask her why is this happening only i m trying to build but you aren't, she used to say that i was unable to see anything she is doing for me.To be very honest and being impartial if i was at level 10 she was at 1.One day on this very topic some arguments happened and she walked away.After that no message no call and she used to tell me that she loved me but she never ever tried to reach out to me.Now its been one month.I literally am feeling really gloomy.Now she is putting status and showing that to me that i was not ready to build with her i uttered wrong words to her.But honestly i am telling you that I loved her very much and tried all the ways to build with her but she never reciprocated.I still miss her a lot but she seems to moved on so easily that's hurting me too much simultaneously she is putting these statuses too What to do?

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2) Focus on doing something positive or be around people who appreciate you

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Hi, I met this girl. We were in a relationship for 2 years. She left me after 2 years because I was from a different religion and I am a vegetarian and she wants to marry, but I am not quite settled in life because I have lost my job due to AI strike. She wants someone who can travel and stay with her in her country as well. As she is half Indian and half foreigner, I was willing to sacrifice everything just to be in a relationship so I told her that I was willing to stay with her in her country. I told her it does not matter which religion she is from and food should be just personal preferences but she is not willing to continue the relationship. What can I do as I have deep feelings for her? Any idea how to sort this out? I am not able to concentrate on anything.

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