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Asked by Anonymous - Jan 19, 2025Hindi
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I am a widow and mother of a 6 yr old special child. My daughter is going to an inclusive school with a shadow teacher. I came in contact with a divorcee 1.5 yrs back and we have mutual regard. Parents know this and they have left this decision on us...If we want to go ahead with marriage. The problem is...boy is unsure if he would be able to take up responsibility of father of a special kid. And if we go on to plan for another child, will I be able to manage two kids , one with special condition..taking care of special kid is also financially draining..also the guy is planning to relocate abroad...that would again be a challenge for me ..as taking care of special kid abroad is tougher as there will be no helpers available there..One option everyone is suggesting is to keep my kid in hostel..if keeping in boarding school is beneficial for her ..I don't have issue .but in india there are no such inclusive set up boarding schools..and I don't want to put her in a special school...what should I do? I was thinking to remarry only for emotional companionship..Should I just say no to marriage as there will be lot of compromises...and I don't want my kid to suffer because of this. I am earning enough for my kid and myself. Pls suggest

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
How exactly do you expect a special child to cope in a boarding school? I am sure that is something that has crossed your mind.
My questions for you:
Does it bother you that this man does not accept your life as is? If Yes, read on...
Does it bother you that you are the one who is making changes to accommodate this person? If Yes, read on...
Would you have liked it if he willingly had accepted your life as is? If Yes, read on...

Think about this a lot before you make a decision to be with him. There's a lot to think as a parent and he isn't one and may never get the point of how your life is. Take you time before you decide anything...

All the best!
Anu Krishna
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Hello Anu ma'am Please help.URGENT I am a divorced working woman , with a daughter 8 yrs. I have been pursued for remarriage with a guy who is 10 yrs older to me and have 2 kids. 11 and 14 yrs respectively living in a small town. Initially it was agreed the elder child who is a boy would be living in hostel , but now since we are approaching near to the marriage, it seems the elder male child is going to stay at home and not hostel. This is making me really uncomfortable as I won't get much privacy also the male child is aggressive.Already handling one kid was difficult before. Also moving to small town was difficult transition from a metropolitan that I stay in. Moving there could mean losing job opportunities in future. I am really worried if I let this match go, I end up alone again. I am not able to make a decision, it's difficult to raise others children. It's just not naturally inbuilt in us.Although I try really hard to mould my thinking and be more generous, but somehow it suffocates me.
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Second or subsequent marriages come with their own set of challenges; one being accepting the other person's reality from their past which is children.
Yes, you are right that it is never easy to accept and raise another person's child BUT hey it's also possible, right? Why go behind what's not possible and actually think what can be possible; especially because you seem to want this new marriage to work. Then make it work. Once you accept things for what is, you will figure out a way to manage your work and also your newer responsibilities. Life does not move exactly the way you want or wish, but if you focus on the good side of it, a lot of things that bother you become easier to handle. Actually, start to get excited about your new phase of life BUT if you are going into the marriage with conditions, it may get challenging. It's not fair to want one child and not want another. It disturbs their equilibrium and what they share with their father.

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Asked by Anonymous - Jan 19, 2025Hindi
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URGENT Hello kanchan ma'am Please help. I am a divorced working woman , with a daughter 8 yrs. I have been pursued for remarriage with a guy who is 10 yrs older to me and have 2 kids. 11 and 14 yrs respectively living in a small town. Initially it was agreed the elder child who is a boy would be living in hostel , but now since we are approaching near to the marriage, it seems the elder male child is going to stay at home and not hostel. This is making me really uncomfortable as I won't get much privacy also the male child is aggressive.Already handling one kid was difficult before. Also moving to small town was difficult transition from a metropolitan that I stay in. Moving there could mean losing job opportunities in future. I am really worried if I let this match go, I end up alone again. I am not able to make a decision, it's difficult to raise others children. It's just not naturally inbuilt in us.Although I try really hard to mould my thinking and be more generous, but somehow it suffocates me.
Ans: start by having a direct and open conversation with your prospective partner. It’s crucial to clearly communicate your feelings about the elder child staying at home, especially regarding the need for privacy and the impact of his aggressive behavior. Explain how this change affects your comfort and daily life, emphasizing the importance of maintaining a harmonious living environment.

In tackling the privacy issue, consider discussing potential adjustments to the home’s layout. Creating separate living spaces or setting up rules that establish personal boundaries can help ensure everyone feels comfortable. Developing a routine that allows for private time with your daughter will also be essential in maintaining a balance.

Regarding the transition to a small town, research the local job market thoroughly. Look for opportunities that align with your career goals and consider remote work options if they’re available. It’s also important to engage with the local community to build a support network. Attend community events, meet potential neighbors, and get a feel for the town’s environment. Having a backup plan, such as maintaining connections in your current city or setting aside a financial cushion, will give you added security should the move not work out as expected.

Blending families is a significant emotional and practical challenge, so consider family counseling as a way to address potential conflicts and improve communication. A counselor can provide valuable strategies to help everyone adjust to the new living arrangements and understand each other’s perspectives. To ease into this change, propose a trial period where you can test the dynamics without committing long-term right away. This will give you the opportunity to evaluate how well you and your daughter adapt to the new situation.

Lastly, it’s essential to address your fear of being alone. Reframe this fear by focusing on the positives of independence. Remind yourself that it’s better to be single and emotionally secure than in a relationship that feels overwhelming or stifling. Use this time to invest in personal growth, hobbies, and building a fulfilling life for you and your daughter. Keeping an open mind about future relationships is healthy, but it’s important to ensure any new partnership aligns with your values and meets your emotional needs.

By taking these steps, you can approach the situation with clarity, ensuring that any decision you make is grounded in what’s best for your well-being and that of your daughter.

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my age 59 ,for SIP investment what is the minimum period?suppose I invest one time 50000 today what would be the return after 5 years?please explain
Ans: SIP investments do not have a fixed minimum period.

However, 5 years is usually the recommended minimum for equity funds.

This time allows your investment to benefit from compounding and market recovery.

Understanding Your Investment Horizon
At 59, your horizon depends on goals and risk tolerance.

Equity investments need a 7–10-year horizon for maximum growth.

For 5 years, a balanced or debt-oriented portfolio is better.

One-Time Investment of Rs. 50,000
Expected Returns After 5 Years
Returns depend on the type of mutual fund chosen.

Equity funds may yield 9%-12% annually over 5 years.

Balanced funds could deliver 7%-9% returns.

Debt funds might generate 6%-7% returns.

Illustrative Scenario
Equity Fund
Rs. 50,000 grows to around Rs. 75,000–80,000.

This assumes an annual growth of 10%-12%.

Balanced Fund
Rs. 50,000 may grow to Rs. 68,000–70,000.

Expected annual growth is 7%-9%.

Debt Fund
Rs. 50,000 might grow to Rs. 65,000.

Annual growth of around 6%-7% is assumed.

Selecting the Right Investment
Equity Mutual Funds
Choose equity funds if you can hold beyond 5 years.

Volatility is common, but long-term rewards are better.

Balanced Mutual Funds
Balanced funds offer stability with moderate growth.

Ideal for a 5-year horizon with lower risk tolerance.

Debt Mutual Funds
Debt funds are safer with steady returns.

These are suitable for risk-averse investors with short horizons.

Tax Implications on Your Investments
Long-term equity gains above Rs. 1.25 lakh are taxed at 12.5%.

Short-term equity gains are taxed at 20%.

Debt fund gains are taxed as per your income slab.

Diversified Portfolio for a 5-Year Horizon
Allocate 50% to balanced funds for stability and moderate growth.

Invest 30% in debt funds for risk mitigation.

Put 20% in equity funds for inflation-beating returns.

Importance of Consistent Monitoring
Review portfolio performance every year.

Rebalance if returns deviate from expectations.

Avoid reacting to short-term market changes.

Building Wealth with SIPs
Long-Term Strategy
SIPs provide disciplined investment with rupee cost averaging.

Compounding benefits amplify wealth if SIPs continue for 7-10 years.

Emergency Fund and Insurance
Keep 6 months' expenses in a liquid fund or FD.

Ensure you have sufficient health and life insurance.

Final Insights
SIPs are suitable for long-term wealth creation.

One-time investments need careful fund selection for 5 years.

Diversify between equity, balanced, and debt funds based on risk tolerance.

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K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,

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I have seen Negative XIRR in SIP right now investment done in below SIP Total value - 13500 1. ICICI prudential bluechip direct Fund growth - 1500 2. Parag Parikh Flexi cap Fund direct growth - 1000 3. ICICI prudential smallcap fund direct plan growth - 300 4. Nippon India Small cap Fund direct Growth - 200 5. SBI small cap fund direct growth - 500 6. HDFC mid cap opportunities Direct plan Growth - 5000 7. Nippon India multicap fund direct growth - 5000
Ans: A negative XIRR in SIP investments is common in the short term.

Equity markets can fluctuate, impacting returns temporarily.

SIPs work best when continued over long periods, averaging out market volatility.

Analysing Your Current Portfolio
You are investing Rs. 13,500 monthly across seven funds.

Allocation includes large-cap, flexi-cap, small-cap, mid-cap, and multi-cap categories.

This diversification is good but needs alignment with long-term goals.

Insights on Specific Fund Categories
Large-Cap Funds
Large-cap funds provide stability in volatile markets.

These funds typically deliver steady returns over time.

Flexi-Cap Funds
Flexi-cap funds balance large, mid, and small caps for flexibility.

These funds adapt to changing market conditions effectively.

Small-Cap Funds
Small-cap funds are high-risk but have high return potential.

Short-term volatility is common; hold for at least 7-10 years.

Mid-Cap Funds
Mid-cap funds offer better returns than large caps but lower risk than small caps.

These funds require patience for growth.

Multi-Cap Funds
Multi-cap funds diversify across all market capitalisations.

These funds reduce dependency on a specific market segment.

Key Observations and Recommendations
Overlapping Categories
Three small-cap funds (ICICI, Nippon, SBI) increase risk.

Reduce exposure to two small-cap funds for better balance.

Portfolio Consolidation
Too many funds dilute returns and increase tracking difficulty.

Limit to 4-5 funds for focused growth.

Direct Fund Disadvantages
Direct funds lack professional guidance from certified professionals.

Regular funds through an MFD with CFP credential provide better support.

Tax Implications for Mutual Funds
Long-term capital gains (LTCG) above Rs. 1.25 lakh are taxed at 12.5%.

Short-term capital gains (STCG) are taxed at 20%.

Plan redemptions to optimise tax liability.

SIP Strategy for the Long Term
Continue SIPs for at least 7-10 years for compounding benefits.

Do not stop SIPs during market downturns; they offer better units.

Building a Balanced Portfolio
Suggested Allocation
Large-Cap: 40% for stability and consistent growth.

Mid-Cap: 20% for moderate risk and decent returns.

Small-Cap: 10% for higher growth potential.

Flexi-Cap or Multi-Cap: 30% for flexibility and balance.

Review and Monitoring
Review portfolio performance annually.

Adjust funds if consistent underperformance is noticed.

Avoid frequent changes based on short-term market movements.

Emergency Fund and Insurance
Set aside 6 months’ expenses in a liquid fund or FD.

Ensure adequate health and life insurance coverage.

Finally
Negative XIRR now is temporary; focus on long-term goals.

Diversify wisely and reduce overlapping categories.

Stay consistent and disciplined with your SIP investments.

Best Regards,

K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,

Chief Financial Planner,

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My corpus 5000000 in mf,my age now 60 years,having own home in noida with no emi balance,can i retire pl suggest
Ans: Retirement is an important life stage. Your preparation so far is appreciable. Below is a comprehensive plan to ensure a financially secure and stress-free retirement.

Assess Your Current Financial Position
You have Rs 50 lakh in mutual funds as a retirement corpus.

You own a home in Noida with no EMI burden.

Your living expenses and future needs are key to the retirement plan.

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Create a Monthly Income Plan
Calculate your monthly expenses, including household needs, medical costs, and lifestyle expenses.

Your corpus can generate income through well-planned investments.

Avoid withdrawing large amounts at once to preserve wealth for later years.

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Emergency Fund Setup
Allocate 12 months of expenses to an emergency fund.

Keep this fund in liquid or ultra-short-term mutual funds for safety and accessibility.

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Ensure Adequate Insurance Coverage
Health Insurance: Maintain a comprehensive health insurance policy. Ensure it covers advanced treatments.

Life Insurance: If no dependents exist, you may not need additional coverage.

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Reassess Mutual Fund Allocation
Review your current mutual funds with a Certified Financial Planner.

Focus on a balanced portfolio with moderate risk.

Shift some equity funds to hybrid or debt funds for stability.

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Regular Funds vs. Direct Funds
Direct funds lack professional guidance, which could lead to suboptimal decisions.

Regular funds through an MFD with CFP credential offer expert management and periodic reviews.

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Avoid Index Funds and ETFs
Index funds simply mirror the market and offer no active management.

Actively managed funds aim for better performance with professional expertise.

Opting for actively managed funds ensures tailored solutions for your retirement needs.

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Tax-Efficient Withdrawals
Equity mutual funds have LTCG above Rs 1.25 lakh taxed at 12.5%.

Short-term gains on equity funds are taxed at 20%.

Debt mutual fund gains are taxed as per your income tax slab.

Plan withdrawals in a tax-efficient manner to minimise outgo.

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Lifestyle and Expense Management
Live within your means while enjoying a comfortable lifestyle.

Avoid unnecessary large expenses or impulsive purchases.

Budget carefully for annual travel or occasional splurges.

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Income Supplement Ideas
Consider part-time consulting or freelancing if you enjoy work.

Explore monetising hobbies or skills for additional income.

Passive income options like rental income or dividend yield can help, if applicable.

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Periodic Review of Plan
Review your financial plan and portfolio every six months.

Adjust your investment strategy based on market conditions and personal needs.

Work with a Certified Financial Planner for expert advice.

Final Insights
Your corpus and debt-free status create a solid base for retirement. With careful planning, you can maintain financial security and enjoy this phase of life.

Best Regards,

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I am 41 years old. How to create a financial plan to accumulate a wealth of 20 crore in 20 years. My annual salary is 60 lakhs. My current home loan emi is 1.2L for 20 years and car emi is 35K for 7 years.
Ans: To achieve your financial goal, a well-structured financial plan is essential. Below is a detailed, step-by-step guide tailored to your current financial situation and aspirations.

Assess Your Current Financial Position
Annual salary: Rs 60 lakh
Home loan EMI: Rs 1.2 lakh per month
Car loan EMI: Rs 35,000 per month
This implies an annual EMI outflow of Rs 18.6 lakh. You must allocate your remaining income judiciously.

Emergency Fund
Build a fund covering 12 months of expenses.
Include EMIs, household expenses, and lifestyle costs.
Park this amount in a mix of liquid and ultra-short-term funds for safety.
Insurance Coverage
Life Insurance: Ensure you have a term insurance policy for adequate coverage. Coverage should ideally be 10–15 times your annual income.
Health Insurance: Opt for a comprehensive health insurance plan for your family.
Review existing LIC, ULIP, or investment-linked policies. Surrender such policies and reinvest in mutual funds for better returns.

Investment Strategy for Wealth Creation
1. Asset Allocation
Allocate your investments based on your risk tolerance and time horizon.
A 70:30 equity-to-debt ratio can balance growth and stability.
2. Equity Investments
Prefer actively managed mutual funds for wealth creation.
Actively managed funds have professional fund managers aiming to outperform benchmarks.
Regular investments through an MFD with a Certified Financial Planner (CFP) ensure disciplined investing.
3. Debt Investments
Invest in debt funds for stable returns and liquidity.
Avoid direct debt investments as they lack professional management.
4. Avoid Index Funds and ETFs
Index funds mirror market performance without aiming for higher returns.
Actively managed funds often outperform index funds in India.
Professional management in actively managed funds ensures better risk management.
Systematic Investment Plan (SIP)
Calculate your monthly SIP contribution needed to accumulate Rs 20 crore in 20 years.
Invest consistently in equity mutual funds for long-term growth.
SIPs offer rupee cost averaging and promote disciplined investing.
Managing Debt
Continue paying your home loan EMI as planned.
Avoid prepaying your home loan if the interest rate is reasonable.
For your car loan, avoid taking new loans after completion of the current one.
Tax-Efficient Planning
Equity Mutual Funds: LTCG above Rs 1.25 lakh is taxed at 12.5%. STCG is taxed at 20%.
Debt Mutual Funds: Gains are taxed as per your income tax slab.
Focus on tax-efficient investments to maximize post-tax returns.
Periodic Review
Review your financial plan every six months.
Ensure your investments align with your goals and risk tolerance.
Rebalance your portfolio if needed to maintain the desired asset allocation.
Lifestyle and Expense Management
Avoid unnecessary lifestyle inflation.
Focus on increasing savings and investments.
Create a monthly budget to track expenses and prioritize savings.
Additional Tips
Invest in your skills and career growth to boost income.
Explore alternative income streams for supplementary savings.
Stay disciplined and avoid emotional decisions during market volatility.
Final Insights
Accumulating Rs 20 crore in 20 years requires disciplined savings, tax-efficient planning, and a growth-focused investment approach. Work with a Certified Financial Planner to create and execute a customized financial plan.

Best Regards,

K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,

Chief Financial Planner,

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sir my monthly income is approx 50000 expense around 35000 can invest 10000 per month my age is 39 F can invest till 10 years for minimum dont have any specific goals just want to have a decent amount at the time of retirement no loan or liability as of now kindly advise with specific MF /Shares /LIC where to invest
Ans: At 39, you have no loans or liabilities.

Monthly income is Rs. 50,000, with Rs. 10,000 available for investment.

You aim to build a retirement corpus over 10 years.

Recommended Savings and Investments
Equity Mutual Funds
Allocate 60% of your Rs. 10,000 to equity mutual funds.

Equity mutual funds provide long-term growth and inflation-beating returns.

Invest through SIPs for disciplined and consistent investments.

Actively managed funds offer higher returns than index funds over the long term.

Hybrid Mutual Funds
Allocate 20% of your investment to hybrid mutual funds.

These funds offer a mix of equity and debt for moderate growth.

They reduce the risk of market volatility.

Debt Mutual Funds
Allocate 10% to debt mutual funds for stability and short-term needs.

Debt funds are safer than equity and provide consistent returns.

Use these for medium-term goals or emergencies.

Public Provident Fund (PPF)
Invest 10% of your monthly amount in PPF.

PPF offers tax-free returns and secure long-term growth.

It is an excellent addition to equity and debt investments.

Importance of Regular Reviews
Review your portfolio every year to track performance.

Adjust investments based on market conditions and life changes.

Rebalance to maintain the right mix of equity and debt.

Build an Emergency Fund
Save 3-6 months of expenses in a liquid fund or savings account.

This protects you from financial stress during emergencies.

Health and Life Insurance
Ensure adequate health insurance for yourself.

Get a term life insurance policy if you have dependents.

Avoid Common Pitfalls
Do not invest in real estate for retirement planning.

Avoid index funds and ETFs due to their lack of active management.

Stay away from ULIPs or investment-cum-insurance products.

Tax Planning for Investments
Use tax-saving instruments under Section 80C, like PPF or ELSS.

Track the new tax rules for mutual fund capital gains.

Consult a Certified Financial Planner for personalised tax advice.

Finally
Start a SIP of Rs. 10,000 across equity, hybrid, and debt mutual funds.

Add PPF for tax-free and stable returns.

Review your plan yearly and increase SIPs as income grows.

Focus on disciplined savings and diversification for a secure retirement.

Best Regards,

K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,

Chief Financial Planner,

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Hey Aditya.. I have a question pls I have 2 long term goals- child education fund (18yr from now)+ retirement fund (28 yrs from now) I already have SIPs in place for my retirement(set of good 5 funds) but for child's education should I pick another set of completely different funds or just increase SIP amounts in my retirement fund?
Ans: You have clearly defined two long-term goals: child education (18 years) and retirement (28 years). Both require disciplined planning and focused execution. Your question reflects your thoughtful approach to investing, and this is commendable.

Let’s assess whether using the same funds for both goals or selecting a new set of funds is the better strategy.

Advantages of Increasing SIP Amounts in Existing Retirement Funds
Established Performance: You have chosen five good funds for retirement. They likely have a strong track record and align with your goals.

Simplified Portfolio Management: Managing fewer funds reduces complexity and ensures easier tracking and review.

Cost Efficiency: Adding to the existing funds avoids transaction costs, exit loads, or other fees.

Consistency in Investment Strategy: It avoids the risk of over-diversification, which can dilute returns.

However, it is essential to ensure that your existing funds are diversified across asset classes, sectors, and geographies. This ensures they can cater to both goals.

When to Choose a Separate Set of Funds
Different Risk Profiles: Child education and retirement goals have different timelines. For child education (18 years), equity exposure can be high initially and reduced later. For retirement (28 years), you can stay invested in equity for longer. A separate strategy for each goal ensures alignment with these timelines.

Better Focus on Specific Goals: Having dedicated funds ensures that your child’s education and retirement planning are not mixed up. This avoids the temptation to dip into one goal's corpus to fulfill another.

Flexibility in Portfolio Allocation: Separate funds for education allow you to use balanced or hybrid funds in later years, ensuring stability as the goal nears. Retirement funds can remain equity-focused for longer.

Evaluating Your Current Situation
If your existing five funds are diversified and have a proven track record, you can consider increasing SIP amounts to fulfill both goals.

If the current funds are heavily equity-oriented, you may add a balanced or hybrid fund specifically for the child’s education. These funds provide stability as the education goal approaches.

Suggested Approach
Split Your Investment: Allocate a portion of your SIP to existing funds and use another portion to create a separate portfolio for your child’s education.

Asset Allocation for Education: For the first 12-15 years, focus on equity funds. Shift gradually to balanced funds or debt-oriented funds in the final 3-5 years.

Portfolio Review: Review both sets of investments every year. Ensure they align with the timelines and adjust the allocation as needed.

Key Recommendations
Diversification is critical. If all your current funds are in one category, explore other categories.

Avoid over-diversification by limiting your total funds to 6-8 across both goals.

Stick to investing through a Certified Financial Planner (CFP). Their guidance ensures better fund selection and monitoring.

Track your goals regularly. Make sure your education fund grows at a pace aligned with inflation in education costs.

Final Insights
Both approaches—using the same funds or separate ones—have merits. The choice depends on your current portfolio’s diversification and your preference for managing complexity.

Focus on disciplined investing and regular reviews. This ensures that both goals are achieved without compromising one for the other.

Best Regards,
K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP
Chief Financial Planner

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Asked by Anonymous - Jan 22, 2025Hindi
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My age is 37 years but I have no savings my income is 1.10lakh per month and spending is 35000how much amount of money I need to save in a month and where I need to save to get retirement at age 55
Ans: You are 37 years old with a stable income of Rs. 1.10 lakh per month.

Monthly expenses are Rs. 35,000, leaving Rs. 75,000 as surplus.

There are no savings currently, which means you need to start from scratch.

Retirement at age 55 leaves 18 years for financial planning.

Set Your Retirement Goal
Decide your retirement corpus based on lifestyle needs.

Consider inflation and plan for 30+ years post-retirement.

Assume monthly expenses of Rs. 35,000 today. Adjust them for inflation.

A Certified Financial Planner can help calculate your retirement corpus.

Determine Savings Target
Start saving at least 50-60% of your surplus.

Target saving Rs. 50,000 to Rs. 60,000 monthly consistently.

Increase savings as your income grows in the future.

Early and disciplined saving will ease the burden later.

Create a Diversified Investment Portfolio
Equity Mutual Funds
Equity mutual funds offer long-term growth.

Invest 70% of savings here for higher returns.

Choose actively managed funds for wealth creation.

Invest regularly through monthly SIPs.

Debt Mutual Funds
Allocate 20% of savings to debt mutual funds.

These funds ensure stability and lower risk.

Use them for medium-term goals and rebalancing.

Public Provident Fund (PPF)
Invest 10% of savings in PPF for tax-free returns.

PPF is a secure, long-term investment option.

Regular Review and Rebalancing
Review your portfolio yearly to track progress.

Rebalance investments to maintain equity and debt ratio.

Adjust for changing income, expenses, and market conditions.

Emergency Fund and Insurance
Build an emergency fund with 6 months of expenses.

Keep this fund in liquid instruments like FDs or savings accounts.

Get adequate health and term insurance coverage.

Avoid Common Mistakes
Do not invest in real estate for retirement planning.

Avoid ULIPs or investment-cum-insurance policies.

Focus on investments aligned with your goals.

Tax Efficiency in Investments
Use tax-saving instruments under Section 80C.

Stay updated on mutual fund capital gains taxation.

Use the guidance of a Certified Financial Planner for tax planning.

Final Insights
Start saving Rs. 50,000-60,000 monthly immediately.

Invest in equity, debt, and PPF for diversification.

Review and adjust your plan regularly for better results.

Stay disciplined and focus on long-term goals for retirement at 55.

Best Regards,

K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,

Chief Financial Planner,

www.holisticinvestment.in
https://www.youtube.com/@HolisticInvestment

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