Home > Relationship > Question
Need Expert Advice?Our Gurus Can Help

I struggle with thinking spontaneously and following instructions - how can I cope with this?

Anu

Anu Krishna  |1477 Answers  |Ask -

Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Feb 03, 2025

Anu Krishna is a mind coach and relationship expert.
The co-founder of Unfear Changemakers LLP, she has received her neuro linguistic programming training from National Federation of NeuroLinguistic Programming, USA, and her energy work specialisation from the Institute for Inner Studies, Manila.
She is an executive member of the Indian Association of Adolescent Health.... more
Asked by Anonymous - Jan 31, 2025Hindi
Listen
Relationship

i struggle with spontaneous thinking and following verbal instructions. I can’t respond when someone asks questions, even simple ones. For example, when my friend asked the meaning of “modest,” I couldn’t respond. Even I couldn't figure out what stopped me from responding and i don't know why I couldn't recall. I drew a blank, not because of stress. I was malnourished and used to faint up until class 5. I also had a head injury and lost blood when I was around 4 years old. I think the head injury could have long-term effects on my memory or cognitive intelligence. I can’t determine whether my memory recall problems are due to malnutrition or the head injury. I struggle with spontaneous thinking, following verbal instructions, and learning online. I often act absentminded and don’t know why. I can’t write answers or solve problems during exams, even though I can easily solve them at home later. This affects my confidence negatively. Additionally, I was stunted and am only 5 feet tall so I am vertically challenged Is there a way to deal with these situations given the effect of malnutrition on my cognitive intelligence is irreversible? Lockdown seems to have exacerbated the problem

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
It can be very distressing to go blank at times. But neither you nor me can pinpoint the exact cause for it. It might be a good idea to actually check this out medically if the head injury in fact did cause what you are facing now. Otherwise, you will just find yourself thinking of whether this or that caused what...
Once a cause is known, the path to remedy it becomes simpler. So, my suggestion to you to deal with the situations as you have mentioned is to seek medical help and if there is any therapy that is suggested after that, it will help improve cognitive skills and mind state. But first, consult a doctor.

All the best!
Anu Krishna
Mind Coach|NLP Trainer|Author
Drop in: www.unfear.io
Reach me: Facebook: anukrish07/ AND LinkedIn: anukrishna-joyofserving/

You may like to see similar questions and answers below

Latest Questions
Sushil

Sushil Sukhwani  |582 Answers  |Ask -

Study Abroad Expert - Answered on Feb 03, 2025

Asked by Anonymous - Jan 31, 2025Hindi
Listen
Career
Dear Sir , My daughter is currently an XI th grader at an ISC school in Navi Mumbai . She chose Commerce early on and has excelled in all the subjects so far. Post HSC , She would want to pursue an undergrad degree in Finance/Economics in a top university in India . The situation is that she being an USA citizen, we are not sure about the eligibility and intake criterion of Top Universities colleges for Foreign Citizens. can you help us understand the same .Will she have to take up CUET ,CET,NPAT and likes of same or would there be different qualification criteria, she being a foreign citizen . Hope I am able to articulate my question well . Thank you in advance .
Ans: Hello,

Firstly, thank you for contacting us. To answer your question, while the application process for foreign nationals may have slight variations compared to Indian students, your daughter should not face any issues when pursuing an undergraduate degree in finance or economics at top universities in India as many institutions have a well-defined process for international students. While she may still need to take entrance exams, the process is generally straightforward, and her excellent academic performance will put her in a great position. I’d recommend visiting the specific university websites to understand the details, but overall, she should be in a great position to pursue her goals in India.

Additionally, since she is already a US citizen, she might also consider pursuing her degree in the USA, where there are abundant opportunities in Finance and Economics, with no visa concerns to worry about.

For more information you can visit our website: edwiseinternational.com
You can also follow us on Instagram: @edwiseint

...Read more

Sushil

Sushil Sukhwani  |582 Answers  |Ask -

Study Abroad Expert - Answered on Feb 03, 2025

Asked by Anonymous - Sep 10, 2024Hindi
Listen
Career
Subject: Guidance for studying abroad and scholarship opportunities Dear Career Counsellor, I'm reaching out for guidance on behalf of my son, who recently passed his SSC (MH Board) with 91% and aspirations to study business management abroad after his 12th grade. As a middle-class family, we're looking for economical options with scholarship opportunities. Considering his strengths in maths and science, we're unsure whether to opt for the commerce stream in 11th grade. Please advise: 1. Suitable countries for affordable studies in business management 2. Scholarship opportunities available for Indian students 3. Recommendations for the 11th grade stream (commerce or otherwise) aligning with his interests and strengths Thank you for your valuable guidance and support. Best regards,
Ans: Hello,

First of all, thank you for reaching out to us and congratulations to your son on his outstanding SSC results. To answer your question, given your son’s strong academic record and aspirations in business management, I would suggest considering countries like Germany, Canada, the USA, and the UK. Germany and Canada offer relatively low tuition fees with scholarship opportunities, such as the DAAD for Germany, while the USA and UK, though higher in costs, provide various merit-based scholarships. In particular, the USA offers the potential for high-paying jobs after graduation, which can help recoup the investment in education very quickly. For the 11th-grade stream, considering his strengths in mathematics and science, opting for the commerce stream with mathematics would be a solid choice. This would provide him with a strong foundation for business management while keeping future options open. Additionally, incorporating subjects like economics could further complement his interests and prepare him for the business field. I wish him all the best in his academic journey.

For more information you can visit our website: edwiseinternational.com
You can also follow us on Instagram: @edwiseint

...Read more

DISCLAIMER: The content of this post by the expert is the personal view of the rediffGURU. Investment in securities market are subject to market risks. Read all the related document carefully before investing. The securities quoted are for illustration only and are not recommendatory. Users are advised to pursue the information provided by the rediffGURU only as a source of information and as a point of reference and to rely on their own judgement when making a decision. RediffGURUS is an intermediary as per India's Information Technology Act.

Close  

You haven't logged in yet. To ask a question, Please Log in below
Login

A verification OTP will be sent to this
Mobile Number / Email

Enter OTP
A 6 digit code has been sent to

Resend OTP in120seconds

Dear User, You have not registered yet. Please register by filling the fields below to get expert answers from our Gurus
Sign up

By signing up, you agree to our
Terms & Conditions and Privacy Policy

Already have an account?

Enter OTP
A 6 digit code has been sent to Mobile

Resend OTP in120seconds

x