Anu Krishna |1328 Answers |Ask -Follow
Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Nov 01, 2022
Dear SJ,
This is something that I have been seeing lately with a lot of people.
Something lacks within your current relationship and to fulfil that you look for it elsewhere only to realise that things have gotten out of hands.
In your case, love has blossomed in and suddenly now you have realized that it might cause a flutter within two relationships.
He has made it clear that he wants to be with his wife which should give you an idea not to make any more emotional investment. You will end up getting hurt even more if you do.
Time for you to start feeling solace and gaining better self-esteem by valuing yourself more. You don’t need anyone for you to love yourself, do you?
So, stop giving this so much importance. He was there when you needed him and vice-versa. Now, that things are getting a little complicated, time to revise the way you think and act.
You don’t need to lose a friend if the feelings that you have for him can be healthier and not draining on either of you.
If not, maybe you need to think how you can handle this agony better. Be your own friend first and then you start making better choices on who to let into your life.
Possible? Yes, start now…
All the best!
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