Ravi sir, What are the chances of finding a long-lasting relationship on a paid social dating website?

Ans: Dear A,

It is true that a small portion of deviants make it through the air-tight security that most dating apps provide, but it wouldn't be right to say that there are no genuine people who are interested in interacting or being friends. In fact, a large majority of our users are in the app seeking friendship.

Here and there, you might find some spammy profiles that got through, despite a dating app’s best efforts. Report any suspicious profile as soon as you recognize them as fake users; I assure you that most dating apps take prompt action after checking the genuinity of the report.

Here are some ways to identify a fake profile:

• While some people do not put up their own pictures due to privacy issues, there will be at least a picture of an animal, some random scenery, or wallpapers. But a profile that has a blank space for a display image is more likely a fake one.
• Beware of suspicious first messages with a user directly sharing their number.
• Let's say, you have been talking to someone. If you notice inconsistencies in their stories, it might be a fake profile. Even if they aren't one, it's best not to be in contact with people starting a relationship with lies.
• Financial talks- discussing money or asking for money- during the chatting phase is a big red flag.

Hope this helps.

Ans: Dear Anonymous,

I understand your concern. More and more people are using dating apps to look for a partner to get married to; it gives people the chance of having a brief dating life before settling down with the person. You can try it without a doubt. I only advise you to make it obvious from the beginning itself that you are looking for a serious relationship that finally leads to marriage. It will help you attract the right kind of people.

Best Wishes!

Ans: Dear Syedsiraj,

A lot of things factor in. Are you financially well off? Then, you can find a woman of your own stature. But, a person's financial status should not be the only trait that you should be considering while seeking a match. Matching perspectives, likes and dislikes, personality, education, and more things are to be considered.

Hope this helps.