Ravi, Is it okay for a 13 year old to have a serious relationship? (Dating-wise)

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Right or wrong is simply the way you look at the world. What is the lens that you wear to see the world?
That will define 'your right and your wrong'. Honestly, there is no right or wrong as it's all perception (the way your beliefs rule your thoughts will lead you to believe in right and wrong.)

Society has labeled something as wrong and generations down the line, it has been followed...whether anyone likes it or not simply because of the fear of being condemned. So, that's where sex before marriage falls under. Of course, it was also pushed down as way of controlling cross-mixing of genetic pools perhaps and maybe also to control the population and give children a stable home. Else, it would have been a free for all society which does have it's negative impact.
So, I am sure you know what it is for you and you don't require anyone telling you what you must do or not. Use your mind to do the thing that is right by you and others as well. Sometimes, it may align with the rule makers and sometimes it may go against and that's where every new generation comes in to challenge old thoughts. But be wary of recklessness and impulsive acts...they lead to quite a lot of confusion and aftermath.

Casual by the very word, can mean temporary or fluid with possibly no strings attached and serious is serious maybe leading to a commitment of some nature in a relationship.

All the best!

Ans: It's perfectly fine to have a girlfriend (romantic relationship) at any age, as long as both you and she take responsibility for the relationship, just like in any other relationship. Also, it's true that your mindset is influenced by the people you surround yourself with. That's why it's important to be around people who are smarter and better than you, rather than being the smartest in your group. As for having someone to talk to, why not talk to your friends, both girls and boys, without labeling the friendship as girlfriend or boyfriend? They can simply be friends.

Ans: You're only as young as you feel, and age should never be a barrier to entering into a relationship. However, it's crucial to be honest about your current relationship status from the 1st interaction, especially if you're legally married.

Ans: Dear Anonymous,

It's wonderful that you are ready to be in a relationship. You can try dating IRL- ask a friend to set you up with someone compatible or maybe ask a close family member. Or you can go for dating apps. Find one that suits your preference. Add a detailed bio to attract the right matches. Once you find a match, send them an engaging message to connect well.

Either way can work out fine. Just take your time and do not rush into anything.

Best Wishes.

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
16 is usually a very common age when people start experiencing romantic attractions. However, I want you to understand your parents' perspective as well. At 16, you might be too young to understand what’s best for you. They are worried about your feelings. I understand that it’s a tricky situation but I just wanted you to understand that they have the best of your intentions at heart.

No, it is not a crime to have feelings; it is quite normal, but again, your parents are worried about you getting hurt, which often happens at this age. I suggest you focus on your studies and enjoy friendships because these will turn out to be the best days of your life. If you come across someone special, try to build a friendship first. Take your time to understand if you two have similar intentions, interests, values and goals. This will help you understand your compatibility. Once all of that is established, you can, without rush, decide if the person is worth your time, energy, and effort.

Hope this helps