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Dating, Relationships Expert - Answered on May 08, 2023

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ashok Question by ashok on May 05, 2023Hindi
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Pl tell me the procedure of dating with someone

Ans: Dear Ashok,

There's no hard and fast rule or a fixed procedure to date someone. But for your better understanding, I am listing 5 steps to date successfully-

1) The Initial Attraction- This is when two individuals who are attracted to one another realize and then assess everything that suggests that admitting their emotions for one another is the best next step.

2) The analyzing phase- Now, you will figure out the right time to make the move, should you be making it first or should you wait for it- basically you will analyze every step to make sure when there is a proposal, it succeeds.

3) Presentation- Make sure to put forward the right foot and make a perfect impression. This step is important- this is where you can make the most effort to pique your crush's interest in you and seal the upcoming deal.

4) Build connection- Talk to them as much as possible, get to know them, and help them get to know you. Find the similarities and stress on them to make your crush see the two of you as an ideal pair. Communicate to find the connection that goes beyond the initial attraction.

5) Confess- This is the last stage; confess your feelings when the timing is perfect and propose that the two of you start dating. If they say yes, congratulations, you are now dating. If not, don't worry, repeat the process when you find another perfect match.

Best Wishes!

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Hii sir ! This is ritika and I love a boy and we are in relationship since 7 years but there are some behavior of him he always have doubt on me that I am dating another boy he always says that start you screenshare in WhatsApp I even do because I don't want to lose him and he saw all of things of my phone yesterday he again asking for that and I do and there was a tab of instagram which was belongs to my roommate it was her I'd open in my chrome browser where she only wants to delete the I'd which she did from my phone these instagram thing happened approx one year ago but when he saw this I told him that was not mine but he continuously said I am cheater I cheated with him again he was like I know you have two mobile phones and you cheated with me. I love him soo much but he cannot try to accept that . Even I don't talk to my male classmate because he didn't want ki main kisi boy se baat karu Is it fair , am I cheater ? I love him unconditionally I support him in all his career or decision but again he was like I cheated with him we are in long distance relationship but I can't cheat him . Literally I am feeling depressed ????
Ans: Dear Ritika,

Please understand that you did nothing wrong. Why would you even question yourself? You know you never cheated. It's his issue that he cannot trust. Yes, in a relationship we all try to comfort our partners but that too should be to a certain extent. And, in that process, if your mental health is being compromised, I don't see how it's a healthy relationship.

I don't want to tell you what to do, but I would reassure you that YOU DID NOTHING WRONG. You don't need to prove yourself anymore. And I can also assure you that no matter what you do, he will still manage to find some flaws and doubt you. It's a typical behavior we see in some partners. You deserve peace, love, and above all, to be trusted.

Best Wishes.

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