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Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Aug 13, 2024

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Asked by Anonymous - Aug 07, 2024Hindi
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Meri sadi ko 13 saal ho gaye mere 3 bachche h my son 11 year,and 6 year and my daughter is 3 month ke h. Meri aarthik isthiti tik nahi h.likin kaise b ho ghar chal raha h kabhi kabhi aisa lagata h.ki main apni pariwar ki sabhi jarurat ko pura nahi kar pa raha hu.meri wife kabhi kabhi mujhse ghusse me (Teri aukad nahi h.ghar chalane ki) bolti h.main bahut haert ho jata ho. Or thoda gilti feel hota.h.main kaise manage karu.pls reply

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Logon ka kya hai...taane maarne mein maahir hote hain...Jitna aap nazarandaaz karoge utna hi aap shantipoorvak jee sakte hain...yahaan par aapki patni bhi shaamil hain...kya karein? Agar unke nazariye se dekhe toh unki taraf se woh galat nahin hai...aaj kal TV aur internet hume yeh ehsaas dilaata rehta hai ki jitna bhi ho woh kam hi hai...
Tassalli ke liye aap yeh soche ki unko chamkeeli duniya dikhti hai aapki pareshaani nahin...

Ghar ke saamaanya zarooraton ko aap pehla poora karein aur agar aapke paas kuch samay bachta hai din mein ya shanivaar aur ravivaar ko aap ghar se hi computer pe tuition/coaching kar sakte hain. Aaj kal yeh ek accha zariya ban gaya hai extra paisa kamaane ke liye...Free waqt ka sahi upyog kijiye. Jab aapko lage ki ghar ki stithi theek hone lagi hain, tab aap kabhi bhi yeh karna band kar sakte hain...Guilty hona ya na hona, yeh aap pe nirbhar hota hai...aapne kiya kya hai ki guilty feel karne ke liye...jitna aapse ban pad raha hai aap kar rahe ho...aapki patni ki baaton ka bura mat maaniye...woh toh sirf apne khayaal aapke saamne rakh rahi hain aapko tok ke...par jab aap jaante hain ki aap sacche mann se jitna ho raha hai kar rahe ho, toh sukoon se rahiye...bas extra income ka zariye dhoondhiye...

All the best!
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Actively managed funds may outperform in volatile markets, which is a significant advantage for those looking to generate regular income.

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