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Help! My Best Friend's Ex Boyfriend wants to meet her before his marriage - What should I advise?

Ravi Mittal |474 Answers |Ask -Follow

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Question by Singh on Dec 23, 2024Hindi

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Sir mere best friend ka jo ex boyfriend tha uski shadi fixed ho gayi hai. Aur woh meri friend se last time meet karne ke liye bula raha hai. Meri friend mujhse suggestion mang rahi hai infact sath chal ne ke liye bol rahi hai. Please suggest me usse kaise aur kya samjhaun.

Ans: Dear Sonalee,
I am not sure if it's such a good idea to go and meet her ex, but if that's what she needs to do for closure, then other than supporting her, there isn't much you can do. I know it sucks to see our loved ones in pain and making choices that will cause them more pain, but in some cases, we have to let them make their own decisions. Go with her since she is asking you to; look out for any kind of tricky situation and be there for her because it won't be easy.

Best Wishes.

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Hello i am almost 30 now I have invested around 40 lakhs in Market (mutual funds plus equity) 6 lakhs ppf maybe 2 lakhs pf I have parental property of combining around 2.5cr I have my parents helath insurance from a private insurance company, also covered by cghs health scheme,so no major worries about health expenses, for me i have 10lakhs health insurance Apart from this we have family pension also. As of now overall i have a monthly income of around 2-2.25 lakhs. I have a car a bike a scooty all valid for next 8-10 years What should be my goal amount for the retirement, i want it as early as possible As per the current scenario i am assuming i will live max till 75 years age. As of now i can invest 80-90k per month Yet to be married i assume i need atleast Lakhs per month as of now What should be the ideal amount with which i can retire

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