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Help! My Best Friend's Ex Boyfriend wants to meet her before his marriage - What should I advise?

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Dating, Relationships Expert - Answered on Dec 24, 2024

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Question by Singh on Dec 23, 2024Hindi

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Sir mere best friend ka jo ex boyfriend tha uski shadi fixed ho gayi hai. Aur woh meri friend se last time meet karne ke liye bula raha hai. Meri friend mujhse suggestion mang rahi hai infact sath chal ne ke liye bol rahi hai. Please suggest me usse kaise aur kya samjhaun.

Ans: Dear Sonalee,
I am not sure if it's such a good idea to go and meet her ex, but if that's what she needs to do for closure, then other than supporting her, there isn't much you can do. I know it sucks to see our loved ones in pain and making choices that will cause them more pain, but in some cases, we have to let them make their own decisions. Go with her since she is asking you to; look out for any kind of tricky situation and be there for her because it won't be easy.

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