Hi I am 34 year old male and want to settle down but also in doubt that the marriage will take my independence. I started looking for bride with arrange marriage option. I am taking to a girl for last 3-4 months 2 time a week. I never had any serious relationship before and don't know what exactly to lookout in marriage. The girl I am seeing has average looks and physique but she okay with conversation and little shy and majority of the conversation I have only started. Her weight or BMI is very low around 19 and my BMI is overweight above 26. There is different in 45-50 kgs in weight. Am I working too much about physical appearance and should I interact with other prospects also. I have meet with her family along with my parent two times and little worried that more meeting will led to frustration if marriage didn't materialize. I have also left my current job and taking some break before joining new one. Will this career break will impact my marriage prospects. Also sometimes I feel that I may have set my standards very high as I am well educated from good institute and I can explore many options before choosing one. Is this leading me to non commitment as I may find some fault to not commit to marriage.

Ans: Tanmay Sir, With a 95.15 percentile and AIR 75,930 (General, UP Home State), admission to top branches at MNNIT Allahabad or IIIT Lucknow is unlikely. Your son can realistically target mid-tier NITs and strong GFTIs for core branches, but not top-tier NITs for CSE under the Open quota. JoSAA data suggests that a 95 percentile (75k rank range) typically secures seats in NIT Agartala, NIT Silchar, NIT Hamirpur, NIT Raipur, NIT Patna, NIT Nagaland, NIT Srinagar, NIT Uttarakhand, NIT Puducherry, and similar mid-tier NITs—mainly in ME, EE, ECE, Civil, or CS-allied branches under the General quota. CSE is often available only in newer or remote NITs or through a home-state quota. Keep HBTU Kanpur counseling, AKTU/UPTAC top colleges, and CSAB special rounds active as backup options; these may offer better ROI than weaker JoSAA choices at this rank. ALL the BEST for Your Prosperous Future!

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Ans: First of all, if she is not strong in Mathematics and Computer Science, it’s better to avoid choosing this domain, as she may feel she made the wrong choice after a year of joining. Recommended options to consider are: (1) NIT Delhi – CSE (2) IGDTUW – Computer Science and Artificial Intelligence (CSAI) (3) DTU – Cyber Security (4) NSUT – IT (slightly below DTU in ranking) (5) BIT Mesra – CSE (6) DTU – ECE (7) NSUT – ECE (8) NSUT East – Computer Science and Data Analytics (CSDA) (9) IIIT Gwalior—Integrated IT & MBA & (10) DTU/NSUT—Mathematics & Computing (M&C)—recommended last, considering her relatively weaker comfort with mathematics. Choosing from these will help align her strengths and interests better. ALL the BEST for Your Your Prosperous Future!

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Ans: Sara, with a 96.6 percentile (General, Kerala Home State), admission to top branches like CSE, IT, or ECE at NIT Calicut or IIIT Kottayam is unlikely. For instance, IIIT Kottayam’s CSE closed at rank 31,235 (2024 AI OPEN), and NIT Calicut’s home state open-category cutoffs for lower branches range around 41,000–44,000. Therefore, branches like Civil, Biotechnology, Materials, or Production are more realistic options. Fill in the maximum number of choices starting with your preferred branches and institutions through JoSAA to maximize your chances of admission.

Additionally, consider CSAB Special Rounds and Kerala state/private counselling as backup options to improve your chances—especially if you’re appearing for the KEAM exam or have applied to entrance exams for other top private engineering colleges. ALL the BEST for Your Prosperous Future!

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Ans: You have not mentioned your home state. Anyway, please note, at the 97.61 percentile (EWS), securing CSE or IT in top NITs is difficult due to their higher cutoffs. However, your son still has good chances of getting strong branches like CSE, IT, or AI in newer IIITs or some newer NITs. He may also get ECE, EEE, or mechanical engineering in mid-tier or lower-ranked NITs, especially if he benefits from the EWS rank and home state quota. Overall, good opportunities exist, though not in top NIT CSE.

As an alternative, consider 3-4 top and reputed private engineering colleges offering the branches your son prefers to broaden his options. ALL the BEST for Your Son's Prosperous Future!

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Ans: Pradeep Sir, JIIT has two campuses. With a JEE rank of 218,657, admission to the Main Campus (Sector 62) will be difficult, but the chances are higher for the second campus at Sector 128. For CSE and allied branches, JIIT Noida’s official placement outcomes are strong, and students from the Sector 128 campus participate in the shared placement ecosystem. As I’ve already suggested, please ensure you have multiple backup options to help finalize the most suitable choice for your daughter. ALL the BEST for Your Daughter's Prosperous Future!

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Ans: Getting admission into NITs, IIITs, or GFTIs can be challenging, especially for high-demand branches. It’s advisable to register with and apply to 5-6 reputed private engineering colleges in and around your home state for the branches she is interested in and passionate about. After evaluating these options, you can finalize the most suitable college for her. ALL the BEST for Your Daughter's Prosperous Future!

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Ans: Sastra’s 5-year integrated BSc–MSc in Mathematics and Computing (Thanjavur) is a strong, math-intensive, research-oriented program ideal for students with a deep interest in mathematics who are open to careers in finance, data science, or academia. The curriculum blends core pure and applied mathematics with programming, statistics, and computing, preparing graduates for CSIR-NET, GATE (Maths), PhD-track admissions, as well as roles in data science, quantitative finance, actuarial science, cryptography, and software/data-driven R&D.

However, I highly recommend the Chennai Mathematical Institute (CMI), a top-tier pure mathematics institute offering a far more rigorous, research-focused environment. CMI is better suited if your son is strongly inclined toward pure mathematics or theoretical computer science research rather than applied IT-style careers.

Sastra’s integrated Mathematics and Computing is more practical and balanced, while CMI is preferable only if he aims for top-level pure math research or academia. Your son should choose CMI over SASTRA if he is truly math-driven, comfortable with a rigorous entrance test, and enjoys proof-based thinking, abstraction, algorithms, and research. Alternatively, he can choose SASTRA if he prefers mathematics combined with computing in a more mainstream university setting with a broader safety net and a less narrowly research-centric environment.

Both are good options, but I suggest giving preference to CMI if your son’s passion lies in pure mathematics. ALL the BEST for Your Prosperous Future!

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Ans: Chances are slim. Try with lower NITs or less demanded branches.

Good luck.
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