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Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Jan 31, 2024

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Asked by Anonymous - Jan 21, 2024Hindi
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Main 34 saal ka hu main graduation Kiya huya hai phir bhi life me main kuch bhi nahi kar pa raha hu ASE me mujhe kya karna hoga

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Kuch na karne ki chaahat bhi ek aadat ban sakti hai jaise aap mein hua hai.
Kuch karna hai zindagi mein toh, jis jagah mein ho aap, uthiye aur plan banaiye aur aage badhiye. Haan yeh bhi ho sakta hai ki har waqt kaamiyaabi aapke saath na de, par yahi toh zindagi ki seekh bhi hai; kuch haarna kuch jeetna. 34 ke umr mein agar ab bhi aap soch rahein ho ki kya karna chahiye, toh shaayd zindagi mein aapne bahut mauke gawaa chuke hain...mauke har waqt nahin aate...haan, aur ek baat...kuch toh aapme aisi baat hogi joh aap kisi kaam mein daal sakte ho...aaj kal log online se hi kaam kar lete hain. kuch log business/vyapaar mein dilchaspi rakhte hain...
Dhoondhiye ki aapko kis cheez mein dilchaspi hai; kisi dost ke saath baithke aap is baat ka soch vichaar kar sakte hain. Yeh sab karne ke baad pehle kadam toh aapko hi uthaana padega...Ghode ko taalaab tak le jaa sakte hain par jhuk ke paani peena toh usi ko karna hota hai...

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6. Check their approach to preventive care: A capable dentist emphasizes preventive care, including regular cleanings, exams, and education on oral hygiene.

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Whatever you are feeling, it is very normal. More people than you could imagine go through this same phase. But as you mentioned, these are just thoughts; there is no truth to them. Not having a relationship does not make you uncool. It merely means that you did not meet your perfect match yet. I understand that you feel like you have missed out on something and that feeling is valid. It might not be reasonable, but it's very natural to think this way. I can suggest one thing- why don't you try a dating or matchmaking app to find your own partner? That way, you will be keeping your parents' wishes and won't let yourself down either. It will also give you more control over choosing your life partner.

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