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Relationships Expert, Mind Coach - Answered on Aug 23, 2022
Dear R,
Time to stop playing the ‘victim’ card and take charge of your life?
Life isn’t fair at times and all of us face challenges at different points in time.
What if you accepted your mother for who she is rather than try and change her?
Thinking repeatedly about the ‘wrong’ she did to you, is only going to make you feel more resentment.
By asking her to change, (I am sure you have tried this before), has she changed for you to feel secure?
People and their behaviours is not in your control and the more you attempt to change it, the more disappointed you are going to be.
Why not focus on yourself and find your security with close friends and yourself?
The more you play a ‘victim’, the more you will feel the need to prove how poorly you have been treated.
Can you let go of that thin rope and look inward, play on your strengths and tell yourself to accept, move on and create a better life?
And you are not an awful child’ it’s just your mother’s way of asking for your attention negatively.
Smile and become silent. This might cause her to take note and change her stance about you.
All the best!
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