How get good relationship with people if something get wrong

Ans: Dear Sunder,

There are different variables to building a good relationship.

Here are a few:

• Having trust in your partner and being trustworthy is crucial in any healthy relationship.
• Communication, precisely open and productive, is mandatory to have a happy relationship.
• Take out individual time to get to know yourself and your needs. Once you know them, you can voice them to your partner allowing them to understand how to love you the right way.
• Do not seek to control your partner. Your relationship does not entitle you to tell your partner what to do and how to live their life.
• Fight fair; you can't avoid conflicts but you can avoid them from getting ugly. Even arguments can be productive.
• Say your sorrys and thank yous when due.

Falling in love is easy but staying in love takes effort.

Best wishes!

Ans: Dear Rajesh,

I understand that you have recently had a breakup and you would like to fix it. It is very important to understand why you had the breakup. Was it because of differences in core values or some other serious issues like cheating or abuse in the relationship? If so, I would advise you not to go back or try to fix your relationship.

If your breakup was based on some silly fight, then you can try reaching out to your partner and apologizing if the mistake was on your end. You can ask them to meet you somewhere and have a clear discussion face-to-face. Talk about all that went wrong and how it led to something as serious as a breakup and discuss how that can be changed. You can ask your partner what you can do to fix things from your side and tell them what they can do to fix things from their side.

Now after trying everything, if your partner still does not want to get back together, don't force them into it. Some relationships end and sometimes it's better that way. You have to accept it.

Best Wishes!

Ans: That’s a very vague question…maybe start with efforts to keep in touch on special occasions, inviting them for family gatherings and just generally getting together.