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Rajesh Question by Rajesh on Jun 06, 2023Hindi
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how to improve relation once braked

Ans: Dear Rajesh,

I understand that you have recently had a breakup and you would like to fix it. It is very important to understand why you had the breakup. Was it because of differences in core values or some other serious issues like cheating or abuse in the relationship? If so, I would advise you not to go back or try to fix your relationship.

If your breakup was based on some silly fight, then you can try reaching out to your partner and apologizing if the mistake was on your end. You can ask them to meet you somewhere and have a clear discussion face-to-face. Talk about all that went wrong and how it led to something as serious as a breakup and discuss how that can be changed. You can ask your partner what you can do to fix things from your side and tell them what they can do to fix things from their side.

Now after trying everything, if your partner still does not want to get back together, don't force them into it. Some relationships end and sometimes it's better that way. You have to accept it.

Best Wishes!

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i am in relationship with women. i asked once weather u talk with another men. she replied no. i am really fealing guilty. she is also feeling very bad, as she never expect me to ask such question. i tried to convinvice that i hv no bad intention for you, but in due course of time , i thought u will be taking to someone. she is very apset and so do i. how can i get retain my original relationship. we are are a very good friend who shares every minute details with each other.
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I understand your situation and I am assuming that your partner felt bad because it seemed to her that you do not trust her. I also appreciate that you realized that it isn't nice to mistrust your partner for no reason and you are trying to make up for it. For starters, as mature adults, you should try speaking directly. You can tell your girlfriend that you regret asking her such a question and never meant to hurt her. Second, everyone loves a grand gesture. You can try buying her some flowers as a token of your apology or plan a nice date night. Lastly, don't overthink this. Things will go back to normal in no time.

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