I am having an issue that is very difficult for me to live with but living with. It is the bad luck my wife brings when she is around. We are married for 16 years & have a 15 yrs. old daughter, we are Bengalis. My marriage was an arranged marriage But once the marriage was done I found that whatever tasks I tried to do with my wife around is bound to fail Similarly, for my wife it is the same whatever she tries with me it is a failure Examples In the early years I got an opportunity to go to the USA for a long-term assignment, when my wife was in her native for childbirth I went alone & after a few months she joined me, just within 2 months of her joining my project was abruptly closed & I was sent back. This was a wakeup call & just to see how things work I send her to our native to complete her studies & in 2 years it was smooth, but again when she returned within 6 months my Kolkata project got closed & was forced transferred to Pune, I came here alone & within a few months got another job when I brought her to Pune things started going wrong, I got smart & when things will get wrong I will send her to native for some alibi & things will look up, then get her back again things will start getting wrong & again repeat... it was a challenge as my daughter’s schooling was being effected I can give 100s of example how I purposely made sure she is not around when I had to do something critical. I see a similar situation on her side if I am not around things work out but if I am around simply luck will make sure to fail. Now things have gone to the extent that I make plans that she is not there even if I go out for minor tasks like going to an ATM .. if she goes with me the ATMs will be out of order & I have to return without the cash I am a rationalist & never believe in luck or that someone can bring bad luck .. but such has been the repetition of bad lucks & failures when my wife is around that I have succumbed. About 5 years back we started talking to astrologers, palmists & all sorts of people whom I used to ridicule & they tried all their rings, tabiz, etc but nothing worked. My wife takes care more than a modern-day housewife, cooking managing the household, shopping taking the kids to school, hobbies, & she tries to put her best sincerity into it there is no complaint. In fact, she is taken as an idol among many of our relatives & friends for her behavior & ways she maintains relations with others, this has gone to such an extent that many in our family & friends are jealous of her I don’t think it will be possible to continue like this forever but she is a housewife, doing her best We belong to the middle class I simply don’t want her to dump her with people saying all sorts of things as I feel for her BUT cannot stay with her as now she just around makes me feel nervous. I have tried several times to think positively but could never convince myself We have never talked about this in-depth as I know she is helpless & there is nothing for her to change & will only be hurting her. But many times she told me when things go wrong that she is bringing me bad luck & trouble not once but always, I have simply ignored or reasoned with her the logical thing " as the project got closed due to a change in company strategy" etc, but things turning negative when she is around & turning positive when she is not there EVERYTIME for 15 years is really something I can’t convince myself. She is only unlucky for me but for others like her father, relatives & friends she is very lucky, even 2 days ago one of our neighbors called her as someone was coming to see their daughter for marriage, she went & it worked for them, they call her because she has an ideal homely look which such critical guests think “ah they have good company” & also as the neighbors’ aged mother told” since you came our work got done since you are lucky “ Now why I am writing to you is something maybe you have never heard of. One of my office colleagues ( I will tell you he is between a colleague & a friend with whom I spend a considerable amount of time usually discussing office stuff but he is more open to me on his personal issues, I am a little conservative on this front & have never talked or will like to talk about the issues with my wife) who is childless almost my wife's age. He also was in a marriage for about 10 years but his wife has been very violent, he tried his level best met a number of psychologists, etc but things have not worked. 2 months ago he decided to divorce his wife & is now working on the legal formalities. Many a time while talking I will tell him the way my wife behaves & he will really rue if his wife was like this. From my wife's side, I know her choice & this colleague will be his dream prince.( very handsome, smart, very good talker). On asking about plans after the divorce my colleague has told me that he is looking to remarry preferring divorcee/widow as he doesn’t want to have kids at this age. His ideal wife choice matches my wife. He will be looking for after his divorce gets to some stage. I clearly know that both will be a really good match & will be eternal pairs. I am sure she will not be unlucky for him. I had invited my colleague to my home for tea (with me) so that they can meet which they did, I tactically left them alone for some time but I don’t want to talk to my wife about thinking of this colleague as this will be very offensive & if she refuses our relationship may be damaged forever. Also in no way can propose my married wife to my colleague. I don’t want to talk to anyone but create a circumstance or at the most an indirect hint that they can think of to evaluate if they want to be together. Can you please help As a closing note, I will like to mention, in Dec last year I was told that I will be layedoff from my position by June 30, I immediately started searching for other jobs but nothing worked for 3 months, after completion of my daughter annual exams I send them to my native & now I have got a job in Bangalore, I will leave my family in Pune reasoning my daughter should complete her 12th from the school here but the real reason is above. I don’t have any girl in my life but if she moves out then maybe I can think. Also, my wife is among my 3 people for whom I can do anything so that they will be happy other 2 are my mother & daughter. But I am practically abusing/punishing/torturing her just because I can survive. This colleague looks like a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity for everyone to be happy. The only mental block which I need to remove is my colleagues who being a gentleman will never think about my wife & my wife’s that she is in a marriage will never think. If things don’t work out between them then I am Ok with things to go as its going but that’s just spending years. I will take care of her but maybe never stay with her with some alibi & certainly will not be thinking about another girl still she is dependent on me

Ans: Your focus on retiring at 50 is powerful and inspiring.

You are 38 now. You have 12 years for a major life shift.
That’s enough time if handled with care and clarity.

We will cover debt reduction, wealth creation, and risk management.

Understanding Your Current Financial Position
Your current savings are Rs. 30 lakh.

You have loan outstanding of Rs. 45 lakh.

You want to retire in the next 12 years.

Goal is to become debt-free and build a strong corpus.

This combination of debt and savings needs precise planning.

Define Your Retirement Vision
You must first define your retirement lifestyle.

Know your monthly expenses after age 50.

Plan for healthcare, travel, family commitments.

This will help you know the size of corpus needed.

Also, calculate inflation-adjusted monthly needs post-retirement.
That gives clarity on savings and investment targets.

Evaluate Loan Terms and EMI Pressure
Check the interest rate on your loan.

Check tenure remaining and EMI amount.

If the loan is a home loan, interest rate may be low.
If personal loan, then rate may be very high.

EMI strain also matters.
If EMI is too high, financial stress will impact investments.

Should You Use Savings to Prepay the Loan?
The answer depends on loan rate versus investment return.

Let us assess both sides carefully.

Benefits of Loan Prepayment
Interest burden reduces immediately.

Loan tenure comes down if EMI is constant.

Less stress from outstanding liabilities.

More mental peace and freedom.

This is very helpful when targeting early retirement.

Limitations of Prepaying Entirely Now
You reduce your liquidity buffer.

No savings left for emergency or investing.

Retirement fund building gets delayed.

You need to strike a balance.
Don’t overpay and lose growth time.

12 years is your golden period to build wealth.
Once retired, no fresh income may come in.

Suggested Strategic Approach
Do not use full Rs. 30 lakh for loan prepayment.
Instead, follow a dual strategy of part-prepayment and part-investment.

This gives you control, growth, and flexibility.

Step 1: Create Emergency Reserve
First, keep Rs. 6 lakh aside in liquid funds.

This covers 6-8 months of household costs.

It also covers health, job, or life emergencies.

This amount gives you safety and liquidity.

Step 2: Partial Loan Prepayment
Use Rs. 12 lakh to prepay the loan now.

This brings down principal and interest burden.

Keep EMI amount the same, reduce tenure.

Check with your bank for exact numbers.
Focus on tenure reduction, not EMI reduction.

This builds pressure-free freedom for later years.

Step 3: Begin Long-Term Investments
You will now have Rs. 12 lakh available from savings.

Start investing this over the next 12 to 18 months.

Use Systematic Transfer Plan (STP) from liquid fund.

The investment should focus on long-term growth.
We suggest a mix of actively managed mutual funds.

Why Actively Managed Mutual Funds?
They are managed by expert fund managers.

They outperform in both bull and flat markets.

They help manage risks in volatile times.

Please do not invest in index funds.

Index funds just mirror the market blindly.

They cannot protect during market corrections.

They give average returns, not goal-focused returns.

Actively managed funds give tailored strategies.
They are ideal for someone targeting early retirement.

Avoid Direct Plans Without Expert Help
If you invest in direct plans without guidance:

You miss out on rebalancing help.

You may pick wrong funds and lose time.

You might panic during market falls.

Invest through a Certified Financial Planner and MFD.
They track your funds and tweak them when needed.

Future Surplus Allocation Plan
Now we plan how to use your income going forward.

Increase investments every year by 10% to 15%.

Avoid lifestyle inflation, focus on corpus creation.

Prepay loan further with yearly bonuses.

Aim to close the entire Rs. 45 lakh loan
within the next 5 to 6 years.

This frees up large income chunks for retirement building.

Long-Term Investment Portfolio Structure
After you are debt-free, investment can accelerate.
Target the following portfolio structure:

60% in diversified equity mutual funds.

30% in hybrid or balanced advantage funds.

10% in short-term debt and liquid funds.

This portfolio gives growth, safety, and liquidity.
It also protects your retirement income planning.

Retirement Goal Calculator
Your retirement corpus must support 30+ years of life.

Use future value estimates, not current expenses.

Include lifestyle, medical, and unexpected costs.

Work backward from age 50 to know how much to save.
That gives you an annual savings target.

Stick to it with discipline.

Risk Management Plan
You must protect your assets and income.

Take health insurance of Rs. 10 lakh minimum.

Add a super top-up of Rs. 25 lakh.

Hold term insurance till age 60.

Nominate all your investments properly.

Keep one joint holder for each major asset.

Make a Will once you cross age 45.
Also, review insurance and goals every 3 years.

Tax Planning and Cash Flow Monitoring
As your investments grow, tax planning becomes critical.

Equity mutual funds: LTCG above Rs. 1.25 lakh taxed at 12.5%.

STCG taxed at 20%.

Debt funds taxed as per income slab.

Plan redemptions carefully to reduce tax outgo.
A Certified Financial Planner will guide with tax-smart withdrawals.

Track monthly cash flows with a simple Excel sheet.
Avoid unplanned EMI burdens or impulse purchases.

Monitor and Review Every Year
Review your investment performance every 6 months.

Evaluate any underperforming schemes.

Rebalance asset mix if markets shift.

Reassess loan status every Diwali.

Annual reviews bring control and direction.
Your financial plan must adjust with age and market.

Finally
Your goal of retiring at 50 is realistic.
But it needs focused planning and timely action.

Your savings, loan, and income must work together.
A dual approach of prepaying and investing is ideal.

It gives freedom from debt and freedom to grow.

Work with a Certified Financial Planner to review every step.
Stay consistent, avoid distractions, and build your vision patiently.

With 12 disciplined years, you can achieve early retirement.
Start today. Stay invested. Stay focused.

Best Regards,

K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,

Chief Financial Planner,

www.holisticinvestment.in
https://www.youtube.com/@HolisticInvestment

Ans: You have taken smart and timely financial decisions so far.

Your present financial standing is strong and commendable.
No loans, good asset mix, and clarity on future needs.

Let’s now structure your investment portfolio with long-term clarity.
We will look at stability, growth, liquidity, and future goals.

Understanding Your Current Position
You have Rs. 6 crores in financial investments.

Rs. 2 crores in equity.

Rs. 4 crores in fixed deposits.

Additional Rs. 4 crores in real estate.

No loan liabilities.

Future key goal: Daughter’s higher studies in Europe in 6 years.

Your priority is to protect capital, generate growth, and stay liquid.
Your strategy should also aim at tax-efficiency and simplicity.

Key Investment Objectives
Preserve your existing capital base.

Provide for daughter’s overseas education.

Build a steady long-term wealth creation portfolio.

Maintain enough liquidity for emergencies.

Balance growth with lower downside risk.

Keep taxation under control with efficient planning.

Suggested Asset Allocation
Let us now assess an ideal mix.

20% in Fixed Income instruments.

60% in Actively Managed Mutual Funds.

10% in Emergency and Ultra Short-Term Funds.

10% in Gold and Sovereign Gold Bonds.

This structure is balanced, growth-oriented, and liquidity-ready.
You already have real estate, so no fresh allocation there.

Repositioning Your Existing Portfolio
You already hold Rs. 4 crores in FDs.
FDs are safe but returns barely beat inflation.

Consider breaking Rs. 2.5 crores from FDs.

Reinvest in better-performing asset classes.

You have Rs. 2 crores in equity.
We assume this is in direct equity or past mutual fund investments.

Shift from direct equity to actively managed mutual funds.

They offer professional fund management.

Diversification across sectors brings better long-term results.

Helps reduce stock-specific risks.

Please avoid index funds.

Index funds blindly follow the market.

They lack flexibility and active monitoring.

They fail to outperform in volatile or sideways markets.

Actively managed funds offer better risk-adjusted returns.

If you are currently investing in direct funds, be cautious.

Direct plans lack personalised advice.

Choosing wrong funds can affect returns heavily.

Regular funds through an MFD with CFP credential offer guidance.

Continuous monitoring and rebalancing are also provided.

In your case, a Certified Financial Planner can help align the portfolio
with your family’s unique life goals and risk capacity.

Detailed Portfolio Construction Plan
1. Fixed Income Allocation – 20%
Allocate Rs. 1.2 crores to debt mutual funds.

Choose high-quality short-term or corporate bond funds.

Keep the duration under 3 years for safety.

Avoid FDs for long term due to lower returns.

Debt funds are more tax-efficient after 3 years.

Be mindful of the new tax rule:
Debt fund gains are taxed as per your income slab.

So, debt funds offer better post-tax returns only
if held with smart timing and product choice.

2. Actively Managed Mutual Funds – 60%
Allocate Rs. 3.6 crores gradually in equity mutual funds.

Choose a blend of multi-cap, flexi-cap, and large-mid cap funds.

Add some exposure to thematic or sectoral funds for growth.

SIP route is ideal for phased exposure.

This diversified equity allocation brings long-term wealth creation.
You also reduce timing risk with regular investments.

The mutual fund mix should be carefully curated
based on your risk profile and goal horizon.

Please ensure a Certified Financial Planner monitors this portfolio
and rebalances every 6 to 12 months.

3. Emergency and Contingency Allocation – 10%
Keep Rs. 60 lakhs in ultra-short term and liquid funds.

This covers 24+ months of monthly household expenses.

Provides quick access for health and personal emergencies.

Avoid using this for investments or lifestyle spends.

This fund should remain untouched except for real emergencies.

4. Gold and Sovereign Gold Bonds – 10%
Invest Rs. 60 lakhs in Sovereign Gold Bonds.

They offer 2.5% annual interest plus gold value appreciation.

Held for 8 years, they are tax-free on maturity.

Ideal for diversification and long-term safety.

Avoid physical gold due to purity and storage risks.
Avoid gold ETFs due to expense ratio and no added interest.

Special Planning for Daughter’s Higher Studies
This is a clear and high-value goal.
Timeline is 6 years, so you can take some calculated risk.

Start a separate mutual fund portfolio for this goal.

Allocate Rs. 1 crore gradually into hybrid and balanced funds.

Use 3-4 year SIP/STP mode to reduce risk.

In the fifth year, begin shifting to ultra-short-term debt funds.
This ensures capital safety before the actual outflow.

Avoid touching this portfolio for any other purpose.
Mark this as “Dedicated for Education Purpose” for clarity.

Real Estate Holding Review
You already own two houses and one farm plot.
This is already 40% of your net worth.

No need to invest further in real estate.

Maintain only one house for self-use.

Other properties can be retained for legacy or rental income.
Do not consider real estate for cash flow or liquidity.

Keep property papers and title clear.
Maintain up-to-date valuation documents and insurance.

Key Risk Management Steps
Take a Rs. 25 lakh family floater health insurance.

Add super top-up for extra cover.

Keep your term insurance active till age 60.

Ensure proper nominations in all investments.

Make a registered Will and keep it updated.

Joint holding in major investments ensures easy access.

Risk management avoids surprises.
This is as critical as choosing good investments.

Tax Management & Compliance
Use the new capital gains tax rule wisely.

Equity MF LTCG above Rs. 1.25 lakh is taxed at 12.5%.

Short-term capital gains on equity are taxed at 20%.

Debt MF gains are taxed as per your slab.

Plan redemption dates carefully to reduce tax outgo.

Keep a simple tracker for each investment and its tax impact.
A Chartered Accountant can assist you every March for tax planning.

Review and Monitoring
Review the portfolio every 6 months.

Check for underperformance in any scheme.

Rebalance based on market changes or life changes.

Avoid panic-based decisions during market falls.

Periodic reviews are key to financial health.
A Certified Financial Planner can help simplify this review.

Finally
Your current standing is financially strong.
You have saved well and kept liabilities away.

A structured investment plan will now build on this base.
You can now enjoy peace of mind with clarity and control.

Your daughter's education can be fully supported.
Your own future lifestyle can be secured.

This 360-degree solution focuses on growth, safety, and simplicity.

Keep investing with discipline.
Stay guided with professional help.
Keep all financial documents well organised.

Wishing you lifelong financial freedom and happiness.

Best Regards,

K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,

Chief Financial Planner,

www.holisticinvestment.in
https://www.youtube.com/@HolisticInvestment

Ans: Hello Mugdha.
Yes. The NWAC (Northwest Accreditation Commission) certificate is valid worldwide for undergraduate (UG) and postgraduate (PG) courses, as well as any specialist courses. Here are some key points for you: (1) Enroll in courses at NWAC-affiliated schools, (2) After completion, receive a U.S. High School Diploma, which can be used for admission abroad for UG courses, (3) After UG, use it for PG. For more details, please visit the NWAC official website to learn in which countries the certificate is valid. Ensure that your NWAC institution is properly accredited and listed under Cognia (NWAC). Some Indian institutions and authorities do not recognize the NWAC certification. Hence, be cautious before pursuing NWAC. For instance, if you wish to apply for any engineering or medical course, please visit the official websites of those institutions and confirm whether they accept the NWAC certificate.
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Ans: ou may get Civil in:

NIT Mizoram / NIT Nagaland / NIT Arunachal Pradesh (through HS Quota + OBC)

IIIT Agartala (if offering Civil or similar branch)

NIT Sikkim

NIT Puducherry

NIT Uttarakhand

But some colleges are looking for 75% marks. Check that.

Ans: VIT Vellore

MIT Manipal

Shiv Nadar University

Thapar Institute of Engineering and Technology, Patiala

NMIMS Mumbai

PES University, Bengaluru

LNMIIT Jaipur

Amrita Vishwa Vidyapeetham (Coimbatore campus preferred)

MIT Bengaluru (MAHE)

JIIT Noida

KIIT Bhubaneswar

Ans: Go for management seat

Ans: Yes, JAC Delhi counselling generally accepts two separate mark sheets from the same CBSE board, provided both are valid and official, and the Maths subject is shown as an additional subject in the second mark sheet.

Ans: 1. Happiness is in your hand
2. You sound like an adult, over 21 and someone who knows what is right and what is not - so take action
3. If you are not happy in your current relationship, come out of it.
4. If you wish to reconnect with your earlier partner do so, but keep in mind he may not be single and if he is he will not be how you knew him, as in he will come with his own experience of life.

all the best.

Ans: Hello;

Request you to please elaborate exactly on which aspect of personal finance do you need advice.

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