my gf was physical(intercourse) just for once with her ex and her ex cheated on her she just had a 2 month relationship with her ex. and after that around just after a month we came in relationship and its been 2 months we are in a relationship we both go to same college but due to house problem she doesn't attend classes basically we are in a long distance relationship and she still remember him and when she goes to places where she meet her ex she still have flashback She is not fully with me even when i just ask her for a normal kiss she refuses and tells me what so hurry but when i asked her does she want to stay with me she told me yes i want to stay with you and she is ready to marry me as well when time comes she even told me that timely she will have feelings for me And for me all this is new this is my first relationship what should i do?

Ans: Try with lower branches (Civil/Mechanical) in newer NITs like NIT Mizoram, NIT Nagaland, or NIT Arunachal Pradesh.

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Ans: Chances with top NITs are slim, but you can try with lower or newer NITs with less demanding branches. At present, try to focus on the advanced exam.

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Ans: Poonam Madam, With a CRL of 53,700 and an OBC-NCL rank of 16,000, the most realistic JoSAA option appears to be NIT Kurukshetra under Haryana Home State quota, primarily for lower-demand or newer branches. In 2025, NIT Kurukshetra’s OBC-HS cutoffs closed around: 15,224 for Production & Industrial Engineering, 15,885 for dual-degree Civil Engineering & 17,735 for Sustainable Energy Technologies. Among these, Sustainable Energy Technologies seems the most achievable option, while Civil and Production & Industrial Engineering are borderline. Admission to core or top branches at NIT Kurukshetra and regular-round IIIT Sonipat is unlikely at this rank. However, IIIT Sonipat could become possible during CSAB Special Rounds, where 2025 CRL cutoffs ranged between 61,875 and 67,471. Have other States' NITs/IIITs/GFTIs also as backup options if son is interested in any particular branches. To get detailed information about opening and closing ranks for the last 2-3 years, please visit the official JoSAA website. There, you can input details such as Round Number, Institute Type, Institute Name, Academic Program, and Category to view the corresponding cutoff ranks.

By reviewing this data, you can identify near-realistic institution and branch options that match your rank. This will help you strategically fill the maximum number of choices during the JoSAA counselling window to improve your son's chances of admission. It is advisable to fill choices for both JoSAA and CSAB Special Rounds and keep state-level and private institute options ready as backups. ALL the BEST for Your Son's Prosperous Future!

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Ans: If he is interested in Stats then ISI looks like a good option. Else BS from IIM Sambalpur for Data and AI. For tech - Computers then maybe Polaris

Ans: There are chances at good NITs like NIT Warangal or NIT Calicut, and CSE/ECE at top IIITs like IIIT Gwalior or IIIT Lucknow. Yet keep a close eye on the counselling process and go through the previous year's cutoff of these institutes for better understanding.

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Ans: Suggesting you to focus on core branches at newer/mid NITs like NIT Rourkela (home state advantage) or NIT Agartala, consider IIITs for ECE/CSE, and keep strong state/private college backups while avoiding very low-tier institutes.

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Ans: Target lower NITs like NIT Raipur, NIT Agartala, NIT Srinagar, or NIT Silchar (better chances with home state/quota).

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Ans: Target to lower IIITs or NITs with lower branches like civil/mechanical, else he has strong chances to get admission to decent private options like Jaypee Institute of Information Technology or Amity University.

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Ans: Target core branches at NIT Surathkal, then mid-tier NITs like NIT Raipur or NIT Andhra Pradesh, and consider IIITs like IIIT Sri City only for CSE/ECE while avoiding newer low-tier colleges and niche branches. Hope he also appeared for the state-level engineering entrance. If yes, wait for the result, then you can check the possibilities.

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