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Asked by Anonymous - Aug 11, 2023Hindi
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My friend is married with 2 children..Thing is even after married with 2 children he is going to prostitute twice in a month.Kindly advice what can be done to come out from this menace.Have been trying to make him come out but still very difficult for him.Have took him to pilgrimage 2 to 3 times a year but of no use.. Please advice

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Your friend is either seeking pleasure outside of marriage as some sort of a kick OR he's running away from his marriage and distracting himself with a sex worker.
Either case, I hope he understands that it's not just about cheating but it's also about what STDs he might be bringing back home. If pilgrimage helped, everyone who has a relationship issue can visit holy places and put things back to what they were.
What is required here is: the couple going into intensive therapy dealing with coping, un-avoidance and moving into resolution and building back.
You are a good friend; kindly suggest this to your friend and he may refuse...but persist...if he still says No, know that you have done your best!

All the best!

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Hi Kanchan I just want to know that i fried needs sex daily without fail twice. but suddenly his wife stop due to health, but he wants. after some times he search for alternative and have in once in a month but same day for multiple times. now wife is good in health conditions and she wants. my question is should my friend should leave alternative where he is involved and have sex with wife. he is much confused, but he wants sex.
Ans: It's essential for your friend to communicate openly and honestly with his spouse about his desires and concerns. Maintaining a healthy and satisfying sexual relationship within a marriage often depends on effective communication and understanding between both partners.

Your friend should discuss his needs and feelings with his wife. It's crucial for them to address any issues related to their sexual relationship openly. They may consider compromising and finding ways to meet each other's needs and desires. If your friend and his wife are both willing to work together to improve their intimacy, they can potentially find a solution that works for both of them.

Leaving an alternative sexual relationship can be a complicated decision that your friend should make in consultation with his spouse and with careful consideration of the emotional and ethical aspects of the situation. It's important to prioritize their relationship and work on their intimacy issues together. If needed, they can also seek the help of a qualified therapist or counselor to assist them in resolving these issues.

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