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The co-founder of Unfear Changemakers LLP, she has received her neuro linguistic programming training from National Federation of NeuroLinguistic Programming, USA, and her energy work specialisation from the Institute for Inner Studies, Manila.
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anu Question by anu on Jun 26, 2025Hindi
Relationship

Hi madam, i have a big problem , i not able to stay consistent in job , people just kick me out of the job , the reason for this that i had done something bad with my relatives. even i am married i was thrown out of that house too. but i like that guy . but my father insisted for divorce and now i am in the fianl stages of divorce and my mother in law is not a very nice person she will complain about my family what do i do

Ans: Dear anu,
You did something bad with your relatives and so, you got kicked out of your job? I don't understand this...
Anyway, it seems apparent to me that you have forgotten what it is to take care of yourself, your job, your marriage. You are responsible for all of that and more.
If you know that there are things to improve about yourself, then do just that and take charge of your marriage. If you like your husband, why are you agreeing for a divorce.
This is all I can suggest as I don't have much information from you...

All the best!
Anu Krishna
Mind Coach|NLP Trainer|Author
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Hello maam i am married since 18 years and since last 5 years my husband is not earning but my in laws are well to do me and my husband are in a relation where we end up quarrelling even if we have converstion of 2 mins i am financially independent and have son of 14 years but he is truely in influence of his father i dont have parents nor a sibling i dont know what to do i sometimes feel if i leave my husband and if i fail in my job than what about my future my age is 38 in all my surroundings i have seen all husband take care and responsiblity of their wife but my husband is totally self centered and the most pathetic thing is he does not even realize this please suggest what can be done
Ans: Dear Richa,
You are financially independent and any decision you take for your life will be based on that, right?
Who knows what the future hold and one can only be hopeful that all that is done in the present times yield a good result in future.
So, whatever decision you want to take, do that keeping what it is right now...also, have faith in your capability to earn and hold your head high BUT do give your marriage a fair chance considering your son may also get rattled by any harsh decision. Do you not feel that it is time to actually confront your husband. What is he planning on doing? Sitting and waiting for something to happen for him?
He has possibly got into a place where it is comfortable not to work and things happen around him for him and everyone else. So, there really is no need for him to lift a finger. Urge your in-laws to talk to him and drive some sense into him. If he still makes no move to get proactive and take on his part of responsibilities within the marriage, think about how long and how far you want to go with this. A bit of coaching/therapy can help, but only if he willing to see that it's needed for him. More than anything, I want you to have faith in yourself and play to your strengths.

All the best!
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I feel like a total failure even after completing MBBS from Madras Medical College, i am not getting any job of my choice, how do i get past this
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At the same time, don’t neglect your mental and emotional well-being. Connect with peers who’ve been through similar struggles. It will remind you that this phase is temporary. You can also build additional skills in communication, public health, research, or even health technology, which may open new career paths. Use this period to strengthen your CV with workshops, volunteering, or online certifications. Most importantly, be kind to yourself: completing MBBS is already a huge accomplishment, and setbacks don’t define your worth. Sometimes, stepping back to rest and reflect can bring the clarity and energy you need to move forward with confidence.

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