Dear Anu,This is Vish this side 38 years old, male, single.
In October my cousin moved to my place due to some issue in her marriage. She is clear now she doesn't want to go back.
She is five years older to me, we both share a very good bond. She has many friends online whom she talks to and all many of them even propose her.
She tells me everything, even the last boy with whom she was like unable to stay without talking to him. But suddenly all has changed and she talks to me more than before, and keeps telling me she doesn't have a boyfriend.
I like her but, how should I know that she is interested in me. I would like to ask her but scared she should not think something different and leave me and go.
I am confused what to do. Should I just leave it and continue how it's going or ask her to be in a relation with me?
Please guide.

Dear Mam. I like a girl precisely 23 years back through one of my relative. We met quite often.she was from different city. She confessed that she loves me and we were going good. The meetings used to happen only with the knowledge of my relative. One day I called her and requested for a meeting without the knowledge of my relative . There she confessed that she loves somebody else. It was shocking . I supported her and she went back to her boyfriend. I dont know what happened between them afterwards.As the time passed we married to different spouses. In 2016 she mailed me.( requesting for my number and for a meeting). We met and there she confessed that she does not love her husband. I asked about her boyfriend . She said that they are facebook friends. After that we talked quite often. We met also many times. Three years back I realised that she is still in touch with her boyfriend and they both are liking each other post and profile pics and used to talk long on whatsapp calls. When I confronted her she said that she still have feelings for each other.Lately she has started defending him and used to put status on whatsapp only where they both have good times. I can see that. I dont know how their spouses are reacting when they like each other post and pics. Myself and my wife had an arranged marriage . We are poles apart on many things. Somehow we both are managing our lives. She knew my past. What is bothering me Mam that she has only treated me as time pass. I gave her so much of my time. I Respect her. She has always used the word parallel ( for me and her boyfriend). Though she has hided me from her husband , but once I met him because she wanted that.Her boyfriend is in all her groups and social media apps like fb, insta. Kindly suggest me what should I do. Its an old feeling. Though we have moved on.

Hii anu This is rahul i am an entrepreneur recently i started talking to my cousin’s wife and develope a nice bonding with her. Although my cousin also knows we talk hours and hours on phone call. She always talks romantically or as in leg pulling. How to check what she wants from me since i am 7-8 years younger than her. How to check if she is physically attracted towards me or its just a time pass thing.