Should I Invest in Property with My Wife Even if We Have Different Goals?

Ans: Hello,
As per your description of your assets, you have 3.5 + 4 = 7.5crs total
For living you can buy a house upto 3-3.5crs inclusive of taxes and interiors ( this will net of taxes paid for the property sold previously )
The remaining amount which is 4crs , you can park that in a balanced portfolio of mutual funds to get SWP of Rs.2L per month which is 6%. What this will do is take care of your day to day expenses and also give an appreciation of your portfolio to beat inflation VS FD which will give you 6% but no capital appreciation.
You can do as follows in terms of the funds
Emergency fund - 20L in a short term debt fund or FD
Investment portfolio - 3.8crs
Small cap - 15%
Mid cap - 15%
Large and mid cap - 20%
Multicap - 20%
Consumption fund - 10%
Equity hybrid / BAF - 10%
As per choice - 10%

Do spend some money for medical insurance no matter how expensive with a good medical insurance company after consulting an advisor.

Please note that these suggestions are based on your stated goals and the information you provided. It is always a good idea to consult with a financial advisor in person to better understand your risk tolerance, time horizon, and specific financial goals.

Ans: Navigating the intricate tapestry of financial planning, especially with dreams as grand as yours, requires a blend of optimism, pragmatism, and foresight. Given your combined monthly income and assets, you're in a solid position, but the uncertainty of job stability adds a layer of complexity.

Let's begin with the dream of owning a home in Bangalore, a city where property prices can be quite steep. While the desire to build your dream home is admirable, it's crucial to strike a balance between your aspirations and financial security. With a loan of 50L and dreams of a 3-3.5cr home, taking on additional debt might strain your finances, especially if your incomes were to fluctuate.

Considering your illiquid assets, properties, PF, and PPF, you have a strong foundation. However, prioritizing risk mitigation and building a safety net is paramount, especially given the insecurity of your jobs. A Certified Financial Planner would likely advise you to create an emergency fund, diversify investments, and consider income protection plans to safeguard against unforeseen challenges.

Moreover, planning for your children's education, retirement, and old-age health expenses is essential. Starting early with systematic investments tailored to these goals can make a significant difference over time.

In essence, while the allure of building your dream home is compelling, it might be prudent to focus initially on strengthening your financial foundation and mitigating risks. With strategic planning and disciplined saving, you can work towards both securing your future and realizing your dreams, ensuring that each step you take is a step towards financial well-being and fulfillment.

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
You are taking an emotional stance on this and your wife is on a fear-ridden path...both of you are not wrong BUT is it possible to agree to what your wife is saying and yet not lose your brother's favor. Then you will have nothing to lose and everything to gain.
Separate finances keeps relationships healthy and we have enough evidence where mixing financial matters and personal stuff can get messy...
There is nothing emotional about it, so think of the future...it's better to be safe and he's your brother...I am sure that he will understand...I have a question for you though: Why is it so important for you to have your brother's presence in buying the house? What will happen if you go ahead by yourself just like he can go ahead himself?
There are other things that you can share like going on holidays together, family gatherings, doing some charitable work together...
Prioritize relationships over finding what ties them...and your brother is not married...his future bride may not like the arrangement as well and then it will be one big mess to separate things...
Better keep things separate now than later...mending scars is more difficult than making a sane decision now...

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