Hi Anu, I am a 40 year old man (never married) who got in touch with a 39 year old woman on a matrimony site. On the site, her marital status was Never Married but as we chatted suddenly she told me about her first marriage that lasted for a month and now she has divorced that person due to dowry issue. I was taken back with this concealed information but continued to chat with her. One day, I happened to see a pic of her with her cousin brother on Instagram. There was a cake right in front of them that mentioned Happy Anniversary. I asked her about it. She first said it was for Birthday Anniversary. Then she said, the cake shop guy made a mistake and then she said that her cousin brother said 'Tumne bhai behen ka rishta ka ram naam satya hain kar di'. I'm confused now, is this cousin brother actually her husband only or cousin brother. After asking her about this, all she did was delete that pic from Instagram and she said it is her cousin brother only. I then asked her to show her divorce papers, she claims it is with her father in some locker and is confidential, so cannot be shared. She lives in Kolkata and I stay in Mumbai and to take things forward wrt marriage she wants to meet me at Kolkata but I'm confused with all this. Also, within few days of chatting with her she started calling me baby, she claims to have falled in love with me and also suggested we do foreplay when we meet. We've been chatting since 5 months on WhatsApp and I gradually have developed feelings for her. On phone we have spoken twice and we had a video call also once. Please advise on how can I proceed. Is she a fraud?

Ans: Sai, prefer VIT-AP. All the BEST for Your Bright Future.

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Ans: Will Get, but in Tier-3 NIT/Stream. All the BEST for Your Bright Future.

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Ans: Try Tier 2/3 NITs/GFTIs & be flexible with Streams. All the BEST for Your Bright Future.

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Ans: Prefer (1) DSCE (2) NITTE (3) CMRIT (4) BMSIT. Prefer AIML, Cyber Security, followed by AIDS & IOT. All the BEST for Your Daughter's Bright Future.

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Ans: Vijay, prefer Thapar-ECE. All the BEST for Your Bright Future.

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Ans: Yes Bhavana, All the BEST for Your Bright Future.

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Ans: Krishna, adhere to the following Strategies/Tips/Steps:

(1) Whenever you study at home, study for 45-minutes. Then take a break of 10-minutes when you can move away from your study table, walk, have some water & relax. If you continue studying beyond 45-minutes, your concentration power will go down, resulting to low output. Most students commit this mistake.
(2) On daily basis (morning or evening whichever will be convenient to you), do yoga or meditation or physical exercises or play any games / sports for at least 30-45 minutes. This will further reduce your stress / distractions.
(3) Study tough topics / tough subjects (applicable to you) early morning with your fresh mind.
(4) Eat a lot of green vegetables / fruits which you can afford for & Avoid soft drinks/junk foods
(5) Every day night, before going to bed, revise whatever you have studied during the day.
(6) Also, revise every week whatever you have covered till date (here your short-notes which you should prepare will be helpful).
(7) Keep practising questions on topics which you have covered either offline or online
(8) Give utmost importance to wrongly answered / difficult / complicated / tough questions and have a separate note-book specially for this for each subject (PCM)
(9) You might be aware that JEE rank is allotted on the basis of highest score in Maths, followed by Physics & Chemistry. Practice more and more in Maths, till you reach Speed & Accuracy

(10) By December-January, attempt fully syllabus online test series, evaluate and analyse your performance such as,

(a) which topic / unit / concept you are weak which needs your revision and improvement as this will disturb you when you appear in actual JEE exam
(b) abnormal time taken to attempt any question which you can come to know from Online Test Series which you should reduce
(c) which questions you skipped and why?

(11) Please AVOID studying under pressure that you should get admission only into IITs/ NITs. Never advisable. Any one can be successful, even if he / she studies in NON-IIT / NON-NIT Colleges also.

(12) Have Plan B & Plan C for other Colleges Entrance Exams / Disciplines-Streams.
(13) Avoid comparing yourself with other students.

(14) Also, it is highly ideal to appear in / attempt\minimum 5-7 Entrance Exams (for both Govt & Private Engineering Colleges). You will have a lot of options (easiest method) to choose the best and most suitable one, keeping in view a lot of factors such as, College | Location | Your Interest | Stream Preference | Placement Records | College Culture | Your Short & Long Term Goals | Pressure You Can Go Through | Your AIR & Job Market Condition when you apply for your BTech & Even after.

I hope I have answered to your question with value additions. All the BEST for your Bright Future.

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Ans: Some basic reasons for not clearing CA Exams after so many attempts:

1) NOT thoroughly going through the Study Materials, provided by ICAI.
2) NOT updating the amendments of various laws.
3) NOT changing the Preparation Strategies.
4) NOT preparing own short-notes.
5) NOT leaving breaks every 45-minutes of studying.
6) NOT maintaining consistent studies.
7) NOT revising the covered topics daily/weekly/monthly.
8) NOT focusing on weak subjects / topics.
9) NOT attempting mock tests frequently.
10) NOT following the ideal study schedule.

If you have searching for jobs:

1) Have a LinkedIn Profile/Update it.
2) Put job Alerts of the vacancies, you prefer to apply
3) Please keep in mind you are fresher. Avoid being specific for MNC. Join even any medium-sized Company & gain experience.
4) Keep upgrading your skills / knowledge through Certifications to be competitive in the job market.
5) Try to apply to at least 3-4 companies daily through LinkedIn or through the Companies Websites.

All the BEST for Your Bright Future.

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