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BPH Question by BPH on Feb 11, 2022Hindi
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 Anu, I have been married for 3 years now, and things are not good between me and my wife.
We have a kid of 2 years, but my wife is angry with me. She went to her home for pregnancy and she is not ready to come back to our house. I am not able to convince her to get her back to our home. Even my in-laws are not doing any effort to convince her.
I spoke to her regarding is she really interested in continuing this relationship, but she is not ready to break this relationship.
I am fed up of this and don't know what to do. Please help me.

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Dear BPH,

I have no clue what led to this breakdown in your marriage. Whatever the reason, I wish the two of you know what this is doing to the child.

I am not judging either of you but there is something that is keeping her away from coming back. Kindly involve a Marriage therapist or any expert who can step in.

She needs to know that moving on or leaving, one of that has to happen. At least, the mind can fathom how to manage either of the paths.

From the little information that you have given, this is what I can guide you with.

Speak with her about involving a marriage therapist or you appeal to her with love and compassion to start the discussion for the way ahead.

All the best and make a move on this soon.

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We both work in IT company and she earns a very nice salary. We were living happily without ANY major quarrels with my wife or mother. After 6 years of marriage our child was born and since Day One she started behaving differently and went to stay back with her parents. It’s almost about 3 years and she is neither returning nor allowing me to speak to the child and insists that she will play with him at her place.We tried different ways to convince her but she doesn’t want to return nor shares the reason for this behaviour. When I asked recently she said she wants to live away from my family and not together and that too on her terms and conditions. If not, she wants to separate but I don’t want to. I have not done any mistakes then why should I suffer?What should I do? What is running on her mind? It’s really difficult for me to understand. No elders are eager to resolve the matter. Awaiting your earliest suggestions.
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Dear SS,

Something has happened which you might not be aware of that has triggered this behaviour from her.

To not let you be with the child suggests that there is something else that is going on. It requires an intervention.

Speak with her parents who can talk to her sensibly about the requirement of the child being with both parents at this time.

It is highly likely that there have been some disagreements with your family that is preventing her from coming back.

So, you possibly have been naïve to believe that nothing happened. There is a reason for every action, so something so extreme from her certainly warrants a strong reason.

Why exactly did you wait for three years is something that I cannot understand as matters like these get worse with each passing day with room for disappointments.

Well, let’s keep the past right where it belongs in.

Initiate a conversation with her and take things slow and patient.

After three long years, much has changed and to expect things to be as they were is bordering on being very gullible.

State clearly what you expect within the marriage and please be an excellent listener as you encourage her to share her version of the story, her expectations, her complaints and so on…a patient, listening and compassionate ear can go a long way in rebuilding lost relationships only when you don’t go on the defense and she feels pushed again.

I do believe that it takes two people to create or destroy a relationship but since I heard from you, this is my suggestion to you.

Please be the bigger person and keep the larger picture in mind of the marriage and the child, and swallow pride and ego and simply focus on rebuilding if that is eventually a possibility.

All the best!

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Asked by Anonymous - Dec 30, 2023Hindi
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Hi, I am married from last 15 year, having a daughter , my realtion with my wife is very bad, she is like this since start of marriage, our is arrange marriage. She didn't want any kind of responsibility, she always want to go out and if possible do shopping, if I asked not to over spend she thinks not sure what and create scene. She fight with everyone even in office or with her parents, she blames other for all this, never ever think she can be wrong, she is having a feeling if you correct her , she not going to like it, she will say no need to teach me , I know. She even not hving very good relationship with my daughter, she is in class 10th and staying in baording. I am hving 2 flat just like jodi flat adjacant to each other, i am staying in one and she is in another , she hardly let me hv sex, but she talks or chat with stranger whole night, i try to question her but she started fighting, she didn't listen and do what ever she want, if u question she will fight, i really don't know how to handle this situation, I am feeling trapped and she is accusing me for all the mess. We had fight lots of time , we abused each other during fight a lot , but the problem still persist nothing changed in 15 years recently after fight i stop talking with her . Not sure how I should move forward , i talked with my daughter and she also suggesting me leave her for some time she will realize , should i go for divorce or how to move forward.
Ans: I'm sorry to hear that you're going through a difficult time in your marriage.
It's important to remember that ultimately, the decision to stay in or leave a relationship is up to the individual. Here are some things you can do to help you move forward:

1. Seek professional help: Consider seeing a therapist or counselor who can help you work through your feelings and provide guidance on how to move forward.

2. Take care of yourself: Make sure you're taking care of your own physical and emotional needs. This can include getting enough sleep, eating a healthy diet, and engaging in activities that you enjoy.

3. Set boundaries: If your wife's behavior is causing you distress, it's important to set boundaries. This can include setting limits on spending, or establishing rules around communication.

4. Consider couples therapy: If you're both willing, couples therapy can be a helpful way to work through issues in your marriage and improve communication.

5. Think about your options: If you're considering divorce, it's important to think carefully about your options. Consider speaking with a lawyer who can provide guidance on the legal aspects of divorce.

Remember, every situation is unique, and there's no one-size-fits-all solution. Take the time to consider your options and make the decision that's best for you and your family.

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Hello sir I am 37 years old male and married since 5 years and we had little girl of 4 years old. I need some advice for my relationship. We had problems in our relationship since the beginning of our engagement, as initially I was unaware of my wife's extra marital affairs when I come to know about it she told why she started to see other boy during engagement period also after our marriage as I wasn't upto her expectations, that was the time of 2019 . We had discussed about all each others expectations and solved the problem I tried to regain the confidence in our relationship but still somewhere we had fights every 5 to 6 months on different issues sometimes it's my parents sometimes it's me I dont give her time sometimes financially , in between she left my house and went to her father's home for 8 months after delivery of our baby girl, she told we are not made for each other I told her and explained all about consequences and convinced her to get her back. After that for again after 6 months we started fight with each other on different issues. But recently we fight and she lost control and slapped me and unfortunately in the vague of my anger I also slapped her and she again left me and went to her father house . It's been 1 month now we don't have contact each other because every time I only asked her for compromises and explain and convincing her to come back. This time I don't know what to do.thanks
Ans: Marriage counselling. Enlist at the earliest and see if you can fix matters, but you have to tackle one issue at a time. The infidelity, the inlaws, the lack of compatibility…there’s too many issues here.

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Asked by Anonymous - Jul 31, 2024Hindi
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Hi Anu, this is Rajkiran here, I am 34 years old I have been married 4 years back to a girl through the relatives reference. My wife is govt worker and she only has one independent parent which is her mother. The marriage happened in a very short time during corona period and we had healthy few chats of how we expect our life's to be and we were both in common understanding and when I asked what is her expectations then she said she had no expectations at all and go by how life takes on. I was happy that I got right match and I am person not into any relationships and nothing and this marriage relationship was so new and started loving her more and she was also the same. She had also no relationships and not interested in marriage but due to her mother's pressure she got married to me. She also started liking the relationship and valuing it After 6 months she was pregnant and she went to her mom's house to stay as she was feeling comfortable there and I aslo let her stay as she wishes. Child was born in 2022 April and problem started here We had to name the child and it's usually dad who names the child because its family tree and decendent. But my wife got in middle and said she wants name as suggested by her mother, the first fight started and later i compromised for child sake and I agreed to her on the naming of child. After the naming ceremony done her mother acted differently to me and she was looking for fight, my wife was also on the same route they were allowing me see my child once in a month and she also did not bother to spend time and let child because with me. I love to be with child but unfortunately I am not able to spend time with him. This made me feel suffocating inside and was feeling bad, one day we planned to bring child to my home along with my wife and she also agreed to stay for 3days and for some reason child was crying as it was new to adapt and new people. My wife used the situation to pull a fight with me and she said I want to go home saying child is crying and he will fall sick. I requested to wait for another few hours if he calms down and we will see but she didn't listen and got very pissed off and had cold war with her for week. She stopped talking and she stopped everything. I had no idea what was so wrong that I did and it so bad. I tired always to talk to her and she didn't give space to me and my feelings. From September 2022 we were not together till now. I December 2022 I approached marriage counselling for her and me to unite with her, she also had come for counseling as it was religious institution and she had no option to opt out. Counselling was done and she told that she will be coming my house in a Weeks time. After a week again same story she didnt turn back and she didnt even want to put one step to solve issue, adament nature and influence of her mother. I waited for a year and approached legally by filing petition on restitution of conjugal rights. I went through 2 hearings she is not turning back. I am left no where and for this sake why I should have married. I don't want another marriage or any i have great love for my child and even my wife whatso ever she does i just love her.
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
There are a few individuals on Earth who sadly fail to see the larger picture; in your case your wife fails to see how marriage can bring stability to life and the child's growth.
Now why she wants to run back to her parents' place is something I don't understand BUT she surely has forgotten that making a marriage work means staying together and even if the two of you need to stay apart, it has to be due to work or other commitments that require that kind of an adjustment.
Do you know why she is so quick to run back to her family home? Even if she was pressured in marrying you, what's the point running away from what is obvious.
If you are sure about not wanting the marriage, kindly factor in that you have a child. Make an attempt to get back together, so that your child has a stable home. Request an elder member from your family to intervene and talk some sense into her mother who seems to be ignorant to the fact of ruining her daughter's life. Is her mother going to take on the responsibility of her daughter and her child? See where this line of action leads you to and then step in and appeal with your wife...This is all that you can do...Hope for the best thing to happen...

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Asked by Anonymous - Nov 22, 2024Hindi
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I am 32 years of age I have a corpus of 40 lakhs including mutual funds,stocks,pf,insurance.I invest 65000 in sip every month with 84% in equity, 6% in hybrid and 10% in debt funds as of now with 58% in large cap,27% in mid cap and 15 % in small cap with an xirr of 17.2%. how much will my corpus grow in next 20-30 years ?
Ans: Your financial journey so far is impressive. At 32 years, a corpus of Rs. 40 lakhs reflects good planning. Your SIP of Rs. 65,000 per month and asset allocation indicate strong discipline and understanding of investments.

Your current XIRR of 17.2% is exceptional, suggesting an effective fund selection. Maintaining this momentum will help you build substantial wealth.

Growth Potential Over the Next 20-30 Years
Power of Compounding

Compounding over 20-30 years can multiply wealth significantly.
Your disciplined SIP approach amplifies this effect.
Corpus Growth Projections

If your XIRR sustains near 17%, your corpus can grow exponentially.
Over 20 years, it may cross Rs. 10-12 crores.
In 30 years, this could grow beyond Rs. 30-40 crores.
Consideration for Realistic Returns

Sustaining 17% XIRR may be optimistic in the long term.
A realistic expectation of 12-15% still ensures significant growth.
Factors Influencing Your Future Corpus
Market Volatility

Equity-heavy portfolios are prone to short-term fluctuations.
Maintain your long-term perspective to overcome these.
Asset Allocation Discipline

Your 84% equity allocation is ideal for long-term goals.
Rebalance annually to maintain this allocation.
Economic Growth and Inflation

India's economic growth supports equity performance.
High inflation demands better returns to preserve purchasing power.
SIP Increments

Increasing SIP annually can enhance corpus growth.
A 10% increment every year could add several crores.
Importance of Diversification
Large, Mid, and Small-Cap Allocation

Your 58% large-cap, 27% mid-cap, and 15% small-cap allocation is balanced.
This mix ensures stability and growth potential.
Hybrid and Debt Funds Role

Your 10% debt allocation cushions against market volatility.
Hybrid funds offer consistent returns with lower risk.
Tax Efficiency in Long-Term Investments
Equity Fund Taxation

Long-term capital gains above Rs. 1.25 lakh are taxed at 12.5%.
Factor this in when planning withdrawals.
Debt Fund Taxation

Gains are taxed as per your income slab.
Plan asset allocation changes with tax efficiency in mind.
Enhancing Your Strategy
Emergency Fund

Maintain 6-12 months of expenses in liquid or ultra-short-term funds.
Insurance Review

Ensure adequate term insurance and health insurance coverage.
Goal-Based Investing

Align specific investments to defined goals like retirement or children's education.
Periodic Review

Review fund performance and portfolio allocation annually.
Replace underperforming funds if needed.
Final Insights
Your current portfolio and discipline promise exceptional long-term results. Continue SIPs, periodically increase investments, and review portfolio performance. A realistic approach with a focus on equity can help you achieve remarkable financial milestones over 20-30 years.

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Hi my name is Mani and aged 36 i am drawing a monthly salary of 3.5lakhs. Below are my investments. I want to achieve around 10Cr by 50. Current MF potfolio:50L Shares/ETF: 10L PF: 39L US ESOP: 1.2 Crore Monthly SIP: 1.65Lkhs 2 houses: 95L & 60L I can invest upto 2.5-3lakhs montly. Closed all my loans.
Ans: Your current investments reflect excellent financial discipline and planning. With your income and ability to invest Rs 2.5-3 lakhs monthly, you are in a strong position to achieve your target of Rs 10 crore by 50. However, optimising your portfolio is crucial for achieving this milestone efficiently. Here's an in-depth assessment and strategy to guide you.

Assessment of Current Investments
Mutual Fund Portfolio: Rs 50 Lakh
This portfolio forms a significant part of your wealth.
Equity mutual funds can offer long-term growth.
Regular reviews and diversification will enhance returns.
Shares and ETFs: Rs 10 Lakh
Direct equity and ETFs require active monitoring.
ETFs have limitations, like tracking errors and passive management.
Disadvantages of ETFs:

Lack of flexibility to outperform benchmarks.
Returns are limited to market indices, missing active management benefits.
Provident Fund: Rs 39 Lakh
PF is a safe, tax-efficient retirement tool.
Growth is limited compared to equity investments.
US ESOP: Rs 1.2 Crore
ESOPs provide substantial value, but currency and company risks exist.
Diversification is essential to reduce concentrated risk.
Monthly SIPs: Rs 1.65 Lakh
A high monthly SIP reflects your commitment to wealth creation.
Fund selection and risk balance will determine growth.
Real Estate: Rs 95 Lakh and Rs 60 Lakh
While real estate offers stability, liquidity issues can be a challenge.
Rental income should align with market returns to remain beneficial.
Strategy to Achieve Rs 10 Crore by 50
1. Optimise Mutual Fund Investments
Increase allocation to actively managed equity funds.
Diversify into large-cap, mid-cap, and hybrid funds for balanced growth.
Review the portfolio with a Certified Financial Planner every year.
2. Enhance Monthly SIP Contributions
Increase SIPs to Rs 2.5-3 lakh, matching your investment capacity.
Prioritise equity mutual funds for better compounding over 14 years.
Allocate a small portion to debt funds for stability.
3. Reevaluate Direct Equity and ETFs
Limit ETFs due to their passive nature and tracking errors.
Focus on direct equity only if you have time for active monitoring.
Otherwise, shift to professionally managed equity funds.
4. Diversify US ESOP Holdings
Reduce dependency on your company’s ESOPs.
Gradually liquidate and reinvest in Indian equity and international mutual funds.
Diversification will safeguard against market volatility and currency risks.
5. Leverage Provident Fund Efficiently
PF will act as a stable component of your retirement corpus.
Do not withdraw unless essential.
6. Address Real Estate Investments
Analyse the rental yield and growth potential of your properties.
If returns are below expectations, consider selling one property.
Reinvest proceeds in mutual funds for higher returns and liquidity.
Tax Efficiency and New Rules
Equity Mutual Funds
Long-term capital gains (LTCG) above Rs 1.25 lakh are taxed at 12.5%.
Short-term capital gains (STCG) are taxed at 20%.
Plan withdrawals strategically to reduce tax liability.
Debt Funds
Gains are taxed as per your income slab.
Use systematic withdrawal plans for efficient taxation.
ESOPs and Real Estate
ESOPs will attract capital gains tax upon sale.
Real estate gains are taxed under capital gains rules.
Invest gains from property sales into mutual funds to save on taxes.
Additional Recommendations
1. Adequate Life and Health Insurance
Ensure you have term insurance covering at least 10 times your annual income.
Maintain comprehensive health insurance for your family.
2. Emergency Fund
Keep six months’ expenses in a liquid fund or savings account.
This ensures liquidity during unforeseen circumstances.
3. Monitor and Rebalance Portfolio
Regularly review asset allocation with a Certified Financial Planner.
Adjust based on market conditions and financial milestones.
Final Insights
You are on the right track with your disciplined investing approach. To ensure you reach Rs 10 crore by 50, optimise your investments, enhance tax efficiency, and diversify risks. Focus on actively managed funds, reduce dependence on real estate, and leverage your high savings potential. Regular monitoring and strategic decisions will make your goal achievable.

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Asked by Anonymous - Nov 22, 2024Hindi
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Hello Ramalingam Ji, I am 44 years old, working in IT and live in Bengaluru. I am unmarried at this moment. I live in a rented house. Here are my investments breakups - 1.45 Cr in Equity Shares, 5 Lakhs in MF, 27 Lakhs in PPF, 20 Lakhs in EPF, 7 Lakhs in NPS, and 14 Lakhs in FD as an Emergency Fund. I have a health insurance of 30L apart from the office provided one. My monthly in hand salary about 2.2 Lakhs. And my monthly expenses including rent, insurances, sports/gym subscription, food and others comes about 75 - 80 Thousands a month. I invest 1.1 Lakhs in equity shares, 18 Thousands in RDs to meet my certain onetime expenditures in a years such as insurances, internet payments etc. I do not have any loans. How do you think I should go about so I could purchase a house/flat as well as have enough investments using which I could live comfortably. I also want to know if at all possible to retire by 50 or 55 years? will it even makes sense purchasing a house/flat since I have no one after me. Thanking you in advanced.
Ans: You are in a strong financial position. You have diverse investments and stable income. Your disciplined approach reflects a clear financial vision.

This response provides detailed insights into buying a house, early retirement, and optimising your investments.

Understanding Your Current Financial Health
1. Investments and Emergency Funds

Rs 1.45 crore in equity is a significant achievement.

Your Rs 14 lakh emergency fund is well-planned. It ensures liquidity during emergencies.

 

2. Monthly Income and Expenses

You save and invest a substantial portion of your Rs 2.2 lakh monthly salary.

Expenses are well-balanced, leaving you with Rs 1.1 lakh for investments.

 

3. Health Insurance Coverage

You have Rs 30 lakh health insurance, which safeguards against medical emergencies.

Office-provided insurance adds additional security.

House Purchase Consideration
1. Evaluate the Need for a House

A house is not necessary unless it enhances your quality of life.

With no dependents, consider renting for flexibility.

 

2. Financial Implications of Buying a House

Buying a house requires a long-term financial commitment.

EMIs will reduce your ability to save and invest aggressively.

 

3. Alternative Options

Continue renting if the cost is reasonable and suits your lifestyle.

Investing the funds earmarked for a house can yield better returns over time.

Early Retirement by 50 or 55
1. Analyse Monthly Expenses Post-Retirement

Estimate future monthly expenses, considering inflation.

Rs 75,000 today could become Rs 1.5 lakh in 15 years.

 

2. Calculate the Required Corpus

To withdraw Rs 1.5 lakh monthly, you need Rs 4.5 crore.

This corpus ensures financial independence throughout retirement.

 

3. Utilise Current Investments for Growth

Your investments in equity, MF, PPF, EPF, and NPS must compound consistently.

Diversify your portfolio to balance growth and stability.

Investment Optimisation
1. Focus on Equity Mutual Funds

Increase your MF investments for long-term growth.

Actively managed funds offer higher returns compared to index funds.

 

2. Avoid Direct Mutual Funds

Direct funds lack professional guidance and may lead to errors.

Regular funds through a Certified Financial Planner ensure optimised returns.

 

3. Maximise NPS Contributions

NPS provides additional tax benefits under Section 80CCD(1B).

It supports your retirement corpus with equity exposure and lower risk.

 

4. Reassess Fixed Deposits

Rs 14 lakh in FDs offers safety but lower returns.

Shift a portion to debt funds or balanced funds for better inflation protection.

Emergency Fund and Risk Management
1. Maintain Adequate Liquidity

Keep six months' expenses in liquid investments like FDs or short-term funds.

This ensures quick access to funds during emergencies.

 

2. Evaluate Insurance Adequacy

Your current health cover of Rs 30 lakh is sufficient.

Ensure critical illness or personal accident cover if not already included.

Retirement Income Planning
1. Generate Passive Income

Explore dividend-paying funds for steady income during retirement.

Consider systematic withdrawal plans (SWPs) post-retirement for tax efficiency.

 

2. Ladder Your Investments

Align investments to meet milestones like early retirement and healthcare needs.

Staggered withdrawals reduce risks during market downturns.

Tax Planning
1. Optimise Tax Benefits

Maximise contributions to tax-saving instruments like PPF and NPS.

Consider tax-efficient mutual fund categories to reduce liability.

 

2. Understand Capital Gains Taxation

Equity mutual funds' LTCG above Rs 1.25 lakh is taxed at 12.5%.

Short-term gains attract 20% tax, so plan redemptions wisely.

Final Insights
Early retirement and comfortable living are achievable for you. Focus on growing your corpus with equity and balanced investments. Renting a house is practical if buying doesn't align with your goals. Work with a Certified Financial Planner to optimise your investments and ensure a secure financial future.

Best Regards,

K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP,

Chief Financial Planner,

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Mutual Funds, Financial Planning Expert - Answered on Nov 25, 2024

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Hello Sir, I want to invest 5k per month in mutuals fund. Am targeting 15acs in next 16years. Can you pls suggest me good fund?
Ans: Investing Rs. 5,000 per month for 16 years to achieve Rs. 15 lakhs is a commendable goal. A systematic investment plan (SIP) in mutual funds can help achieve this. Your focus should be on selecting funds that align with your risk appetite and long-term horizon.

Understanding Your Target
Your target is Rs. 15 lakhs in 16 years.
This requires consistent returns from equity mutual funds.
Equity funds are ideal for long-term goals due to their growth potential.
Investment Strategy
Focus on Equity-Dominated Funds

Equity funds have the potential for higher long-term growth.
Diversify across large-cap, flexi-cap, and mid-cap funds.
Actively Managed Funds Preferred

Actively managed funds outperform index funds over long durations.
A good fund manager can provide better returns than passive funds.
Avoid Direct Funds

Investing through a Certified Financial Planner ensures professional advice.
Regular funds with guidance offer better portfolio tracking and rebalancing.
Monitor and Review Regularly

Review your investments yearly to stay aligned with your goal.
Make changes based on performance and market conditions.
Suggested Fund Categories
Large-Cap Funds

These funds provide stability and moderate growth.
They invest in well-established companies with strong performance records.
Flexi-Cap Funds

These funds invest across large, mid, and small-cap companies.
They offer flexibility and diversification.
Mid-Cap Funds

Mid-cap funds offer higher growth potential but come with moderate risk.
Suitable for long-term wealth creation.
Hybrid Funds

These funds balance equity and debt exposure.
They provide moderate risk with consistent returns.
Tax Considerations
Equity Fund Taxation

Long-term capital gains above Rs. 1.25 lakh are taxed at 12.5%.
Short-term capital gains are taxed at 20%.
Tax-Efficient Withdrawals

Plan withdrawals strategically to minimise tax liability.
Hold funds for the long term to benefit from favourable tax rates.
Other Recommendations
Build an Emergency Fund

Set aside at least six months’ expenses in a liquid fund.
This provides financial security during emergencies.
Stay Invested for the Entire Duration

Equity investments need time to grow and overcome volatility.
Avoid premature withdrawals to maximise returns.
Disciplined Investing

Continue SIPs without interruption to achieve your goal.
Market fluctuations should not deter your commitment.
Final Insights
With disciplined investing and the right fund selection, achieving Rs. 15 lakhs in 16 years is possible. Focus on equity funds for long-term growth and consult a Certified Financial Planner for professional guidance.

Best Regards,

K. Ramalingam, MBA, CFP
Chief Financial Planner

www.holisticinvestment.in
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