Anu, I have been married for 3 years now, and things are not good between me and my wife.
We have a kid of 2 years, but my wife is angry with me. She went to her home for pregnancy and she is not ready to come back to our house. I am not able to convince her to get her back to our home. Even my in-laws are not doing any effort to convince her.
I spoke to her regarding is she really interested in continuing this relationship, but she is not ready to break this relationship.
I am fed up of this and don't know what to do. Please help me.
Ans: Dear BPH,
I have no clue what led to this breakdown in your marriage. Whatever the reason, I wish the two of you know what this is doing to the child.
I am not judging either of you but there is something that is keeping her away from coming back. Kindly involve a Marriage therapist or any expert who can step in.
She needs to know that moving on or leaving, one of that has to happen. At least, the mind can fathom how to manage either of the paths.
From the little information that you have given, this is what I can guide you with.
Speak with her about involving a marriage therapist or you appeal to her with love and compassion to start the discussion for the way ahead.
All the best and make a move on this soon.