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Asked by Anonymous - Dec 06, 2023Hindi
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I am 41 and happily married, I and my ex (36 yrs) are stills in contact, we share almost everything as earlier. She has a problem with his husband as her husband is a sexual, she did not have sex with her husband from last 4 years in her 5 years of marriage and she even don't have kid with him. He has desire for sex and she wants to have with me (pre my marriage we both evolved in sexual), she told that she is facing depression due to noon full fillment of sexual desire. she told me openly that she want sex with me, not with anyone else. she talked about her sexual issue with her husband but he is not interested. What should I do? should i do as she wants and should I denied her and ignore her?

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
What are you doing? Are you some sort of a savior for a lady in distress?
You have mentioned that you are happily married...then why are you complicating your life by getting into the drama of someone else?
Sure, you know this person, but she is from your past and honestly the two of you do not owe anything to each other. She has a problem with her husband...what are you planning to do about it? Fill in for him? Is this some kind of joke? Do you understand the consequences this will have on your marriage?

Be a friend to your Ex and do the right thing...enable her to handle her problems...by involving you, she is just distracting herself away from the problems that she should face and overcome...instead by involving you. Temporary pleasure and some sort of permanent damage in your respective marriages is possible...
Act wisely...

All the best!

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