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Marriage counsellor - Answered on Mar 03, 2025

Dr Upneet Kaur is a medical professional and therapist based out of Amritsar.
After completing her bachelor’s degree in Ayurvedic medicine and surgery from the SKSS Ayurvedic College and Hospital, Sarabha, Punjab, in 2008, she worked as a medical officer at various multi-specialty hospitals in Punjab, handling both physical and mental patient care and clinical decision-making. She spent the next decade leading multidisciplinary teams at various levels.
Since 2022, she has been practising as a clinical psychologist and marriage counsellor.
Dr Upneet also holds an MBA in hospital management from Alagappa University, Tamil Nadu, and an MA in psychology from the Indira Gandhi National Open University.... more
Asked by Anonymous - Feb 13, 2025Hindi
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I (32)am in abusive relationship of husband(41)and daughter (12)both done my diploma ..now trying to pursue my degree(b.com).too..I am not financially independent..I don't have any support including friends family and parents too..am depressed i want to do my degree..but not able to complete due to toxic environment in home..how can I help myself

Ans: Hello mam,
I need to understand your problem in detail. Plz tell me what kind of toxic environment is there at your home and what difficulties are you facing to complete your degree?
Waiting for your reply
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I studied B.A unfortunately i failed in 1 subject then i married someone who even didn't support to study i stuck with all the plans gone now am 35 year old nobody allow to complete my degree in that days but now i don't have money i feel bad about my situation... i want to study BBA.LLB or BBA in fashion designing i searching for the couse or BBA and MBA in marketing i have so much confusion if i ask for regular degree everyone told me that u should go distance or online program but for me... i have already struggling i can't do any fancy world experience i can't do experiments now i just want to join regular program and need to achieve my goal help me how can i join which colleges is allow me on this age
Ans: I’m sorry to hear about your struggles. It’s never too late to pursue your dreams, and I’m here to help you find the best way to achieve your goals.

Based on your interests, you are considering pursuing a degree in BBA.LLB, BBA in fashion designing, or BBA and MBA in marketing. Pursuing a regular degree program may be challenging due to your financial situation and other constraints. However, there are many colleges and universities that offer distance or online programs that may be more suitable for you.

Here are some colleges and universities that offer distance or online programs in the fields you are interested in:

Indira Gandhi National Open University (IGNOU): IGNOU is a well-known university that offers distance learning programs in various fields, including law, fashion design, and management. They offer a Bachelor of Commerce and Bachelor of Law (B.Com LLB) program that may be of interest to you1. They also offer a Bachelor of Arts in Fashion Design (BAFD) program that can help you pursue your interest in fashion design. Additionally, they offer a Master of Business Administration (MBA) program that can help you pursue your interest in marketing.

Sikkim Manipal University (SMU): SMU is another well-known university that offers distance learning programs in various fields, including law, fashion design, and management. They offer a Bachelor of Business Administration and Bachelor of Law (BBA LLB) program that may be of interest to you4. They also offer a Bachelor of Science in Fashion Design (BScFD) program that can help you pursue your interest in fashion design. Additionally, they offer a Master of Business Administration (MBA) program that can help you pursue your interest in marketing.

Amity University Online: Amity University Online is a reputed university that offers online programs in various fields, including law, fashion design, and management. They offer a Bachelor of Business Administration and Bachelor of Law (BBA LLB) program that may be of interest to you. They also offer a Bachelor of Science in Fashion Design and Technology (BScFDT) program that can help you pursue your interest in fashion design. Additionally, they offer a Master of Business Administration (MBA) program that can help you pursue your interest in marketing.

Please note that the admission requirements and fees for these programs may vary depending on the university and program you choose. It is best to research the specific program you are interested in and consult with the university to understand the requirements and process.

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Asked by Anonymous - May 24, 2024Hindi
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I am a 45 year old housewife. I have been married for 23-24 years and I have children who have grown up. I have had a lot of life experiences in my life. I was mentally abused, because of that i lost self confidence. As I am not financially independent so i can't take any wise decision for me . I feel like illiterate and i dont have any work experience. Now a i feel weak by mentally and physically. today I feel that it is very important to be financial independent. In this all situations i don't understand what to do become financially independent. Please suggest.
Ans: Path to Financial Independence for Housewives
Your situation is complex, but achievable goals exist. You can achieve financial independence with the right approach.

Acknowledging Your Strengths
Recognize your life experiences as strengths.

Your journey has equipped you with unique skills and resilience.

This foundation is crucial for building financial independence.

Your dedication to your family shows strong organizational and management skills.

These skills are valuable in many professional settings.

Assessing Your Current Situation
Evaluate your financial status.

List all income sources and expenses.

Understand your financial position clearly.

This will help identify areas for improvement.

Assess your skills and interests.

Identify what you enjoy and where you excel.

This can guide you towards suitable job opportunities.

Enhancing Your Education and Skills
Consider further education or skill development.

Many online courses are affordable and flexible.

They allow you to learn at your own pace.

Focus on skills that can lead to employment.

Computer skills, communication, and project management are in demand.

Exploring Employment Opportunities
Start by looking for part-time or freelance work.

This allows you to gain experience without overwhelming yourself.

Jobs like virtual assistant, content writing, or tutoring can be good starts.

These roles often require skills you already possess.

Starting a Home-Based Business
Consider starting a home-based business.

This can be an excellent way to use your skills.

For example, cooking, crafting, or tutoring can be monetized.

A home-based business offers flexibility and control over your time.

Building a Support Network
Seek support from friends, family, or online communities.

A strong support network can provide encouragement and advice.

Connecting with others in similar situations can be empowering.

Financial Planning and Management
Work with a Certified Financial Planner (CFP).

A CFP can help you create a financial plan tailored to your needs.

They will guide you in budgeting, saving, and investing wisely.

Regular funds investing through a Mutual Fund Distributor (MFD) with CFP credential is beneficial.

They provide professional management and expertise.

Creating a Budget
Develop a budget to track your income and expenses.

This helps in identifying areas where you can save money.

A budget is a vital tool for managing your finances.

Saving and Investing
Start saving a portion of your income.

Even small amounts can grow over time.

Consider investing in actively managed funds.

These funds have professional managers who strive to outperform the market.

Avoiding Debt
Be cautious about taking on new debt.

Focus on paying off existing debts.

This will improve your financial stability.

Health and Well-being
Take care of your physical and mental health.

Exercise regularly and maintain a balanced diet.

Seek professional help if you struggle with mental health issues.

A healthy body and mind are crucial for achieving financial independence.

Continuous Learning
Stay updated with the latest trends in your field of interest.

Continuous learning will enhance your skills and employability.

Setting Realistic Goals
Set short-term and long-term financial goals.

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Review and adjust your goals regularly.

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You have the strength and resilience to achieve financial independence.

Take small steps towards your goals every day.

Seek support and guidance when needed.

Your journey is unique, and every step forward is a success.

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NEET, Medical, Pharmacy Careers - Answered on Apr 06, 2025

Asked by Anonymous - Apr 03, 2025Hindi
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Hello sir, Saranya from chennai. Doing final year B pharm. Heard about gpat from my friends How to do this entrance exam for joining pg course Please tell me if any other entrance exam is there for pg
Ans: Hi Saranya,

As you mentioned, many pharmacy graduates are considering the GPAT after completing their undergraduate studies in pharmacy. However, there are several more options available for pursuing a postgraduate degree in pharmacy today.

Here are the options for pursuing a PG in pharmacy:

1. GPAT: You can appear for the GPAT exam, and if you qualify, you will be eligible for a scholarship.

2. NIPER: You can also take the entrance exam for NIPER (National Institute of Pharmaceutical Education and Research) campuses, which include Ahmedabad, Guwahati, Hajipur, Hyderabad, Kolkata, Raebareli, and Mohali. Qualifying here also makes you eligible for a scholarship.

3. PG-CUET: A new option is the PG-CUET (Common University Entrance Test), which is being conducted by the NTA (National Testing Agency) under the Department of Higher Education.

4. Government Institutions: State governments will announce admission through advertisements. Admission will be based on marks or an entrance exam.

5. Deemed Universities: Some deemed universities offer admission through their own entrance exams.

Historically, GPAT and NIPER were the primary options for national-level aspirants. Starting from the academic year 2025-26, the NTA will also conduct the PG-CUET for national-level admissions.

I have included more details about the PG-CUET below.
PGCUET (CODE - SCQP23)
The Common University Entrance Test (CUET) is a National level Test conducted for admission into PG programmes in Central, State, and Participating Universities/ Institutions. The Common University Entrance Test CUET (PG) will provide a common platform and equal opportunity to candidates across the country, especially those from rural and other remote areas, and help establish better connections with the Universities. A single application form will enable the Candidates to cover a wide outreach and be part of the admission process to various Central and participating Universities. NTA has been assigned the responsibility of conducting the Common University Entrance Test (CUET).

Under Participating universities/instituttions are: Central and State Universities, Deemed and Private universities and Government institutuions.

Candidate must only select the test paper code. As the list of universities is dynamic and keeps on changing during the registration period.

A candidate can apply for two (02) Test Papers by paying the application fee (details mentioned at point 18).

A candidate can further apply for (02) additional Test Papers by paying additional application fees as applicable and maximum of four (04) test paper codes can be selected.

Mode of exam is CBT (Computer Based Test).
All Question Papers will be MCQ type. • Candidates can choose a maximum of four question paper codes. • The comprehension section in the General Paper will be available in either English or Hindi, based on the candidate's preference indicated during registration. • The duration of the Exam would be 90 Minutes. • The Question paper will have 75 Questions. • Four marks will be awarded for each correct answer and one mark will be deducted for each wrong answer.
• Language papers will be in the concerned language only.
• M.Tech/Higher Sciences will be in English only.
•Acharya papers will be in Sanskrit except for Hindu Studies, Indian Knowledge System, and Baudha Darshan.
• Humanities, Sciences, and Common papers would be bilingual (English and Hindi).
• The examination would be conducted in 2-3 shifts.
• The English version of the questions in all the question papers except languages and Acharya will be taken as final.

Syllabus: The Examination Syllabus will be uploaded on the Exam.

For the current year the examination dates (13.03.2025 to 31.03.2025) got over. iI THINK YOU HAVE MISSED IT. DONT WORRY. NEXT YEAR YOU CAN TRY OR YOU CAN ASSIST YOUR JUNIORS.

ADMISSION: Admissions will be handled at the level of each of the participating Universities for their respective programmes. After the declaration of the CUET(PG) 2025 results, the respective Universities will declare the counselling/admission schedule and merit list based on the CUET (PG) - 2025 score and any other criteria of participating universities. Please see the website of the concerned university for details regarding admission. There may be admission counselling by the universities with additional fees.

Applicants as per eligibility can apply for multiple test paper codes in one registration form. Candidates should not apply through duplicate or multiple forms, which may lead to the cancellation of all his/her Application Forms

CODE FOR PHARMACY: SCQP-23
SYLLABUS [POC, PIC, MATHS, OC - II, MICRO, APH (I&II), PHARM ENGINEERING, DCH PHARMACY, PHARM ANALYSIS (I -IV ), COGNOSY, CEUTICS-II, BIOCHEM, JURIS, COSMETICS, PHARM TECH, MED CHEM I-III, PHARMACOLOGY I-IV, BIOTECH, DRUG DESIGN, MARKETING, FOOD SCIENCE, QA, MANAGEMENT] HAS SHARED IN NTA WEBSITE.

THIS YEAR 57 INSTITUTIONS PARTICIPATED FOR THE SAID PURPOSE. NEXT YEAR THIS MAY INCREASE.

THE ADVANTAGES ARE NOT ONLY CAN PURSUE PHARMACY, APART FROM PHARMACY, YOU CAN PURSUE - DATA SCIENCE & AI, PUBLIC HEALTH, BIOINFORMATICS, PACKAGING TECH, ENVIRONMENTAL MANAGEMENT, GEOSPATIAL SCIENCE, PG DIP IN AI DIGITAL IMAGING, HEALTH CARE DATA, GEOINFORMATICS, PB-PHARMD, M.PHARM-PV, MSc- MICRO, MSc-NUTRITION, DIETICS.

I believe this information will be beneficial for your future education.

POOCHO. LIFE CHANGE KARO!

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Asked by Anonymous - Mar 09, 2025Hindi
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I am a 12th student now in state board of tamil Nadu and I am a government school student what is the minimum requirement for me to join mbbs in AFMC medical College
Ans: The following requirements are mandatory for admission to AFMC.

Age: 17-24yrs
Academic qualitfication: FIRST ATTEMPT with English, Physics, Chemistry and Biology/ Bio-technology taken simultaneously and securing not less than 60% of the aggregate marks in these three science subjects taken together and not less than 50% marks in English and 50% marks in each of the science subjects. They must have also passed an examination in Mathematics of the tenth standard.
Candidates seeking admission for MBBS course at AFMC Pune will have to mandatorily qualify the NEET UG 2024 Examination conducted by National Testing Agency (NTA). 11. Eligible candidates who are interested to join AFMC, Pune to pursue the MBBS course will have to mandatorily register and apply for AFMC, Pune on DGHS

The shortlisted candidates will be called for screening which comprises of Test of English Language and Reasoning (ToELR), Psychological Assessment Test (PAT), Interview and Medical Examination at AFMC, Pune.

ToELR & PAT - Test of English Language and Reasoning (ToELR) in the form of Computer Based Test (CBT) and also Psychological Assessment Test (PAT) to be conducted at AFMC, Pune only for candidates shortlisted for interview. (t) Written Examination Score - Score obtained in NEET (UG) 2024 (720 marks) added to ToELR Score (80 marks) divided by 4 to get a score out of 200. (u) Final Score - Written examination score (200 marks) + Interview marks (50 marks).

MEDICAL FITNESS: MANDATORY AS PER AFMC

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