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Asked by Anonymous - Oct 13, 2025Hindi
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My 31-year-old is not motivated about his career or future. Despite our repeated advice and support, he shows no sense of responsibility and wastes most of his time online playing games, scrolling through Instagram. I am worried about his future. How can I tell him to be more serious about his life and career?

Ans: Dear Anonymous,
Do you not think that a 31-year old does not need to be advised by his parents and should by now have taken on responsibilities just like anyone at his age would!
He's not worried about his future and you are? By the way, where is he getting money from for his expenses? If you are funding all this, please STOP. Also ask him to pitch in for household expenses in case he is living in the same house.
Once he realizes that there are no free meals, he will either get a job or work harder or he will move out of the house. Either way, it's a hope that he will start to get responsible and act his age.

All the best!
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My son got 94.79 persentile and ranl crl 81537 , OBC NCL 26047 home state ANDHRA PRADESH. Is it possible to gets seat in NITS , IIITS , Gifts
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Based on your son's rank and domicile, he has a good chance of securing a seat in several NITs, IIITs, and GFTIs, particularly through the JoSAA/CSAB counseling rounds. However, it will require some patience.

He is likely to secure a seat in Chemical, Biotech, Metallurgical, or Civil Engineering at NIT Andhra Pradesh. Admission to Electrical or Mechanical Engineering may be a bit more challenging, but it could still be possible in the later rounds, depending on the availability of seats at the time of counseling.

For other NITs, there are promising opportunities in lower-tier or newer NITs. He has a good chance at NIT Srinagar, Mizoram, Nagaland, Manipur, Sikkim, and Arunachal Pradesh for ECE, EEE, Mechanical, and Civil Engineering. In NIT Raipur, NIT Hamirpur, and NIT Goa, he may find opportunities for Civil or Materials Engineering in the later rounds.

Regarding IIITs, many new IIITs have higher closing ranks, which makes them more accessible to your son's rank. Possible IIITs include Manipur, Bhagalpur, Dharwad, and Agartala. In Kalyani, CSE and ECE options might also be available.

A better option for your son would be GFTIs, where he can secure a seat in institutions such as Silchar, SLIET, and GKV (Haridwar).

Encourage him to participate actively in the counseling process until he achieves his goal.

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