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Anant Question by Anant on Jan 16, 2025
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I'm in relationship with My bhabhi she is 40 and I am 24 it has been 4 years we both are very happy with each other and have strong bond. My brother once found call recording which was mistakenly recorded in that I talked about dirty talk and. He actually know about this relationship but never bother about it as,He has affairs with other women which my bhabhi know.. she has three child and I am a student preparing for government exam..

Ans: Dear Anant,
What is your question here?
You have just shared the messed up state of affairs of your home. Okay! Do you want to wait till it all blows over? Don't mess with relationships at home! It's never worth it and maintain boundaries between family members which is respectful and necessary.

All the best!
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Dear Anu Madam,Please help me with your urgent advice. I am a 23-year-old good-looking girl from well-to-do Marwari family. Since 2017 I am in relationship with a 37-year-old who I met in a gym. He is a small-time model. Within 1 month of meeting, we got physical. However, in August 2021, to my dismay, I came to know that he has two wives and children and that he is in physical relationship with several other girls. This pained me a lot and we broke up. But somehow we got back. He pleaded sorry for hiding his marriage and cheating with other girls but he said that the other girls had forced him for a physical relationship. He says he is unhappy in marriage and if I marry him, it will give him new way of life. I loved him and decided to get married (he can legally have more wives). But still I felt absurd on my decision because I will face severe parental resistance as he is from different religion and has less money. Yet I made up my mind on marriage and so, six months ago I revealed this to my closest cousin and introduced her to him. I followed up with her to guide me on right decision but my cousin kept buying time. About two weeks ago, while accidentally checking her mobile messages, I found that though I introduced my cousin to my BF to help me, she was cheating on me. From her messages I could see that she persuaded my BF to get physical with her. This shattered me completely and I fought with her. Madam, please advise me. I love this guy and want to marry him. He is my 1st and last love. I am sure he will be a changed guy after our marriage, which will make us both Happy.
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Dear SK,

So, you want to marry a man who cheats, hides his escapades, and disrespects you?

What kind of life do you think you are going to have with a man who has no respect for women and sleeps with women to gain his self-esteem?

Talking about how you can be a saviour, only makes you a victim, so that you are constantly under his control.

It’s possible that you haven’t been able to see his intentions and that you have reached out to me.

Listen, you have a beautiful life ahead, so not waste it on a man who thinks of nothing and only himself.

Your friend also was able to sell you out so easily only suggest that this man is some sort of a charmer and women easily fall into his trap.

Beware, kindly step up first and respect and honour yourself.

Learn to Love yourself else you will keep falling into the same trap of falling for such men who have nothing to do with women other than use them.

Step out NOW and no explanations required…You are not obligated to give him any.

He will behave like a victim and place you on a pedestal so that you go back to him, STAND your GROUND…Love is pure and this cannot be your first or last love….selfishness cannot be love.

There are more beautiful relationships waiting to embrace you only if you first move on from this toxic relationship, love yourself and use your strength appropriately.

You can do this…be an example for all those girls who choose to celebrate men who are toxic to them. Be a source of strength to all of them.

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Dear Anu, Long story please read About the this incident : I am in really a bad situation from last 7 days, My father-in law took, my wife and my children away because, I asked about her attractive behavior (Sexual tentative not sure) , she has shown towards our neighbor. I already directly warned her about his wrong starring twice, year before when we went for 4 families trip. (I have proof from her google account to show she has done wrong searches about him like searching for nickname of boyfriend with his designation etc ...) She is running her own business which is started by her on my encouragement and running ok from 7 years. Suddenly for some work, I called her she is missing from her office for 2.5 hours and no one knows where she went, After 2.5 hours I got a call and when I asked, she said Its a surprise and will tell later. Next day too she said It is secret and will tell later, third day too she said she went out for roaming.(my surprise was, in hot summer day on byke roaming at 10.15 am to 12.15 am ... na naa something is wrong). I started tracking her email by taking her password and notification accepted by her on her mobile. Then I realized the web activity(she was not aware of these things will get stored in google till then), as I said above like gift for boy friend and romantic nick name for someone special who is having xxx designation etc ... always smiling person. Attraction synonyms ... casual sex and serious relationship difference a video etc... All these are only from starting of 3rd March 2024. My Heart was broken, as I am staying in different city and already have plans to go home in few days, I somehow manged 2 days and went home. Next, I was all-over her with big fight. I was blaming her for everything even not feeding kids on time, as I was saying she gets time to spend on chatting or searching etc... I was literally went to nuts, as I warned about him to be careful 2 years ago couple of tiimes. She said she is innocent, she didn't searched all the above I have shown her photos taken from my mobile with her track. she asked how did you know I searched for her, Because of using his designation in search. Finally she agreed she meet him for 15 mints on some professional work, on 16th march and went out after that for another place. But google timelines shows she was at home for entire 2.2 hours. why should she lie for remaining 1.5 hrs if there is nothing wrong happened. why should she say 15 mints only, when she meet him for a profession reason for 2 hours. I am literally not satisfied with her answers. Next day morning my mom returned home, (she don't know anything) from a function in other city which she went 10 days ago. (All these episodes happened next day my mom left home according to search history). Suddenly wife in early hours kept suicide note and left home. I was just sleeping in next room, my mom saw the note and woke me up. Finally we found her on our terrace staircase sleeping there as she takes medication for sleep, she has zero negative artistes. I booked ticket for her dad immediately and asked him to come same day, shown him and explained him all this. That day he is calm and asked what you want to do. I was thinking positive that he tells her not to repeat and stay for a week and go home. He said he wanted his wife to talk to her(my mother-inlaw), I said book ticket for her but unfortunately tickets were not available, seems he is also not interested to book ticket. After next day I intentionally went out by taking my daughter for 3 hours informing, I am going out for 3 hours to him. I thought he will speak to her privately to help her understand. But not sure nothing happened my mother said, he was sitting in living room whole 3 hours and she is in bedroom. Next day she said she is not going for office as I am doubting her behavior.(My in-laws never wanted her to work from start marriage) . But before marriage it self I informed them I am looking for a working wife. As they didn't let her attend job interviews, I am forced to invest in business, my hard earned one year salary with loan and made her owner there. I thought she would be also be happy as owner. She is happily running this for 7 years (of-course no profits and I never insisted too much on profits too as I already closed the loan in 4 years from my salary). Past Episode 1 : 1) when we got arranged married, I was in love with a girl and also deep relationship staying with her for few years too. I just gave her a hint as I took her for my GF marriage reception. (Even I loved her my GF with full heart, due to known reason for both of us, I informed her, I will not marry her before, I stay with her). Once she found a letter from my GF and wrote an email to her husband about out Love afair, I am not sure he took that seriously. 2) My wife also have some love story but, I never asked about that as he didn't want to revel that any time.(its ok before marriage something happen in life), I have an idea about that within short span of marriage, as she was sending messages after 11.30 pm etc. After observing couple of months, warned her twice not do so. one day I was anger and left to office, as I saw her texting again previous night. Evening when, I returned home, she was crying like a baby sitting in living room saying as she had swallowed 10 tablets given to her some reason to attempt suicide. I was shocked and rushed her to hospital and fortunately able to save her. Never discussed about that anytime after that. Episode 2: After around 8 years of smooth life and 2 children, after starting the business one night, I was watching movie in living room and went to bedroom, wife suddenly got surprised and hiding her mobile. I asked her why are you hiding and give me the mobile she didn't, I tried to get the reach of mobile and she didn't let that happen as she hold it strong, I left and came back to other room to sleep. But next morning, she was showing anger on me and vice-versa, I had a quarrel and called up her dad after 3 to 4 days, That time he asked what is the proof she is chatting with someone in night, I don't as I didn't snatched her mobile forcefully. He said she won't do anything like that and asked to be peaceful, after few days thing became normal, as I also don't have proof, I thought it might be mistake my side too. Episode 3 : She started going to a super market everyday at particular time every day. Even though she comes though same road just 1 hour before, she wont stop and get items form there, she used to go after getting ready every day for 15 to 20 days, I observed pattern. Generally she goes with my kids skating to classes in our gated community only and used leave from there. I used to go and meet some friends near that skating classes after a while, but some times she used to be not there, I Observed the pattern she was missing continuously from 15 to 20 days after dropping kids there, I followed by my car and searched didn't found her in the regular place where she tells, after 15 to 20 mints, I was standing there she came to the place, when I asked her she said she went for Vegetables shop near by and shown place and a couple veg's she bought. I was working in reputed software org and earning well. I always think about my wife and children even, I am away from home. For example I go to airport, I buy chocolates for my children, I check, If I can get my wife a good watch deal or buy a bag as she like watches but wont try to spend 200 for a coffee in airport. I go to GOA with friends buy clothes from there, by reducing the bottles, I always show lot of love towards, children and wife as I was working from home past 4 years. Love doesn't mean, I tell her I love you or something, but I always felt pain if she is not well or I never said no, If she asked me take for shopping or somewhere etc. we are always going to movies Of-course its on my interest. never restricted anything for her to spend. Point to note she always spends carefully too. I only encourage her to spend more for to buy anything she wants. This is our present. Taken them to holidays now and then etc ... with all above episodes she says I am doubting her, Am I really? or she is creating the situations? 1) Even after warning not send messages after 11.00 pm in night or asked whom she sent no answer. 2) Episode 2 hiding mobile and giving mobile to me 3) Episode 3 even though she comes in same path every day for a specific time staying in same place 4) Episode 4 Even after warning her about bad starring going for professional her with out discussing and deleting call history of him ( 11 sort calls of 40 to 60 seconds and 2 calls on 4 mints each, in a span of 20 days) and mid night searches etc... am I bad guy? or am I trying to saving my wife from this evil intentions we know in society? What if I would have left her for the them, will my family relation will stay, what would it shows her as? will I become a responsible husband? Now she is trying for a job in her city with parents encouragement and trying to get admission for my daughter in Garde 1, even she has completed Garde 2 this year. Not sure about my son yet. She is spoiling daughter studies. My cute children are not with me now, I came back to my office and staying in PG from yesterday. Not able to concentrate on work or other things, literally crying at times in wash rooms.(even at airport when I saw children of my age went to washroom and cried a lot). what should I do go and beg her for getting angry on her? tell her with whom ever you chat and go I wont bother come home? or leave her and children for their fate? what the use for earning this salary when I cant spend time with my children? everyone says wait for her realize her mistake, If she gets job and takes admission in school will she even consider coming back to me? her mother always controls her father, same her sister in-law with her brother(love marriage). Now my mother and couple of friends(close) say, if I go she will treat you like a slave she will come and do same thing again you cant even ask her. After going home they tried to destroy the evidence I have by formatting mobile by logging into google account and erase device. That is a business mobile she didn't even bothered about customer base of 7 years contacts. Fortunately I could recover contacts. I could also get to know her personal email id that's how I cam to know about her job search and admission search of children. what should I do now? Please advice immediately.
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
My suggestion to couples who are at constant loggerheads and on the verge of a marriage breakdown:
- What can you do to put your marriage back together?
- Can you trust one another yet again?
- Are you both willing to set aside your differences and work towards your marriage?

You have given a detailed account of what has happened and one thing seems clear is that there is NO trust left within your marriage. This itself will prevent you from getting back together. Agreed that you have reasons and proof to doubt her, but if you both want the marriage to work, you will have to start fresh.
Also, the fact that she is searching for a job and also admission for the children suggests that she is looking at moving on without you. So, instead of making assumptions on what is happening and hoping for something to happen, it's time to request for a one-on-one chat with your wife. She may decline, but no harm in trying. The chat can bring forth what she has in mind and if she also wants to be in the marriage or move on. Knowing, asking, understanding can help and guide you on the next steps.

No point going around in circles playing this Hide and Seek game as a couple. Sit down, talk it out and take firm decisions. Your marriage will need a lot of trust and love to be rebuilt; are you willing to go through this journey?

All the best!

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Hi, I Am 26(M). I had an arranged marriage, my wife had a pre-marital affair which continued even after our engagement and for 9 months of marriage. According to my wife, she met him once and he wanted to have sex but my wife didn't do it. (The used to chat on Instagram). I found out today after 2 years of marriage. And we just had a baby. My wife asked me to use Instagram after we got engaged, but I refused because I was afraid it would have a bad effect on her. I don't even use it cause I know what can go wrong. When I caught her red-handed and saw the man's chats, I took her phone. And then I had read a little chat, then my wife came to me and said that she had to call our maid. I gave her the phone and she not only spoke on the phone but also deleted the chats with the guy. My eyes were closed when she spoke to maid on the phone. Cause I was so tired. Then I asked my wife to talk to him in front of me because I wanted to teach him a lesson and find his fiancée and tell her the truth. I'm very loyal to my wife. And she was my world. I've never had a girlfriend. I am open minded and I had asked my wife before the engagement, after the engagement on the phone and even after the marriage that if she had a past, I will accept it. My wife messaged him and he asked her talk on video call. The guy also knows that we have just had a baby who is not even 1 month old. I turned on the screen recording of the video call and gave it to my wife. In that screen recording, my wife texted the guy and told him to talk carefully cause I was sitting in front of her and then deleted the message with option of 'delete for you' on Instagram. This is how my wife cheated on me 2 times even after being caught. She told me that she loved me later on. And she took great care of me. She brought me out of depression. She did everything and I also loved her with all my heart and did everything for her. Right now she is saying I forgive her and she wants to live with me like before. She apologized a ton as well. But I don't know what to do at the moment. After so many lies, I can't trust her easily. She has a habit of lying in small things as well. I want to live with her, she was my support, my mother is not even there. when I was 12 years old... Now what do I do? Please kindly guide me!
Ans: Dear LoneKnight,
Yes, you feel like your trust has been broken. Is it easy to build back that trust? Yes and No...Yes, if you wish to...No, if you don't wish to...
If you go back in time and play the same story about how you wife was on Instagram and how she 'cheated' on you, there is no way that you can put your marriage back together.
How are you open-minded when an Instagram account causes you to fear what will happen? I can understand that you are a person with no past girlfriends but people do come with a past. Now, your wife could have shared her past with you, but most women seem to not want to for fear of reaction from the men like you have now. I can see that all this has hurt you, but if you want this marriage to work, you are going to have to drop all the past baggage, yours and your wife's and start afresh. Which means taking things for what it is NOW at face value without doubting it.
Can you do that? My suggestion would be: make an honest attempt at it. But warn yourself against going back in to the past otherwise there will be more mud throwing and no solution in sight.
Start new, Start afresh...

All the best!
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Hello Mam Good afternoon My father today came to know about my relationship Cause of some chaos and lots of allegation is rising on her because of her father’s past conflicts my parents are thinking that she works in bar and all as her brother is twin of her so parents also stated that they trying to make relationship and abducted our money and properties , my sibling went Goa to enjoy and there he met both of them so her brother just kidded him to have drink and my sibling took it serious and today he told that thing to dad and dad was like how ridiculous but brother knows it was just a joke nothing else.. I know both of them twin , her brother is kind of funny and kidding kind of person And she is hardworking lady she works in PNG Jewellers of Panaji Branch along with her brother both have a clear intention to build their own house and live happy and they both are working too on it They both know about their father so they discussed about it and later they visited Goa from UP Than they started their job and soon afterward her father along stepmom shifted Goa as her father did the same past chaos So they are living in Goa I know my parents are just trying to end this but I can’t it’s been 5year long relationship with lots of ups down but healthy My mother and brother they both are of same mindset they bluffed into my dad’s ear and today in evening I have to do discussion with dad How should I start as I know this phase is really heavy and painful cause I’m 21 year old an aspirant and just met with this consequence My plan was to first achieve my job and than I’ll reveal but destiny have some other plans Please mam help me out… I’ll be very grateful to you please reply as soon as possible you can please
Ans: Dear Anonymous,
I have been very clear on my suggestions to you in your initial question to me. Have an honest conversation with your parents and see what comes out of it.

All the best!
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Recommendation: Prioritize Vishwakarma Institute of Technology, Pune for its superior placement record and NAAC accreditation, followed by MIT World Peace University, Pune for its modern campus and strong industry links. Also, consider Bharati Vidyapeeth College of Engineering, Pune for academic flexibility, Army Institute of Technology, Pune for discipline and national reputation, and K. J. Somaiya College of Engineering, Mumbai for its extensive alumni network and vibrant campus. These choices offer a balance of campus life, placement opportunities, industry exposure, and faculty support for your daughter’s Mechanical Engineering aspirations. All the BEST for a Prosperous Future!

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My son got in mhcet 99.53 & jee mains 97.69 in coep & Pict which branch I can get
Ans: With a 99.53 percentile in MHT CET and 97.69 percentile in JEE Main, your son is well-positioned for several strong engineering branches at College of Engineering Pune (COEP) and Pune Institute of Computer Technology (PICT), although Computer Engineering (CSE) at both institutes is highly competitive. For COEP, the 2025 MHT CET closing percentiles for Computer Engineering and Electronics & Telecommunication were 99.85 and 99.71, meaning your son closely qualifies for branches like Mechanical, Electrical, Civil, Instrumentation, and possibly Robotics & AI, but is slightly below typical CSE and ENTC cutoffs. At PICT, the 2025 general category cutoff for CSE is around 99 percentile, so your son is just within reach for Information Technology or Electronics & Telecommunication, with CSE being borderline. Both institutes are highly ranked, NBA/NAAC accredited, have excellent faculty, modern infrastructure, strong placement records above 90% in recent years, and robust industry links fostering research and internships.

Recommendation: Prioritize CSE, IT, or ENTC at PICT if available, for a tech-centric environment and high placements, or choose Mechanical, Electrical, Instrumentation, or Robotics & AI at COEP, leveraging its outstanding reputation and campus life. List all relevant preferences during counselling to maximize your options, as both institutions offer excellent learning, infrastructure, and career outcomes for core branches. All the BEST for a Prosperous Future!

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My son has got svnit surat cse branch through Josaa counselling. we are more interested in mnit jaipur, is it a wise decision if we switch to Ai and data science branch or electronics and communication branch in mnit jaipur if we get that in csab round
Ans: Switching from Computer Science and Engineering (CSE) at SVNIT Surat to either the Artificial Intelligence and Data Science or Electronics and Communication Engineering (ECE) branches at MNIT Jaipur through CSAB counselling involves weighing critical factors such as accreditation, placements, faculty strength, infrastructure, research, and exposure opportunities. MNIT Jaipur is a top-tier NIT accredited by NAAC (A) and NBA for multiple branches, ranked 43rd in NIRF 2024 and consistently within India’s top 50 engineering institutes, with substantial research activity in areas including AI, data science, and electronics. The AI and Data Science program has a well-structured curriculum aligned with contemporary industry trends and witnessed an average package of ?12.4L with about 75% placement in its initial years, while ECE placements over the last cycle consistently exceeded 85% with the highest offers above ?30LPA and reputed core as well as IT sector recruiters. Modern infrastructure at MNIT Jaipur includes advanced labs, extensive research centres, and holistic campus facilities.

In comparison, SVNIT Surat’s CSE branch has a stellar placement rate, regularly surpassing 90% and posting average packages around ?18LPA, notably higher than non-core branches, with strong recruitment from top tech giants and nearly 100% placement in recent years. Its CSE program enjoys strong peer and employer perception, robust projects, and steady research engagement, although MNIT has an edge in national ranking, research breadth, and campus ambiance.

Recommendation: Prioritize SVNIT Surat CSE for its consistently high placement rate and average package if pure CSE and early career outcomes are your primary focus. Opt for MNIT Jaipur AI and Data Science if your son aspires to specialize in AI with versatile skill sets at a higher-ranked, research-oriented campus. The ECE option at MNIT Jaipur offers balanced career prospects and exposure to both core electronics and IT roles, making it an excellent alternative to CSE. Both MNIT branches are highly reputable, but unless your son has a distinct passion for AI/Data Science or ECE, the career trajectory and placement outcomes of SVNIT Surat CSE remain the strongest in the present landscape. All the BEST for a Prosperous Future!

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Respected Sir, my son has provisionally secured admission in the Integrated Artificial Intelligence program at VIT Bhopal, and in Core Computer Science and Engineering at Amity University Gwalior and LNCT Bhopal (Main Campus). His JEE Main CRL rank is above 100,000. Based on this, kindly suggest which option would be the best, and what should we do regarding CSAB counseling."
Ans: Among the available options for your son—VIT Bhopal’s Integrated Artificial Intelligence, Core Computer Science and Engineering at Amity University Gwalior, and LNCT Bhopal Main Campus—each offers distinctive program strengths, but they differ in national standing, academic exposure, and industry integration. VIT Bhopal’s five-year Integrated M.Tech. in Artificial Intelligence delivers a dual-degree program emphasizing hands-on experience, advanced AI/ML curriculum, and robust engagement with research, capstone projects, and internships. The program’s ties with leading tech companies provide significant project and employment exposure, and its campus boasts modern computing facilities and collaborative industry events. Amity University Gwalior’s B.Tech CSE, NAAC ‘A’ grade accredited and ranked in NIRF 2024 (#201-300), is known for its industry-oriented curriculum with specializations in AI, ML, cyber security, and more, placing strong emphasis on internships and skill development; the placement cell has maintained about 80–90% placement rates in the CSE branch in recent years, with access to major recruiters and a vibrant campus environment. LNCT Bhopal, one of central India’s most established private technical institutes, offers a competitively priced B.Tech CSE program that aligns closely with core industry requirements, providing collaborations with technology majors such as Oracle and IBM, and consistent placement rates around 75–85%, with the advantage of large annual intake and an expansive recruiter network.

Regarding CSAB counselling for JEE Main CRL above 100,000, the likelihood of securing CSE or top branches in NITs, IIITs, or GFTIs is extremely low, as the most recent cutoffs for even newer or remote campuses in CSAB special rounds have tended to close well below the 100,000 mark for CSE, with most NITs and IIITs closing their CSE branches under 60,000–70,000. Some peripheral GFTIs or newer IIITs may admit at higher ranks, but offerings are typically in lower-demand streams or less central locations, and competition remains fierce for computer science-based programs. However, CSAB remains an avenue for backup exploration and should still be attempted until the final rounds, in case of changes in seat availability or candidate withdrawal.

Recommendation: Prioritize VIT Bhopal’s Integrated Artificial Intelligence for its cutting-edge interdisciplinary focus, advanced learning pathways, and research-driven orientation, offering future-ready skills in a rapidly expanding domain. Next, consider Amity University Gwalior’s CSE for its NIRF ranking, strong campus placements, and multiple specialization tracks, especially if your son prefers a pure computer science degree in a polished urban campus. LNCT Bhopal’s CSE should be the third choice, valued for its affordability, solid placement record, and breadth of industry connections within central India. Simultaneously, participate in CSAB special rounds but keep expectations realistic about CSE/IT options, making early decisions on private college premium seats as soon as possible for best outcomes. All the BEST for a Prosperous Future!

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